Last year I was on and off with my ex for 6 months. He is the only guy I've ever loved with all my heart. But he also broke my heart. He dumped me for other girls every time. I have a boyfriend now. Our 2 months is coming up in a week. I like my boyfriend a lot but I don't love him yet. Me and my ex started talking again so now we are friends. But the thing is I know my ex likes me and I still love him of course since he was my first love. My ex has a girlfriend. My boyfriend treats me better then anyone in the world. What do I do? I like my boyfriend and love my ex but I don't trust him since he hurt me so much. My ex claims he changed and is more mature. I'm only 16.
2007-05-25 07:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i kno wat ur goin though im kinda goring through it as well my bf rite now is in jail tomorrow is our 4 months but lately me & my ex have been talkin & he knos i still like him ..he treated me sooo good wit respect gave me everything i asked for..then i broke up wit him cuz i was moving..& well we kinda stop talkin like we use to but since my bf has been in jail which has been since apirl me & my ex have been talkin alot & i kno he still kinda likes me but hes also confused as well..so i dk..i think u should move on from ur ex...as for me ..i dk wat i should do but u have been though alot wit him & u have had enough ur a sweet heart and ur bf now seems to kno that..dont let him go..
2007-05-25 07:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 and you ask such a silly thing! i'm 47 and at this point i look at actions and what the past has shown me! fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me! i know it's hard know but i bet in years to come you will not even know there names! for your just starting this game in many ways! you have never been to bars or gone away to scool or even had a prom! much less a full time job or children or so so many other heart achs! i know this sounds crazy but try to relax and worry about YOU for she is the only one that's still going to be by your side all your life! don't let others love for you now hurt youy tommrow! take care little lady and GOD be with you for all your life! for i was like you so long ago and yet now i'm pretty well homeless over worry about foolishes do they do they not o'ddear o'dear.. what to do what a waste of time i spent....so love yourself! then you can smile all the time because! THEN YOU HAVE NO FEAR OR WORRYES
2007-05-25 14:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by tommoore66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the heart of your ex by telling him the truth--that you are involved with someone who treats me better than anyone in the world. What do you do? Stir the cauldron of passion that resides with your boyfriend and see what happens. If nothing happens, have lunch with your ex to explain to you how he has changed and not remained a creep.
2007-05-25 14:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your current boyfriend. What will happen is you and your ex would get back together, you'd break your current boyfriends heart. Your ex would eventually dump you again only leaving you alone once more, and ruining your relationship/friendship with your current boyfriend. Stick to what you got and let the past stay where it is... in the past!!!
2007-05-25 14:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by B.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it you young girls usually fall for the bad boy? Your boyfriend is a nice guy so stay with him. In time your feelings for him should grow. Your ex boyfriend is only wanting you back now because of the male competition. Now that you have a boyfriend his ego is hurt. Don't be foolish to listen to him.
2007-05-25 14:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex. Leave it at that. Plus, he's a cheater, once a cheater, will always be a cheater. This new guy sounds better. It's only going to be two months, give this new guy a chance.
2007-05-25 14:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by 0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with your current boyfriend.
Even though you love your Ex, he's your first, so you'll never completely get over him, even though it seems really hard.
Even though you don't love your current boyf, it doesn't mean you never will, and you're only going out so you don't HAVE to love him :)
Try and keep your Ex at the back of your mind, he doesn't seem worth the hassle - and most of all - he doesn't deserve you!!!
x
2007-05-25 14:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Noobo<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason that your ex is your ex. Stay with the current guy
2007-05-25 14:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First loves are meant to be fond remembrances, ma'am.
Good girls love bad boys and all that aside, I suggest you stick with the good guy, and leave go of the other like a bad rash.
2007-05-25 14:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for your ex. I know he's special because he was your first love but he doesn't treat you the way you deserve tp be treated. Stay with your bf.
2007-05-25 14:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋