what do you do if think your husband cheating on you but he say he not ;he not coming home to me?

Answer 1

girl keep your eye on him an smell his underwear's you never know.

Answer 2

Few people will admit to cheating when first asked, but that doesn't mean he is.

If he's not coming home to you, where is he going? Find out...ask him...unless you have proof of cheating, simply not knowing how he's spending his time isn't a "sure sign"

Answer 3

Is he cheating on you at work? That's the only one that you can't control.

All you can do is trust him, and start spending more time and energy on each other to re-enforce your relationship. If he's spending all of his time and energy on you, he's not having time to run around after anyone else.

Answer 4

I would tail him for a few days and then confront him and her when I find out who she is. I want them both to explain to me why they think it's okay to cheat knowing that they are not free too. Then it's on!

Answer 5

Stop worrying about him and do something yourself.
Do you try to look attractive for him?
Do you nag him?
Do you support him?

Or do you constantly just think about yourself? Pushing him away with your ceaseless wants and needs?

You've got to make you man WANT to be with YOU. Not simply remind him that he is obligated to because he once liked the way you USED to be.

Take some responsibility and stop blaming him for all of the marital problems.

Answer 6

Follow your heart. Most likely if you are asking this question then you already know the answer. Intuition is often right.

Answer 7

If you do not have proof then do not accuse him. Unless you have proof let it go and support your husband. If not then you may loose him. Other than that get proof. If not, shut up.

Answer 8

Cheaters are liars, so of course he would lie about cheating on you. Dump him.

Answer 9

Well my ex-husband used to cheat and lie to me all of the time and I actually wanted so much to believe that he wasn't cheating and that his stories were true, that I would deny myself the truth and try my best to believe him. Stupid girl, I know but at that point in my life, it seemed like a better option to believe his stories and live a lie rather then face the painful and very sobering reality of what he was actually doing behind my back. His cheating and lies went on for years, and he was really good at it too. I left him for awhile after hearing from one of his friend's that he was sleeping around on me in addition to catching him in many lies about his whereabouts. I came back though because once again, I heard the stories but never had any hard proof that anything transpired beyond hearsay. Once I came back, we decided to give it another go and he vowed that he wouldn't lie anymore and that we would really put everything into working our marriage out. Well needless to say, he didn't and I finally did get the evidence I needed when he came home one night really late with a hickey on his neck. The weeks before he came home with the hickey, my intuition had already told me something was up but whenever I tried to talk to him about it he would just say that I was crazy and that there isn't anything going on to discuss or work out. He tried to tell me the hickey was a 'razor burn' and then later said that he didn't know how it got there to after that 'yeah I was really drunk that night and I don't know what happened'. He wouldn't even admit to it a few days later when I found a note in his wallet from some other chick. (Yeah I searched for more proof of his infidelity and found it). He said that it was a one time thing and that they never had sex, blah, blah, blah. I didn't even care at this point and finally found what I needed to get the hell out a relationship that had brought me down and made me a person that I didn't recognize and hated. Can you believe that he was more upset that I kicked him out of my house in front of my mother rather then have any sort of guilt for what he had done to me? We were separated for a while and the lies still continued through his many attempts to reconcile our marriage. You have to be careful with people like this who cheat because they will do anything to keep having their cake and eating it too (well not all cheaters but many). I apologize for rambling on but what I am ultimately trying to say is that usually if someone is cheating, there are many signs that unfortunately for me, I realized far too late. I could've (and most importantly should've) been out of that toxic marriage a long time ago but I kept feeding on the lies and didn't allow myself to open my eyes and really see what was going on. Unfortunately, when you care about someone you may be more prone to think with your heart (which can be very deceiving) rather then do the smart thing and think with your head. My advice to you would be to keep an eye on his actions because most cheaters are sloppy because for some reason or another they just don't really think that they are going to be exposed and caught for the scumbags that they are. In my situation, my ex wouldn't answer his phone, would make up reasons as to why he had to work late (the chick he was with worked with him), would tell me stories that didn't add up, started caring a lot more about going out with the guys and his appearance, had a lot of hidden phone conversations (like he would either leave the room and even sometimes the house) for calls, I found long nasty looking hair in our truck (we are the only two ever in the car beyond our daughter) and I have short hair, once again he had the damn note in his wallet, etc. I mean if you look hard and he is indeed cheating, you will find your proof it's not that hard. I think that if he is already not coming home that you should be a little suspicious about it. Lastly, if you do find out that he is actually cheating on you, get out of there while you can and find happiness either on your own or later on with someone else who is more respectful, honest, and deserving of your love and affection. You do not deserve to be lied to, cheated on, and disrespected by anyone despite how much you may care about them and how much they claim to care about you. It took me a long time to realize that I was better off without my ex-husband in my life and I hope that if he is treating you in any way that isn't making you happy or hurts you that you find the strength to leave and find the life that you really do deserve. Good luck and take care :) and I hope that everything works out for you.

Answer 10

you should be true to yourself love yourself enough to know that when a man is finish with you for you to just hold on to your dignity and morals for your self