so I have trust issues and my boyfriend gave me his password to his myspace account so I went on and I found some girl from canada talking to him and telling him that she loves him and wants to be with him forever!! and he said the same back I called him crying and he said that he just said that to play along but he has been talking to this girl for a very long time and I dont know what to do!! what should I do?? because I feel so heartbroken and I dont know if he is telling me the truth or not because the email wasnt something anyone could just make up off the top of their head!
2007-05-25 12:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is an old saying ~ if you listen to the conversations of others, you may not hear anything you like.
You have broken into his privacy and now you don't like what you find. He may be playing along with this other girl, or he may love her. But if he loves her, why is he with YOU?
It's very hard to have a relationship without trust, and part of being a jealous type of person is spending too much time thinking about the other person and not enough time having a life of your own.
Spend some time developing your own interests and activities, and stop snooping. You will find it makes you a more interesting person, and your bf will want to get to know YOU, not some chatline girl.
Best wishes :-)
2007-05-25 12:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you are heartbroken trust me when i say you don't no what real heart brake feels like. Real heart brake is loving your husband and believing in him and trusting him with all your heart only to find out he has been lying to you for over three years.Finding a card with with words (I can't wait to walk down the street hand in hand so everyone can see
we are together) Hearing your husband say to you he has been sleeping with another woman and he doesn't love you anymore. That is heart brake,what you feel is hurt and disappointment which is something you will get over.If your boyfriend was up to no good he would of never given you his password to get in to his my space.I talk to guys on the net and some want to get together with me,it doesn't mean I'm going to.It's just talk so take it as such.
2007-05-25 13:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Thing550.
Also, i would talk to him about it, no crying, just a calm conversation. Ask him what makes him want to play along with another girl this way. Is it because you're not entertaining enough? Ask him what he likes about you - good way to remind him why he is with you and not another girl. And tell him you find this kind of treatment disrespectful, and will not tolerate it. How would he feel if you did the same?
After all the above, i'd write an email to his Internet girl, saying "Hey, sorry my boyfriend haven't replied to you in awhile. You see, we played a joke on you: we thought it would be funny to pretend he likes you. I'm sorry, i think it was a mean thing to do. But you can avoid that from happening to you in the future, if you don't flirt with someone else's boyfriends. Cheers".
2007-05-25 12:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by immi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the curb! If he can fall 'in love' with a girl he barely knows, he obviously has commitment issues, who knows who else he's seeing behind your back? A relationship without trust never works, so just let him go, and although I don't know you, i'm pretty sure you deserve better than him!
2007-05-25 12:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by arwen_1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didnt take ur relationship seriously. Or maybe he is just playing, just relax...If he really doesnt like u, who cares? I told u the sea is big..Full of fish. Just act angry in front of him caz of that thing, and see whether he will treat u better or not.
2007-05-25 12:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope the next one is really a fat, middle-aged bald man that shoots him after raping him in an alley.
That's quite a picture.
2007-05-25 12:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would message the girl from his myspace and ask what ws goin on but act like ur boyfriend be like you knoe i was just kidding and then she'll be surprised and then if that doesnt work and if your boyfriend was really cheating on you then i would suggest you breaking up with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-25 12:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pinny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, there are better guys out there.
2007-05-25 12:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋