ok so get this. I just had surgery two weeks ago on my foot. I am exhausted and this guy-a friend of mine is asking me to go for a 30 minute drive to come see him. He woke me up this morning at 7:30 trying to get me out of bed to go see him even though I don't feel good ringing my phone 5 or six times. 'Please, come see me I haven't seen you in 10 days.' What a jerk. He doesn't care about how I feel. I need to get well again and he wants me to hang out with him for a couple of hours. I feel like sh**. What the hell is wrong with him? What can I do to get him to leave me alone and get off my chest? He is so irritating and he is hurting me because he does not understand how I feel. I had to get my mom to call him so he would stop calling me and begging me to go out with him. I am hurt now but I sware with my anger that will come later, I am going to get so pissed off at him that I will possibly end the friendship and I hate acting like that to anyone.
2007-05-25 05:48:47 · 8 answers · asked by brighid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
call his mom
2007-05-25 05:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you just having surgery..you would be pissed,BUT he likes you and he wants to spend time with you if you act like this to someone who likes you and wants to talk and hang out then you dont deserve a guy if thats what you are going to do to him.You could tell him you dont like he like that and tell him when you get better you can hang out but dont be rude to him.(not to be mean) but how would you like it if you had the biggest crush on a guy then he completely went off on you and didnt want to hear from you again?yea..pretty hurt.Just tell him you dont like him like that and you need time to rest.
2007-05-25 12:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mad at the wrong person, you should be mad at yourself.
He can only do what you let him do, and the fact that you have a selfish friend to begin with is your fault too. He is what he is and always has been. You are getting mad at him for being himself. If you don't like this behavior, don't have him for a friend.
This is a "you" problem, not a "him" one.
2007-05-25 12:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your right he is being very selfish and every right to be upset. Just take care of yourself right now and try not to think about it , get as much rest as you can.
2007-05-25 12:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be straight up with him. Tell him that you are not feeling good and he is not helping the situation. If he wants to see you THAT badly... HE can get up... and HE can come see you!
2007-05-25 12:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell him whats up......tell him you dont feel good and dont want to hang out at the moment and if he doesnt get that.....hang up.....if he calls you back...dont answer.....you really cant do much......
2007-05-25 12:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by SoCalSoldier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he doesn't care about you as much as you thought. Aren't people sooo selfish?
2007-05-25 12:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Bailz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him off
2007-05-25 13:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋