Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - September 2006

My parents are obsessed with my son, treat him like an infant, they sleep with him every night and want him at their house all the time. My dad molested me and took my virginity, should I worry about my little boy? My dad gives him toys and special treats every day. Will he do anything to my son?

2006-09-28 11:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by T C 2

I was in my ENG 101 class today and w had this big argument about how some females these days use abortion as a birthcontrol method. How do you guys feel about it?

2006-09-28 11:16:59 · 27 answers · asked by MizModelMaterial 1

can anyone explain this to me plz??
and thanks for answering!!

2006-09-28 10:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by *********** 4

2006-09-28 09:34:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked last night if there would be a way to sell my photography. Nobody answered. :-) So, I'm asking it here (I know it's miscategorized, but this seems to be a hot section here and I figured I get at least 2 or 3 answers..I guess the people in the "hobby" section aren't as enthused.) Anyway, can I sell my own photography? I've been told many times over that it's good. I've gotten some on television and people say "That should be in National Geographic!" I have a feeling that because so many people have made that comment that maybe they aren't just blowing smoke up my ***. Is there really a way to sell my photography and get it in magazines and stuff like that?

2006-09-28 09:33:40 · 3 answers · asked by PrettyFromTheCity 1

i had a miscarriage and i want another child now everytime i see a child i feel sad and start to cry its painful.
he said we will soon after i fully recover its almost 6 months iam healthy and ready to try iam so ready to a havd a child is he how can i know and he says now there is no time becuse he says we are too busy for it how can i convince him nicely withought freakin him out that he is ready too. he said that he doesn't want it to happen like the first time wats the problem now?

2006-09-28 09:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 09:20:57 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

Please don't give any mean answers, I just want some supportive answers, and help on how to feel better, or love my baby more. I know it sounds horrible it was an unplanned pregnancy, and I'm sure i will love my baby, but i don't think i do yet. Is this normal? I would never neglect my second baby, I just don't see how i could possibly love him or her as much as i already love my son. I loved my son since i found out i was pregnant with him. This pregnancy just doesn't feel real. I guess maybe I am worried about how this one will turn out because i am so sick and haven't gained any weight yet, but shouldn't i still feel something? I don't want to lose my baby, but I don't think it would devastate me, because i already have one wonderful kid. What is wrong with me? Have you ever felt this way?

2006-09-28 09:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by Cyndi Storm 4

When a woman has a pelvic exam at a prenatal visit and if it comes back that she has an infection or an STD, do they tell her before the appointment, when they find out, or do they make her wait until the appointment?

2006-09-28 08:55:19 · 9 answers · asked by aljea 6

I don’t know if it’s just me or every mother that feels this way. I used to be so stylish--I wore what I wanted but I always looked well put together. Now that I’m a mother I almost feel like looking nice is against the rules. I’ll go to the doctor’s or the school and get stares because I’m not wearing a baggy tee and jeans. I get weird looks because I still dress like I always have. Why is it the “norm” not to care what you look like when you are a mother? Does looking well put together or stylish mean I’m a bad mother in others eyes? I just don’t understand why I’m supposed to lose myself just because I have a child.

2006-09-28 08:40:46 · 22 answers · asked by .vato. 6

to have sex after they have just given birth to there babys what going on.....

2006-09-28 08:35:06 · 8 answers · asked by diane o 3

i think he is teething he has oral gel for that he has been sleeping more during the day, he is only moody during the day for the most part but then in the evening he is just fine i have a clue of what it could be but im not possitive any advise? but he is normally a very happy baby.

2006-09-28 08:25:33 · 10 answers · asked by Shortie 4

I was asked to babysit a friends son from around dinner time till the next morning and she wants to know how much she should pay me. I haven't babysat since I was a teenager so I have no idea, if I wasn't completely broke I would do it for free... What sounds fare concidering she is a friend?

2006-09-28 08:22:54 · 20 answers · asked by Marie 3

I took 5 of them since I left out of town on an emergency. Will I be ok???

2006-09-28 08:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I normally don't have periods while breastfeeding and taking progestrin only birth control pills. But would taking a regular birth control pill change that and make me have a period when I usually wouldn't while breastfeeding?

2006-09-28 08:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by mommyem 4

I have a 15 months baby, After I had her I went into depression. I was feeling soooo odd. I would always think I was going crazy. has this ever happened to anyone?

2006-09-28 08:03:35 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 1

What's up with these half and half people? You know those people who say abortion is murder when the women uses it as birth control but say it's not murder if the mother couldn't afford the child or if the child had a disability or if the woman was raped. What's up with that? I mean #1, if the child would be born to a mother who couldn't afford them--who says the only solution to that is abortion? Ever heard of adoption! What about if the child had a disability? Well, my grandmother has arthritus--maybe we should just kill her and put her out of her misery! Oh wait, the child would be born with a mental problem? Well, I've seen autistic people who are the happiest people you've ever met in your life but I guess we should just kill babies who are gonna be like them. And the woman was raped? What's the difference between that and a girl who got knocked up by her boyfriend and got dumped by him when he found out she was pregnant?

Ever heard the phrase "Don't compromise what's right?"

2006-09-28 08:02:35 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay this is my problem my husband is driving me crazy for sex I have to wait six weeks and he knows this and still keeps bothering me for sex. I'm so tired that I just want to give it up so he will leave me the hell alone. Do I have to wait six weeks? I'm not worried about getting pregnant got my tubes tied. This is so unfair of him I just had A baby why do men do this?

2006-09-28 07:58:44 · 25 answers · asked by honeygirland 3

Going to be a Grandparent, My mom is Grandmother which is what I'd like to be called. Could I still be called that , and also any other suggestions for names.

2006-09-28 07:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by jingles_200 6

I am 35 weeks pregnant and I just went to the bathroom like 30 min ago and wiped blood. It was like spotting blood. I called the doc. and she told me to drink something count my baby's movements for an hour and then call back. So I am doing that, but I am also freaking out. I havent had sex or anything to cause it and I was wondering what else it could be. My mother told me that was how it started when she went into labor. I had braxton hicks all night last night but nothing regular so I didnt worry about it and this morning I woke up feeling like I was on my period and my back was hurting really bad. Any suggestions...please. Anything to help me quit freaking out..I know I shouldnt stress but its hard not to...Im new to this and I was told when you bleed its a bad thing. So some advice would be great. Has anyone gone through this? Thanks for all your help!

2006-09-28 07:40:11 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4

My husband works full time (night shift) and after taxes, makes enough to pay my mom for watching our two kids during the week, with maybe $100 left over for "incidentals." The only drawback is that we get a discount on our auto insurance through his employer. What do you guys think of him refusing to be a SAHD? My solution was for him to work weekends--basically enough to keep our auto ins discount, put a few bucks in his pocket, and have some "adult" time with friends/coworkers. He is adamantly refusing. He's working to pay daycare, basically. Right now, we pay all bills off my salary, and other than the auto insurance discount (which would continue if he worked weekends) there is no drawback that I can see to him staying home. Opinions? Advice? Reasons why he should/shouldn't stay home? I'm going to show him all answers, so please be honest (no matter what your opinion is!).

2006-09-28 07:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by brevejunkie 7

my H and I have an 8 month year old son. He has 2 daughters from another marriage.We live 2 states away from the girls so we dont see them often AND their mom says some bad things about us in front of them as well as they have not gotten to meet their new brother due to legal matters(the mom puts her petty issues with my husband and I before the girls knowing their family).I want our son to have a close sibling to grow up with(one that he won't have a tainted relationship with). My husband is afraid that his daughters will feel "replaced." I feel that the only reason young children feel that way is because the idea is encouraged by an adult(I'm not pointing any fingers BUT the Mom has abandonment issues as well). I do not thnk it's fair for our son to grow up wthout knwing wht it's like to have a bro or sis becuse of ths reason.my H wnts our son to hav a good relatonshp wth the grls but I don't see tht hppenen anytme soon.Our son shuldn't have to wait to knw what its lke to hav tht

2006-09-28 07:15:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i do

2006-09-28 07:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by sweetangel 1

Was there any body changes you could never manage to bounce back from?

2006-09-28 07:03:47 · 5 answers · asked by Graça 3

What is it with MIL's being overbearing? I'm not pregnant yet but my mother-in-law has already told me that she wants to be in the delivery room AND she wants to take off 1-2 weeks after the baby is born. She doesn't mean to be overbearing I don't think but she is. She means well & I don't want to be ugly but my husband and I can handle it. My husband is her only child so I guess that is why she tries to be involved so much. I don't want to make my husband mad either. He is close with his mom and I'm close to her as well but when you have your legs spread you don't wanna show it to everybody!! She is one that will get mad if I tell her no so I guess I'll just not say anything and just let her...

2006-09-28 06:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by beachbum26 2

I keep hearing/reading about MIL's who are inviting themselves and/or expecting to be IN the delivery room when their grandchildren are born. What is up with that? I know not everyone is lucky enough to get great in-laws, but being pregnant myself, this subject just baffles me. I know it's the miracle of birth and all, and grandparents can get excited, but around that baby is a LOT of personal info that not everyone needs to know. Miracle of birth or not, that just seems like TOO much information to have about your DIL. What are they thinking?

2006-09-28 06:07:12 · 22 answers · asked by desiderio 5

i heard that strep can cause u to go into premature labor, is this true? i am very worried about my unborn babys well being!!!

2006-09-28 06:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by greengrass 3

My husband keeps bugging me about when I will stop nursing our son. Is there a age limit to stop at? And how do I wean him from nursing? My other two used a bottle so I knew to take that away, but what can I do to break the nursing habbit? I believe it will be hard on us both, the baby and myself. I think a lot of him still nursing is a comfort and saftey thing. What do I and can I do?

2006-09-28 05:30:08 · 16 answers · asked by ♥just me♥ 5

How would you feel if the person that wanted to adopt your baby had a criminal record? It was for drug charges in 97 and they served 6 years (parole ends in 2009). They are clean now and own their business and make good money; have a house, truck..etc.

2006-09-28 05:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by GreeneyedCowgirl 5

If you dont know about Esure...its a in office procedue of permanant birth controll. they insert tubes in you and within 6 mo, the tissue grows around tubes securing them. no cuts involved, just you have to take the depo shot for 3-6 mos. im weird about new things....

2006-09-28 05:13:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous