I miscarried in August, pregnancy was a surprise, by that I mean I was that .1 percent that got pregant on birth control. Well I know numerous people that are pregnant and everyone wants to come to me to talk about their pregancies whether it is questions. concerns or just plan relationship problems. At first I was open, but now it has gottent to be too much and I realized I really wanted my child that I miscarried and no one sees that. I was one of those people that was like I have a child my fiance has a two we don't want anymore, but once we got pregnant we warmed up to it. We are currently trying and we haven't disclosed to anyone, but I just feel worse when I have to talk to everyone else about theirs. I don't want to be rude but now it is to the point where I'm avoiding people because I don't want to celebrate their happiness. I'm not a bad person I'm just tired. I guess I'm want to be supportive I jsut don't know how to set bounderies....any suggestions?
2006-09-29
06:46:08
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Kenya
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