Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

Advice? I have a guy problem....?
Ok I have been seeing this guy for around 8 months not exclusivly. in the begining he was back and forth w/ his ex. they are now done for good. I really care about him and he knows this. We started out just as friends and began hangin out more and more. I know he see's well atleast talks to other girls but he always seems to be w/ me we hang out a couple nights durning the week and come friday we usually hang out and Saturday he'll go out w/ his friends for a while and then meet up w/ my friends and I at the bar. I really care about him . Sometimes I think I'm his sounding board though he comes to me w/ every problem he'll call all hours to talk he'll text all the time. I have met & hung out w/ him and his 4 year old child a couple times. we met when he was just getting out of a long relationship & he says he doesn't want a relationship. I am unsure what to do I really care about him. Am I wasting my time? Should I avoid him& see what happens? or keep it as is? does he want 2 b w me

2007-05-25 07:44:07 · 28 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to have a 3 some with another woman and my husband. It is a real turn on but, Afterwards I will get jealous. how do i avoid this?

2007-05-25 07:42:27 · 36 answers · asked by Jeannine L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him I was waiting till marriage "He's asked me if I want him to give me my first kiss" I do but I don't not till I can trust him. I can't give something like that away unless i'm positive I am secure. We've been best friends for like 2 years now hang out everyday talk on the phone everyday. He tries to kiss me all the time but i pull away sometimes he'll ask me to kiss him. He says I love you all the time everytime we get off the phone he says I love you everytime he sees me he hugs me and kisses me on the cheek and says I love you and when it's time to leave he like hugs me over and over again i mean is he just addicted to the phrase I love you or is he just trying to have sex with me. I mean he hasn't gotten so much as a kiss in 2 years and i have good reason to be wary of him. He used to ask to see my boobs all the time and when we play around when were alone he ends up on top of me and won't get up when i tell him to. He talks about marriage. says "I'm his world"

2007-05-25 07:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Friends

My best girlfriend has a wedding to attend this summer. She is single I am not. She has not seen the bride since high school but has kept in contact through emails and phone calls. She received her invitation and it states that she and a guest are invited. She doesn't want to go alone since she doesn't know anyone that well anymore, but she doesn't have a BF. She wanted me to go with her, but we weren't sure if it was appropriate to bring a "girl" friend to the wedding a her "date"?
Any input? Is it wrong for me to attend with her since I don't know them?

2007-05-25 07:40:23 · 26 answers · asked by GirlNextDoor 2 in Weddings

If I stay there will be trouble, if I go it will be double, which should I do?

2007-05-25 07:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this friend, and shes like the closest thing to me besides my boyfriend. She can tell me anything and not have to worry about what im going to think about her. And last weekend she went boating with her mom, stepdad, and this boy that she really likes. her other friend went too, but she was to busy making out with this other guy that she didnt really know what was going on. They all started drinking and some things lead to the other.. and mny best friend got fingered by this other guy, but he doesnt even remember because he was drinking to much. My best friend is pretty much in love with him, but he doesnt even realize it. But i guess he has good reason to not date her. He thinks he might have made his latest girlfriend pregnet, and doesnt know what to do. I need some advise of how to help her.. and her boy problems. so if you could really help me with this it would be great. =]

2007-05-25 07:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by flowerpower<3 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that for my wedding reception in four weeks the caterer will only set up the buffet and then will be leaving. Nobody will be around to watch the food or pick up plates. Evidently they are coming to the hotel the next morning to pick things up. It's bad enough that we will be using paper plates for the food! I know it's my fault because I didn't ask the specific questions, but you would think for $15/plate, real plates and silverware and staff would be present (the wedding is being held in a smaller town/rural area, so $15/plate is quite expensive). Am I being irrational? It's too late to switch caterers. Any ideas on how to make this flow smoothly? I am having an open bar all night and hoping my guests will 'forget' about the paper plates and having to clean up after themselves! I did leave a message with the caterer and hoping somehow I can talk them into having some staff present for the meal, but I would like to have a backup plan in place. Thanks!!

2007-05-25 07:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by MJ MCK 4 in Weddings

I have a lot of female friends from college and high school that I like to hang out with. Most are still single or divorced. Most are friends with my wife. Is it inappropriate in you opinion to go out with them, when she is working nights? I know she trusts me, but is it disrespectful? If so, that sucks.

2007-05-25 07:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by cueball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like as in prep i mean like popular with everybody at school, do a sport that made u poplular, all the boys like you (or girls) ???????

2007-05-25 07:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going stag to prom tonight. I'm 100% sure that there will be other singles there but what do I say when other people ask who my date is?

2007-05-25 07:31:52 · 8 answers · asked by catbacker 1 in Friends

My cousin recently introduced me to her husbands brother we met this past sunday...we sat and had a good conversation for about 21/2 hours...seems like a good guy from what he has told me..during the conversation he kept interupting me saying i was pretty..and that he was enjoying my company.. i am definately interested in getting to know more down the line about him..but he seems kind of shy to make the first move to ask me out. so my question is do i ask him out or just wait...

2007-05-25 07:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by Miskateyes 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for what all should I say in my e-mail so I can increase my chances that she would be interested in me enough to write back to me.

2007-05-25 07:25:54 · 2 answers · asked by J-Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife goes out all the time with her girlfriends. We have known each other for about 5 years now but have been married for 1 year. She goes out and spends the night with them every weekend. I tell her how i fell about it and she acts like it isn't a big deal. I really want to do more things together but when I suggest it, she blows it off. She says that she might be depressed but she only acts depressed towards me. Not to mention the girl that she meanly hangs out with, she also works with and sees everyday. What should I do to make her realize that i want her to stay home. (forget anything romantic, she hates stuff like that). And why does she get tired of me and not her friends?

2007-05-25 07:23:58 · 28 answers · asked by Lonely Man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 07:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by AdamMs 2 in Singles & Dating

also wanted to know if you have clean socks on the floor of the side of the bed to put on before you get off of the bed?

2007-05-25 07:20:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met him at my friends house and he is the same age but he lives in a different state about 4 hours away , We hugged for a long time before he left and I didn't want to let o but I did and it was like fireworks PLEASE HELP ME NO RUDE ANSWERS....

2007-05-25 07:17:16 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am living alone for the first time in my life, I have my own house and have been alone since my ex financee 2 years ago.

I feel so alone in the world, don't know whats wrong with me and why I can;'t find anyone. I am a tad depressed and sick of being alone, it depresses me and effects my work.

I just feel life is passing my by and this is it, nothing to look forward to as nothing has changed in two years. I have 2 close friends but they have there own partners and kids on way, so they are very busy. My other group friends I have found are not, stabbed me in the back.

I feel like this is it in life, I have given it 2 years and I am no happier. I was so happy when I was with my x, I know people say join clubs but can;t really think of any I would like to join.

I just feel very alone going home to an empty house each night and every weekend, have wondered if happy pills would at least make life happier or easier for me. I don't know what to do to change things

2007-05-25 07:14:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never ever heard of this ,but several questions people have asked has led me to believe there is actually some law. I thought the state of California was thinking about it for children 3 and under.(But never got passed) But I didn't think the government could actually get involved with parenting. So can someone tell me if this is a law...

2007-05-25 07:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a good age to get married..Other then 80

2007-05-25 07:09:55 · 24 answers · asked by JAYDEN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last year I was on and off with my ex for 6 months. He is the only guy I've ever loved with all my heart. But he also broke my heart. He dumped me for other girls every time. I have a boyfriend now. Our 2 months is coming up in a week. I like my boyfriend a lot but I don't love him yet. Me and my ex started talking again so now we are friends. But the thing is I know my ex likes me and I still love him of course since he was my first love. My ex has a girlfriend. My boyfriend treats me better then anyone in the world. What do I do? I like my boyfriend and love my ex but I don't trust him since he hurt me so much. My ex claims he changed and is more mature. I'm only 16.

2007-05-25 07:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say other thing their face, body type, personality are all the same..


i know its an odd question, but i wanna ask jus'for fun.

2007-05-25 07:05:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 07:03:13 · 12 answers · asked by Reem 1 in Family

We had a great time together, spent time together every day for the past three months, then found out he lived with someone, which he swears he is leaving or that she is moving out. I gave him an ultimatum, then I couldn't do it, so I broke it off with him, but then I have found myself waiting for him to call and make things right. If he loved me like he said, he would do this right? Why isn't he calling and why cant I realize that I can do better? I cant stop thinking about him, and I want to know if he is thinking about me.

2007-05-25 07:00:18 · 17 answers · asked by Secretshea 1 in Singles & Dating

I have hurt my daughter in many ways - emotionally. I have not been there for her like a mother should have been.

She is 15 and I gave her Dad sole physical and legal custody during the divorce. She lives in another state.

I really don't know how to heal the relationship. She probably feels abandoned and alone since now her Dad moved away due to job reasons.

I feel very, very said when I hear other people at work talk abou how much they do for their children. She is a sweet, innocent child and did not deserve what she got in life.


I had not called her for some time. Yesterday, I spoke with her and she said its as if I don't care and not normal.

She is right that my actions are not correct. I said I was sorry and she said that was not good enough.

What can I do to heal the relationship? My ex-husband does not follow the visitation rules and is not willing to give custody to me. I live in another state.

2007-05-25 06:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm am a 20 yr old woman who has always had low self-esteem and confidence issues as a child because I've never had family to confide in. I have now been with my loving bf for about 2years who i love with all my heart but complains that I'm not open with him. Its not that um hiding something its that I don't know how to be open. I feel worthless, ugly, and disregarded on the inside but he reassures me that I'm worthy of everything. Why can I take this to heart and make the change that is needed? Are there any other women experiencing this too and how did you get through that episode?

2007-05-25 06:56:33 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex-gf who i love with all my heart hung up on me. i think she moved on but i am trying to get back with her...it also seems like she is playing hard to get. i know it is a sign of rejection. anything i can do to win her back?? please just give me some suggestions. still got hope

2007-05-25 06:56:07 · 39 answers · asked by ghetto393 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, SO I AM GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY..AND WE HAVE GONE OUT BEFORE BUT WE GOT BACK TOGETHER THE DAY BEFORE YESTERDAY. AND SO LAST NIGHT I WAS TALKIN TO ANOTHER GUY ON YAHOO IM..AND HE ASKED ME TO SHOW HIM MY BREASTS..SO I DID..AND HE IS PLANNING ON COMING OVER TODAY..WE ARE NOT GOING TO DO ANYTHING...JUST CUDDLE AND STUFF...IS THAT CONSIDERED CHEATING?

2007-05-25 06:51:08 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14..what should i do boys..

2007-05-25 06:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello frds i m shy guy of 20 year old
usually i hesitate to chat with girls especially in my class
today was my exam and i completed my paper before time and sit in the garden waiting for my friend.
suddenly a girl of my class sit in front of me asking about my exams and all those things.
I also answer her very happily as first time i chated with her as she is very cute and many guys of college like her.
after 5 min my friend came and i started to go from there
but she tell me to sit for sometime and ask about me
i saw that she chated with me with great interest in me.
After sometime her friend also came and ask her to go to home
she go from there by saying bye to me but with not a good mood i thought that she wanna talk with me more.
What should i do
how i speak to her
i m a guy of 20 years age
5"7 avg built but with a fair face and cute smile

2007-05-25 06:47:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls think about sex as much as guys?

2007-05-25 06:46:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating