He likes me alot....
does anything i want him to...
buys me what i want...
it's really nice....
calls me every night...
but...
he is an awful kisser...
and he loves kissing me...
(cause i guess i am a good kisser...?)
i donno...
but omg...
he trys to impress me all the time...
but i'm always use to being treated like crap and having an amaizng kisser boyfriend...
should kissing really matter that much?
i don't want to hurt his feelings because he is really nice...
i mean we have been dating for a few days and he is already whipped...
what should i do???
2007-05-25 05:09:30 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all remember that there should be some level of attraction between a couple. As for the kissing thing it all depends. You could be the teacher and teach him and then in no time he could be an awesome kisser, or if it's really that bad then ya I'd say if you don't like that then break it off now. IT's only been a couple days so it's not to bad.
However, this whole thing of your BF being obsessed with you that's another story entirly. I'm like you used to being treated like crap from past bf's but......having a guy obsessed with you isn't good.
Either he'll be obsessed with you so mcuh so that if in the end you want to leave after a while he could get posessive or jelous. Usually an obsessive boyfriend is not the greatest thing. Although it's nice to have them whipped it's also a recipe for disaster.
Now i don't know him so I can't say for sure, but if you truly feel he's obsessed with you that would be my reason for leaving. It's usually the ones that get obsessed that become emotionally, physically or verbally abusive.
He could also become stalkerish if after a while you breakup with him. I'm just saying this from expeirience so just keep it in mind.
Anyway back to the kissing, for me that's a HUGE thing so i would probably give it a few more times to see if it's just a case of getting used to the way i kiss and such (sometimes that's all it is) but if he's still a bad kisser after a few weeks i'd let him go.
Sounds shallow i know but i can't help it!
I dont know if i was much help but that's just my opinioin take care and hope it all works out!
2007-05-25 05:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by *Sbaby* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he's a bad kisser, and show him HOW to kiss right. Some people need practice when it comes to things like that. Many girls would LOVE to be in your position, a man that treats them like a Queen. You should be happy. Being a bad kisser isn't enough to end a relationship it came be easily resolved.
Get some kissing books, and tell him u wanna practice.
He'll enjoy it and all the while his technique will improve. When he's doing good, offer a few moans, guys love hearing that what they are doing is turning u on. Lead him in the right direction.
2007-05-25 05:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound to me like you are experiencing what a good boyfriend should be doing. Alot of times women go through more bad relationships than good ones and so when they see a good one they say things like what you just said.
Now if the problem is that he is a bad kisser then you can teach him to kiss, but don't compare him to your ex because everyone kisses different.
Now I wonder if you really like this boy?
Enjoy your relationship.
Good luck.
2007-05-25 07:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whipped? Do you know how lucky you are to have a nice guy? He likes you, not whipped. And if he's a bad kisser, teach him to kiss better. Kissing doesn't matter because you can be taught how to do it better.
2007-05-25 05:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by robertlash19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN FORREST< RUN.
Sorry he is a wooose. Your natural attraction is for more manly guys. Your already seeing that he is to much and smoothering. He is breaking every rule for a mutual healthy relationship. You need to slow his but t down or your going to be tired of him in a hurry...
For kissing, he's whipped, you can tell him anything, After you start kissing lean back and say stop! Your doing it wrong, let me show you how. When he wants to get you something say, stop, I dont really need you to get me a bunch of stuff, when he starts anything that is excessive, say stop, you don't have to do that, your smoothering me, relax.... If you want him, fix it now, or it will be over very soon.
2007-05-25 05:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah kissing is a big part of a relationship...cuz youre always kissing here and there...so yeah maybe you should get with someone whos a good kisser. thats what i would do. or you can stay with him and be treated like queen and tell him to work on his kissing skills so that way its a win win situation.
2007-05-25 05:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Crissy~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him in a respectful manner that he can't kiss and then if he's welling teach him how to that would be the best thing to do and kissing is not what you guys relationship should be based on but if that is what you love to do then you shouldn't get a new gut but teach him some things and tell him that you are use to being ttreated like crap and you don't want to be treated that way but instead you don't want to be spoiled or treated like your relationship is based on giving
2007-05-25 05:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing someone or being a good kisser is that a problem to you? you should go out yourself.
2007-05-25 05:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get used to it. You said you've been dating "a few days". Don't you know guys are ALWAYS like this at first.
I Know mine was.
As far as the kissing goes you have a couple choices,
-Teach him how to kiss better
-Stay with him a bad kisser
OR-Dump him if it's really bothering you
Good luck :) Have fun being adored!!
2007-05-25 05:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, and tell him the truth. Say, "Listen, your a great guy, but your kissing sucks. Tonight, for our date, I'm going to teach you how to kiss better. We're going to spend the entire night just kissing. By the end of the night you'll be a pro!" I bet he'll be so excited that he won't even have a chance to feel hurt.
2007-05-25 05:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋