Post-partum depression?

Question

I have a 15 months baby, After I had her I went into depression. I was feeling soooo odd. I would always think I was going crazy. has this ever happened to anyone?

Answer 1

Yes, I was miserable after I had my son. He is now 5 and the best thing in the world but I was scared when he was born. Things were not well between his dad and I when he was born and got worse after he was. I was scared I wouldn't be able to be a mom to my boy because I failed at keeping his home complete with a mom and dad. Everyone is scared after having a baby, it's normal really. Some get it worse than others and the best thing is if you talk to your partner, family memeber, priest or doctor about your feelings so they can help you. I talked with my mom and my aunt the most, just having them listen and not judging or offering any advice helped. Just knowing someone was on my side I felt better. You're not alone, trust me. Good luck with the little one.

Answer 2

Asking for help may seem like the hardest task in the world, especially if you feel exhausted and hopeless. Yet that’s just what you need to do if you have symptoms of depression or mania. Even if your symptoms are more vague or you don’t know exactly what the problem is, you may still benefit from a doctor’s opinion and evaluation. If you feel lost or stuck, or are concerned about a feeling, thought, behavior, or situation, seek help.

The first step is often the hardest. Talk with your doctor about your problems, or get a referral to a mental health professional from your doctor, a friend, or one of the organizations listed in this report (see Resources). If you are in a crisis or feel suicidal, immediately call 1-800-SUICIDE for advice or go to your local emergency room.

Together, you and your doctor or therapist can decide on a treatment plan to alleviate your distress. In addition, the following practical suggestions may help you navigate safely through this difficult time:
Ask a friend or family member to accompany you to your first appointment to help describe your problem, assist you in getting treatment, or simply offer support.

Take medications as directed. Don’t skip pills or change doses without consulting your doctor. Also, report any side effects right away, and if necessary, talk to your doctor about adjusting your treatment plan.

Set realistic goals for yourself. Try not to take on more than you can handle.

Join in activities, and try not to isolate yourself from others. Depending on your personal preferences, attending religious services, having a meal with an understanding friend, or going to a movie, ball game, or concert may help lift your mood.

Try to exercise regularly or take a daily walk.

Hold off on making big decisions — about moving, changing jobs, getting married, or seeking a divorce — until your depression has eased or is under control.

If you decide to try a "natural" remedy, such as St. John’s wort, ask your doctor or pharmacist whether it might interact with any other medication you’re taking.

Friends and family often want to help. Let them.More medications are available to treat depression than ever before. Some antidepressant classes have fallen out of favor, while others have risen in popularity. Currently, the most commonly prescribed antidepressants are drugs that have been developed since the mid-1980s. SSRIs lead the list in popularity. Some medications don’t fall into one class. They include bupropion (Wellbutrin), mirtazapine (Remeron), venlafaxine (Effexor), and duloxetine (Cymbalta). Two older classes of antidepressants, tricyclic antidepressants (TCAs) and MAOIs, are still very useful — some people take them without being bothered by side effects — but on average their side effects have made them less appealing as a first-line treatment.

Answer 3

Yes, it happened to me when I had my son (my first child). It did not get better and I thought I was going crazy. My husband didn't understand what was wrong with me. My primary care doctor (not my OB) figured it out and he prescribed antidepressants. I did NOT want to take the meds. I finally got over my issue and within a couple of weeks of taking the medicine I felt NORMAL again. Once I felt normal again, I enjoyed my son more and I'm sure I was a better mother too. I took the antidepressants for about a year and then I was able to stop. (I really wanted to stop the medication earlier, but my doctor said you have a better chance of not relapsing into depression if you take them for one year).

People (especially doctors) need to be better informed about post partum depression. Don't' be afraid of taking anti-depressants. They can help.

I was scared the same thing would happen to me when I had my next child. I talked to my doctor about it. I ended up fine and didn't need any medication after her birth.

Get help and good luck. Life will get better.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Yes that is happening to me now I had my baby 4 weeks ago and thought that the depression was over but now it is back or it never went away.

Answer 6

YES ME AND I EVEN ATTEMPTED SUICIDE, I WOULD JUST SIT IN A CHAIR HAIR UNCOMBED, BODY FILTHY AND WATCH MY SON CRY NOW WHEN I WENT TO THE HOSPITAL AFTER THE ATTEMPT THEY SENT A SOCIAL WORKER IN TO SPEAK WITH ME AND SHE EXPLAIED WHAT WAS HAPPENING TO ME MY RELATIVES CALLED IT THE BABY BLUES NO IT'S CALLED POST PARTUM DEPRESSION AND IT REAL I OVERCAME IT BY TALKING WITH A PROFESSIONAL IF YOU ARE STILL SUFFERING DON'T BE EMBARASSED TO SEEK HELP. POST PARTUM DEPRESSION IS WHAT MADE THE MOTHER OF 5 IN TEXAS DROWN HER CHILDREN SO DON'T FRET 1 OUT OF 5 WOMEN WILL SUFFER FROM THIS CONDITION. SO NO YOU ARE NOT CRAZY.

Answer 7

yes going thru it at the minute and my childs 13 months the doctor put me on tablets which were great but now that ive come off them its hit me even harder todays been a particularly bad day if you ever need someone to talk to fell free to e-mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 8

yes it does happen alot but it is also controllable. a therapist could help out if you are okay with taking medication which is the safest way to go.

Answer 9

many people, you are blessed ,so many woman can"t cope,there are woman who have seriously hurt there children and themselves because of this condition, some have killed.
I was depressed with all of my kids and I have 5 ,thank God for Jesus

Answer 10

Yes, it's normal to go through that. You should really consider seeing a therapist, it helps so much.