my ex-gf who i love with all my heart hung up on me. i think she moved on but i am trying to get back with her...it also seems like she is playing hard to get. i know it is a sign of rejection. anything i can do to win her back?? please just give me some suggestions. still got hope
2007-05-25 06:56:07 · 39 answers · asked by ghetto393 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn't love you anymore so you have to move on with a girl that really loves you
2007-05-25 06:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Chosen Pilot 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In a mature relationship, two people should be able to discuss things and come to a mutual understanding. Hanging up on you is rude and immature. Of course, if you are calling her every 5 minutes I could understand. If she knows how you feel she either will feel the same way and want to try your relationship again, or she will not. Don't allow yourself to be left hanging in the wind. It's not fair to you. If she doesn't want you, give yourself some time and then find someone else who will appreciate you. I would give a woman this same advice.
2007-05-25 07:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just back off a little bit. If she hangs up on you - that's not a good sign. Maybe it was just held a temporary meaning and she was just mad at you at the moment, but trying to much will only make her push away harder. The best advise I can give you is to give her space and time and see what happens. That said though, don't assume you guys will get back together and everything will be peachy. IT might not happen. So you will also want to look towards the future.
2007-05-25 07:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by מימי 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when a girl hangs up on you or walks away from you, she really wants you to call her back or follow her, but you said she is your ex girlfriend. That's different.
Move on!
2007-06-02 05:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by dashelamet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't hold onto to love by
hanging on.
Sorry, but it's time to move on.
No matter how important something
seems in life, there will come a day
when you look back,
and it wasn't that important at all.
2007-05-25 07:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being grateful for what you have zeros in on what is working, which in turn magnetizes more of the same. Where you put your focus is where you direct your creative intention; so if you want abundance, be grateful for the vitality you have now. If you want a soulful relationship, be grateful for the soulful moments. Gratitude is like a seed you plant; it grows more as it is watered and nourished. Show your her what you appreciate in them and let her know that they have a positive effect in your life. The acknowledgment of good will call forth more of the same. If this does not work try as much as you can to avoid thinking about her, moving on is a hard process but it ends up fruitful
2007-05-25 07:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Shiden 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through the same thing a few years ago. Although mine never hung up on me, I advise that you just let go. You cant force something to work. All this mind game bs doesnt work nowadays anymore. Women have changed, you have to be more direct. Let her know clearly that you are interested but you need to elimintate the whole "I think" process. Because your's did hang up on you, I highly recommend you just suddenly stop communicating to her. At this point you HAVE to wait fo her to call you back, if she cares she will atleast apologize, if she doesnt do this, MAN UP DAWG!
2007-05-25 07:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jose L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to win her back what you need to do is not call her; moreover, make her feel like you have moved on with your life. She is using the power of being able to manipulate you right now because she sees you are weak at the moment. You need to be the person you were before you both met. You need self reliance and the ability to go on without her.
But trust me the quickest way to win a girl back is to move on and let her go.... the funny thing is that experience has taught me that you tend to find something during this process that works better.
I wish you luck..
2007-05-25 07:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My suggestion is to give up the hope and move on. I know that's not what you wanted to hear but you need to realize that just because you want her back, doesn't mean she feels the same and so you two are not a good match. Why fight to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
2007-05-25 06:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this rule when I was dating that if some one ever dumped me then I'd never date him again. I'm so glad I had that rule because I'm now married to a wonderfull man for six years now.
2007-06-01 23:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Rochelle N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone hangs up on you, its either she does not want to continue the current conversation or she is just too frustrated at the moment to know what to do, so she abruptly cuts it short. Find a better time to talk to her. Maybe you should try doing it in person so she wont have the chance to do it to you again.
2007-05-25 06:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by mgirl88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋