hes really cute and my type of guy and he always smiles at me..........hm i dont know i kinda like him
2007-05-25 11:53:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she cheated on him recently so does she really deserve him?
2007-05-25 11:54:23 · update #1
What you are obviously contemplating IS VERY WRONG.
A simple crush is innocent enough...but once you start rationalizing that "his wife doesn't deserve him" you are setting the stage to try and justify an affair. Wrong Wrong Wrong.
2007-05-25 11:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that but it's not something you should walk out of a marriage of right away. However it is an issue. i wouldn't want to trust my husband at work with someone he has develop feelings to. He might say he will not act on it now but the day things aren't going great in the marriage, or if the co-worker makes a move, who knows what he's going to do. Men are easily manipulated by women. I mean it's not unusual for us to feel some sort of attraction to another person that we ran into or just met even when we are married but since we don't see them again we will never act on it, but if we are always around that person, something might develop. I would be concern and worried as you are so I suggest you keep an eye on him. If possible maybe he can be transfer to a different office or something else so he's not around her constantly.
2016-05-17 22:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Yes its wrong to have a crush on your co-workers husband. Event though she's cheating on him, that don't mean that you have an open invitation to him. The best thing is let him approach you first okay! that would make everything a little better!!
2007-05-25 11:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jai LaShay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real deal? It is easy for him to be a fun flirt because he is taken, that is all he can have. It is easy for you to like him because he is taken and that makes it a little more exciting for you. Truthfully, if a woman cheats on a man it is usually for a reason. I am not saying it is right because it isn't. But it is usually because of something wrong in her relationship.
As far as you stand though, it is all really none of your business if she is cheating or not. It is theirs.
You need to find somebody single. You deserve better than sloppy cheating married man sex. Don't you?
2007-05-25 12:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's still with her knowinly of her cheating, then he must love and care a great deal about her. For ya info hun he's not your type of guy unless you're into MARRIED men. Keep in mind he is married. And hell you can crush on him all you want just keep it to yourself and never act on it ok. and...Please stop looking for excuses to make yourself feel better for crushing on another womans hubby-a co-workers hubby at that.
2007-05-25 12:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she cheated on him then you are to close, ask your self . why .you can t always rely on good looks.He may be a nice person but it sounds like he needs to fix the probleims in his own back yard first,and don t forget is he still living with this person,do they have children,and would you want to get involved in that situation.ask your self if you could turn the situation around would you like some one coming along and stealing your guy.
2007-05-25 12:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by glenys l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better off keeping your crush a secret. Crushes & co-workers don't mix. She might not deserve him, but you have to remember he's kinda married. lol.
2007-05-25 12:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is not wrong to have crushes, but acting on them is something else. I guess it is "bad" to go out with married man, but the reason is because YOU are the one being used and will get hurt. Also, if she finds out, you will be in EVERY mouth in the office and become the official "tramp" for every conversation.
So, unless he is mega-super worthy, think about the consequences...
Good luck!!
:)
2007-05-25 12:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Edith Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to understand it's her husband and until something happed to make them single than he still a marry ed man but you can have a little crush on him as long as you are not seeing him and to tell you the truth if she with and another guy than when and if they break up i think and hope he will come falling for you. i'll been there before.
2007-05-25 12:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if she cheated. Do you want to be the mistress? or someone who wrecked a marriage or even someone who helped a husband cheat. It is not wrong to like him, but it is to go out with him, and/or sleep with him and even kiss him. There is a fine line, don't cross it.
2007-05-25 11:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋