I have an out of control 4 year old. This past year has been really tough on him. He's had alot of changes. From grandma passing away, to my husbands layoff from work & him being home with me & my son 24/7 for 2 straight months, our pregnancy & birth of his brother, moving out of the only home he has known to a new place 2200 miles away. He has no respect, back talks constantly (more than most 4 y/o), tantrums, doesnt share with anyone, hits,kicks & is aggressive towards adults & other children, constantly gives me ultimatums (ie:well if you dont let me do this then I'm gonna break "blank"). He'll be fine for quite some time then its like Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde. When he isnt getting his way & throwing a tantrum or angry you cannot talk to him or reason with him. Me & my husband have tried positive reinforcement, times outs, taking toys & privledges & spanking. Im not for spanking but it seems that is the only thing that will work & it's only a temporary fix. Any advice? What works for you
2006-10-24
18:55:08
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chrissy112
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