I am frustrated, having had 3 children of my own, who are no longer in our hme I never thought this was going to be a problem. She thinks I am her real mom, so that is not the issue. But she is obstinent, lies, acts sneaky, is defiant, plays emotional games between my husband and I....I am growing extremely frustrated. No matter what punishment form I have tried nothing has worked, and trust me I have tried many. Anyone wanna give me some suggestions? Her biological mother is in the process of getting clean and sober and will get visits eventually if she continues to be sober, this child believes I am her mother, although we try to be honest with her, I think she is too young to explain it all to. But that really isn't the issue anyway. It is her behavior. In front of others, she makes me look like an ogre. She just refuses to follow the rules we have laid down and at times her father does not back me up. Sometimes I wonder if I don't expect too much from her. I don't know.
2006-09-10
15:52:44
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