I told him I was waiting till marriage "He's asked me if I want him to give me my first kiss" I do but I don't not till I can trust him. I can't give something like that away unless i'm positive I am secure. We've been best friends for like 2 years now hang out everyday talk on the phone everyday. He tries to kiss me all the time but i pull away sometimes he'll ask me to kiss him. He says I love you all the time everytime we get off the phone he says I love you everytime he sees me he hugs me and kisses me on the cheek and says I love you and when it's time to leave he like hugs me over and over again i mean is he just addicted to the phrase I love you or is he just trying to have sex with me. I mean he hasn't gotten so much as a kiss in 2 years and i have good reason to be wary of him. He used to ask to see my boobs all the time and when we play around when were alone he ends up on top of me and won't get up when i tell him to. He talks about marriage. says "I'm his world"
2007-05-25 07:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We also spoon a lot and he says he likes to cuddle with me should i not let him. I love him but he needs to get his life together before i would ever even consider kissing him or a relationship.
2007-05-25 07:43:54 · update #1
I don't think anybody can answer this question.
2007-05-25 07:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his friendship has turned into something more. I wouldn't absolutely positively say he just wants sex from you and nothing more. Maybe he has actually fallen in love with you from just being your friend and hanging out and cuddling and all that. That is how relationships form right? You should be friends first. So I wouldn't sit and say he is just after sex from you! Boys will be boys obviously so yeah he probably does stupid stuff like saying "Let me see your boobs."
Now props to you for waiting until you are married. If that is what you want to do and you don't want a relationship with this boy then you need to stop cuddling with him and spooning because that is sending the wrong message to him. I wouldn't be playing around to where he ends up on top of you either. He really will get the wrong message and then you will be phrased as a "tease".
It sounds to me after two years of you all being best friends and you haven't had those feelings for him by now you do only see him as a best friend. So what is the point in playing around and kissing him? Esp. since it seems he does have something for you. You don't want to lead him on. Good Luck xD
2007-05-25 14:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Priestess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think he needs a bit more of a reality check. u might want to back off the cuddling because it could be sending the wrong message. props to you for waiting til marriage
2007-05-25 14:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex, that is the only reason he is your friend. Don't be a typical female and think he likes you for any other reason.
2007-05-25 14:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewll thats just great!
2007-05-25 14:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by sexxi_tami_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you???
2007-05-25 14:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marisa ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋