I have 5 children to my previous husband, and 2 children 2 and 3 to my current husband, he is just so mean to my other children that are not his. Two of my older children have moved out, I am torn between staying for the two little ones, but also to not have to meet in a park for the rest of my life with my other children as they hate coming here.
2007-05-25 03:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
having been a child in thqat situation there is only one thing that you should do for yourself and your children,,LEAVE! he is not a good person, and any man that can not love children, wheather they are his or not,,,should not be around them at all.
2007-05-25 03:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by kandcforfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your current husband new that you had children before he married you so what's the problem?
There has to be a reason why he doesn't want them coming around.
2007-05-25 10:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have 10 kids 5 hers and 5 mine.. Since we have been married I have never considered any of them step children and she has always considered my kids hers. Yes you have major issues. It is time for him to step up and love them equally or get out of the picture... Kids don't forget too many things and you don't want your kids to remember you making them live with a man who does not care about them. If you have to meet in the park you know there are issues...
2007-05-25 10:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by BOBBY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kids should be your top priority so you should sit yourself down and think about what would be best for them even if that means leaving your current husband and fighting for custody of your two little ones. you may end up realizing later in your life that you have made the right decision for you and your children
2007-05-25 10:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are all your children and I would not put a man (even if he fathered 2 of them) before any of my children. If you get out now, the little ones will adapt.
Good luck! :)
2007-05-25 10:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be a warrior mother for your children and do whatever it takes to take care of them.
bringing in a man into their lives that is treating them terribly is not putting them on your priority.
yes, it may be hard to live without a man but you have children now so you cannot only think of yourself.
its a lot easier said than done but you are going to damage your children for life if you stay in the situation.
2007-05-25 10:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you even marry a man that doesnt love everything from you, & that includes your other kids from your ex hubby?? A man that realy loves you wil try to love your children as if they were his own. Kick him to the curve, your kids dont need to be put through that, + your kids come first.
2007-05-25 10:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lucky Charm♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is selfish and controlling. Shame on you for letting it get this far where your kids have moved out. Your kids should be #1 and if your mate can't accept that or respect that, you need to get rid of him immediately.
2007-05-25 10:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man should come before your children!!!!!!!!!!!! You shouldn't have to limit your time with your kids because your husband is a jerk! I would tell him to get bent!
2007-05-25 10:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Love you, Love your children" If he can't then don't let him come between you and your children. LEAVE !!!
2007-05-25 10:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋