Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

Scenario:

-Casual
-Pirates of the Caribean
-I asked him out
-first date

2007-05-25 03:44:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok to make to long story short my bf has moved in with me last week and his parents have been helping him with his bills due to he lost his job a month ago. Well last Tuesday 05/22/07 his parents got him a job working with the city. Well this weekend is a holiday and we planned on going down to the river with some friends. His mother stated that if he goes she will not help him anymore w/his bills and that he should have more respect for her bc of her help. I really want to go and if we go his parents are going to be pissed off @ us.I know he dont have the money to go but I do and if I pay for everything whats the big freakin deal? Please help or if anyone has any ideas that would help me out.. !!

2007-05-25 03:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by nicolewallass 1 in Family

i have a daughter whos 3 and the person im with him is not her real father. what happend was when i met her father i told him i was pregnant he said that baby aint mines. so i got mad. after his baby was born he asked me for real and i said no. i had meet the men i with right now and he accept the baby like his
i feel like i did wrong cuz the father did asked me if that was his daughter and my husband loves her like it was his. to me his ther father i dont know what to do i should i keep it as a secret from my daughter or should i tell her real dad. i dont want to hurt the person im with. what i do? please help?

2007-05-25 03:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

GUYS....If you had a girl that was just your FRIEND! would you be trying to flirt with her and tell her that eventually they were gonna hook up if ya know what i mean....But see the things they used to hook up alot and have known eachother for 2 years ....So whatcha think?

2007-05-25 03:38:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years. The first few we fought really bad, for that last year or so I thought it had been smooth sailing. But my husband blows up over nothing at all. Everytime something doesn't go his way he calls me names and says he hates me and that the only reason we're still together is for the kids. That I'm annoying and just like my mother. That I'm stupid and make him mad on purpose. I love him with all of my heart and I can't understand why he hates me. He says he would leave me and the kids and be selfish if it would make him happy. I love him and I can't live on my own (financially) and that also plays a part. We have no one to fall back on. It would be me and the kids and I just can not afford it! I always say sorry even if I'm not wrong just to make it go away but it takes forever for him to forgive and it go back to normal... I'm so upset it's depressing me beyone belief!

2007-05-25 03:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me two years ago with his ex girlfriend/baby mama. It made me really insecure although we too have a child together because everyone in his family always amde a big deal of her having his FIRST kids. He only admitted it after 2 years of me pressuring him because i suspected the whole time, which was 2 months ago. Its even worse now because its been verified. I honestly believe he messed up that one time and i love him and he loves me. he treats me well, laways has is a good father and does everything he can to make it up to me and make me feel better. but these feelings just wont go away. when we have sex i cant stop thinking about them together and i keep wondering if he cared about me at al l at the time and things like what did she have that i didn't? It hurts so much because i have always been faithful and giving, the whole time. If i can't get over this, should I divorce my husband?

2007-05-25 03:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am very afraid about taking my wife back, she left me because I would not bend down towards her 3 kids( from past relationships she had with three different guys)and moved to another state and had affair. She said she was not going to tell me about it, but she felt guilty of doing. She said that I was better then the person she done it with. Because he did not give a chance to get, off. In addition, she asked God if he changed her thinking towards me about making love and gives her the desire to open up and please me more. However, its take affair to open yours eyes about your husband loving. She had past sexual problem when she was young she been abused. I deal with that during our marriage. I took a lot from her. Now she had affair now she realized how much I really love her and been patient with her throughout this ordeal. should I or shouldn't I?

2007-05-25 03:33:22 · 7 answers · asked by blkngd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my wife for 3 years now and I we are both 23 years of age. I have to admit that I am a very handsome young man and I have been told this before. With that being said why does my wife not want to have sex with me on the regular like we used to do before we got married. I didn't know that they snuck no sex in the marriage until a week has pasted. I was thinking that maybe the birth of a child will dimenish a females sexual appetite. I need some help because I find myself really horny for her and I wont cheat on her. Let me know what I need to do to spark up my sex life.

2007-05-25 03:32:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If I were even to consider a relationship with a guy who's 16 years older than me, does it really matter? If you two are emotionally and spiritually compatible, should you really take grievances from what your family says? Because I know my family would have a cow if I (19) were to date a 35 yo guy.

2007-05-25 03:31:51 · 33 answers · asked by ganeshagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I got to know this yesterday. I talked to one of his friends, a boy I trust, and he he said my boys sees her like a second mom, but he saw her touching him not exactly like a mom. His friend said she is beautiful and he thinks, likes teen boys, especially those that, like mine, are sensitive and somewhat innocent for his age. I talked to my boy, he told me he got to know her at a a swimming pool. He assured me he sees her like a second mom, but fessed she asked him to help her w/ her bra that got unclipped. My boy ended up crying and resentful, said he likes her because she gives him love and at home he feels left out, says I give much more attention to my 15 yo girl than to him and he thinks he's a good boy - actually he's a great boy - and deserves love although he's a boy. He admitted once she touched him somewhat like a woman touches a man but he's sure she likes him like a little bro. I'm lost, don't kow what to do, if she was a guy and he was a girl, this would be illegal.

2007-05-25 03:31:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how much did that rock? are you still waiting??????

2007-05-25 03:30:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend keeps talking about the 'prostate gland' when we discuss sex and I was kinda wondering where and what it is. Also, does he keep talking about it because he's unsatisfied with my love making skills? Please no gay bashing. Anyone who can answer will get a cookie!

2007-05-25 03:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am interested especially in intelligent opinions of this phenomenon, but knee-jerk defensive answers are entirely welcome!

2007-05-25 03:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by Scatta 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love that dress. I know I should donate it to charity since I'm never going to wear it again but I just can't do it.

2007-05-25 03:28:56 · 14 answers · asked by sugarcarat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend told me that when girls (mostly teenagers) discover how babies are made, they realized that their dad did that to their mom, and for a phase they hate their dad. I never heard anything like that, is this true? or is it just her. I'm really curious.
I know that my sister disliked my dad for a while, but is it because of that? any answers are welcome

2007-05-25 03:27:47 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. Sly 4 in Family

2007-05-25 03:27:17 · 2 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Family

i've been dating this guy for about 8yr's off and on . we been through everthing together , from buying a car and house to fighting one of another , just lately we had got in to this big *** fight over a bill, this fight was so bad that i had to call the cops and send hhis *** to jail. so now we are in and out of court on chager for domsit voilace and chid in dangerment , **** i have a CPO on his ***, anyways while we where at court he plead guilty on all charges , but now his mom and sister are looking at me and saying things like "there she goes" and " you'll be here again at my houes bicth" what should i do with the mother becuse she think her son could do no wrong , and puts him on the back like he some kind of god or something .

2007-05-25 03:25:12 · 1 answers · asked by puddin in ohio 2 in Family

My husband and daughter do not get along although somedays are better than others. She has a dad that talks crap in her ear 24/7 about my husband. My husband has been in her life since she was 3 and she is now 11 years old. Last night we had a talk and she told me that she hates my husband and he is trying to take her dads place. I assured her that this was not the case that he just loved her and wanted the best for her. She then told me that she feels that I love my husband more than her because I always take his side when she gets in trouble which simply is not true. I just don't know what to do anymore. SOmetimes I feel I should leave my husband but other times I feel my daughter is just being silly. I'm confused about the whole deal. How do I help them get along? My daughter has now started to threaten me into telling the court she wants to live with her dad. I just can't see a judge giving custody to someone so irresponisible and immature but thats a whole different story!

2007-05-25 03:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Mellycat123 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should a woman be suspicious of a man who kept going back and forth between her and a particular female while dating and engaged to all of a sudden just supposedly stopped all contact with her after getting married. Does it work like that.? Is it possible that she found out he was married? I heard she was one of those girls that didn't care whether a man was married or not..What could be going on?

2007-05-25 03:15:21 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This question applies to homemakers, and especially to working mothers. Cooking, house chores, taking care of children while having a career, do you think plumbing, fixing electrical stuff, washing the car, changing the battery of a dead wall clock etc..etc ( trivial stuff but it matters to you as a woman), should also be done by us, women? Is this ok, acceptable? What do you think the role of a man in the house should be?
What are shared responsibilities, wife's responsibilities and husband's responsibilities in building a good relationship and a lasting marriage? How do you communicate effectively so your spouse will accept that a woman should not feel that she is the man of the house, because if she does, then, what good is having a man in the house?

Please share your views. Husbands, your views are also welcome and will be very much appreciated.

I would also love to hear from the older generation, who believes that they are successful in marriage.

2007-05-25 03:14:51 · 14 answers · asked by brandscorpio 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 03:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by Burned 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Our relationship seems to be a happy and stable one. He recently went back to school in the evenings and he works full time during the day as do I. When he arrives home after school, I am usually asleep because I need to wake up early for work. Obviously, this has effected the frequency of our being intimate with one another. We have spoken about it and both decided that we could cope with the situation for the next few months while he finishes school. We make a point of spending our weekends together and making up for lost time then. Well, I was on the computer last night and I discovered that he had been looking at some nude pictures of women. Now, I know that men look at porn and I am for the most part fine with it. I have accepted that is a fact of life. But the pictures that he had been viewing were of an asian woman and a blonde woman. I am neither asian nor blonde. But his ex wife happens to be asian.

2007-05-25 03:06:58 · 30 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My gradma is a 64 year old diabetic, and twice she checked my blood suger, dispite my protests. I protested because I have a fear a needles. I know it is not a shot needle, but I still didn't want her to poke me with it. One time she had my brother and step-sister hold me down in a chair to prick my finger. The next time, she made me feel guilty so that she could do it. Now we just a big fight because I wouldn't let her check it. Did she cross a line, or did I over react to a simple situation?

2007-05-25 03:06:47 · 32 answers · asked by Saphira 2 in Family

It is him who wants the divorce as he is "no longer happy" in the marriage. He says leaving lawyers out of it and doing the paperwork ourselves will save a lot of money. I don't know divorce law and I am very shocked and hurt by his sudden decision to leave. I should mention, we have a brand new baby daughter, a house that we owe more on than it's worth and our fair share of other forms of debt. I'm just overwhelmed right now and not sure at all what to do.

2007-05-25 03:06:39 · 20 answers · asked by Janie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who has been married for almost a year. This person owned a motorcycle and smoked cigarettes when they met. The person also plays the guitar in spair time and now is being asked not only to give up hobbies but, friends as well. Will this issue break the relationhip down if it goes on unchecked?

2007-05-25 03:06:03 · 18 answers · asked by jlaurentaylor2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever you’re traveling with a girl, anywhere. ( just a friend )

does it bother you when she is getting hit on, or maybe even followed. do you find it annoying, do you feel like you have to baby sit?

2007-05-25 03:05:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 5 children to my previous husband, and 2 children 2 and 3 to my current husband, he is just so mean to my other children that are not his. Two of my older children have moved out, I am torn between staying for the two little ones, but also to not have to meet in a park for the rest of my life with my other children as they hate coming here.

2007-05-25 03:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

18 yrs ago I had a son from the result of bad experience w/someone I went to high school with. I was soo distraught over the incident, that my son was eventually signed over to my parents to raise. His biological father never met my son & never seen him, he ended up dieing in a car crash when my son was 6. The thing is, is that his fathers family (grandparents) lived 5 blocks from my parents house & they never knew of my son. I found out a few years back, that after my sons father died, his sister Od'd a year later & than his father died w/in a year & half...so the grandmother lost her son, daughter & husband all w/in 2 years...she never met my son, because my mother wouldnt let me take him over there., she said it was not my business! She said she wasnt ready to share him w/some strange woman.that when hes 18 & if he wants to meet her, than thats his choice. Should I finally tell or is it too late? Do you think she'll be upset for not having the chance to have met her dead sons kid?

2007-05-25 03:02:31 · 18 answers · asked by Redd 3 in Family

We invited my husband's parents and sister over for a bonfire at my parents house this Sunday. We asked them a week ago and they said they would go. Today We called them to make sure they are still coming and they said that they are inviting us over this Sunday for dinner at their place after we already invited them to my folk's place the same day and they already said okay to that. They said that we always see my parents more than we see them and that we never see my husband's sister so we should have to go over to their house. They are always busy on the weekends with car races and horse shows and they work during the day all week while my husband works 2nd shift. So it's almost impossible to get together. What should we do? We've always done more stuff with my parents because his are always busy, but they never complained about it until we had a baby. My husband is upset because he doesn't want to upset me or his mother. What are we supposed to do?

2007-05-25 03:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by blank 4 in Family

Please don't include wives or paying off ex-wives etc...

2007-05-25 02:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating