Out of curiosity I have asked my BF to take me to a strip club (girls). I know he likes to go and it doesnt bother me so I figured this would be something we could do together. I have never been to one before and it is a completely nude club. What are some things I could do that would be a turn on for him? I am not bisexual but am open minded...
2007-05-25 08:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, are you sure you are taken? If not, would you marry me? That is a turn on itself having your girlfiend accompany you to the strip club. I would say to just be active when you are there... give some dollar bills to the girls yourself and even get a lap dance if you feel comfortable. I know if I saw my girlfriend getting a lap dance from a hot stripper, that would send me close to the edge.
Be ready for a fun, envigorating night and tell your boyfriend he has a keeper!
2007-05-25 08:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by hellaeddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! You're gonna have a blast! When I was in college I worked in a couple of strip joints. When couples would come in, they usually didn't stay too long cause they'd get so turned on they had to leave and "take care of business" so to speak. A lot of them never made it out of the parking lot, if you get my drift. If lap dances are allowed, you should definitely get a couple of those. (for you, not him) Although, since it's full nude, lap dances are probably not legal, so try this: Start telling him how hot one or two of the dancers are, and get as specific as you're comfortable with. I guarantee if you whisper a few things like, "My god, that girl's *** is so cute", etc., etc., you guys won't be there long. HOWEVER, you are going to have to be real careful with this little adventure. Your BF may get it into his head that one thing is going to lead to another and if you keep going to strip clubs with him, at some point he is probably going to want to bring one of the girls home for a three-way. Have fun!
2007-05-25 08:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by STEVE C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...you are a first timer. so be prepared to expect the unexpected in a strip bar. more than just naked women. its going to be the testosterone that might take a little while to get used to.
Dont fake it if you dont like what you see. if you take in the atmosphere and slowly start enjoying the place...watch the girls and "cozy" up to your man. He will like the "attention" while watching the women.
(another tip: from his reactions to the women there...you will get a better idea of his turn ons. take him home and give him a lap dance. And make it interactive - use some cream....i am digressing. I'm sorry :) )
All the best.
2007-05-25 08:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Free L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you asre the best girlfriend ever hahahha but get alittle tipsy so you can get comfortable with the contact vibe when getting a lap dance it'll be alll good no worrys bad enough your there with him the stripper well do all the work adn trust me your man well be very happy when he gets you home.enjoy the night thats all you have to do!
2007-05-25 08:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by tino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there. If you dress to slutty, the single slobs there might mess with you. You won't be the only girlfriend/wife there. Lots of women are turned on by that stuff too. It don't do it for me but whatever floats your boat. Have fun!
2007-05-25 08:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by ksmith716 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a few drinks then see what happens. Just go with the flow. Yous till have to enjoy yourself too and you cant possible be doing soemthing you are not comfortable doing.
2007-05-25 08:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a lap dance and have your boyfriend watch maybe you will even be turned on by it and will have more to look forward to when you get home!
2007-05-25 08:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by cassie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lap dance with him.
2007-05-25 08:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by BG 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him a bunch of dollar bills when you enter the place and tell him that you can make change if he needs it...later.
2007-05-25 08:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by righteousjohnson 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up....dump the guy. You say you don't mind... you will eventually when he puts it before you.
2007-05-25 08:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋