what do i do
2006-09-28 07:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by sweetangel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Rethink it! Having a baby is a HUGE responsibility. At your age you should be having fun, hanging out with friends, staying up too late talking on the phone sleeping in till way too late...once you have a baby all that ends. You wont be able to make plans as easily as you can now, your baby is totally depend ant on you and that's a HUGE deal. I'm guessing you still live at home. Not being out on your own yet, do you really think you can handle being a mom at this point? Are you thinking your parents will help out? It's not a good idea getting into parenthood assuming parents will help out...Please enjoy your youth have fun and let yourself become an adult before you make such big decisions.And as for your Boyfriend, I cant say I've ever known a boy his age who really wanted to to be (sorry the best phrase I can come up with) "tied down" this early in life.....might sound like a great idea but maybe you should go and check out young mothers on a bog and see what they have to say.....
2006-09-28 07:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex with a 16 year old boy as you are legally an adult now. Tell your boyfriend that you are not ready to have a baby. If he persisits, break it off with him. You are too young and a baby is a HUGE responsibility that no 16 year old child is emotionally or fiscally ready to take on. TELL HIM NO!
2006-09-28 14:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by sm2f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. What the heck are you doing with a 16 yr old.
2. Don't, no way he can afford to support a child and I pay too much in taxes now.
3. Grow up, get educated, get a good job and then get married.
2006-09-28 14:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two aren't old enough to raise a baby. You need to be married and you need good careers so right now your main focus should be finishing school and going to college. I know this may not be what you want to hear but it is the truth!!
2006-09-28 14:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by beachbum26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get you a wedding ring then. 16 is too young to plan a family, especially without a commitment. I would tell him that you would like to be married first and then after that begin planning for a family.
2006-09-28 14:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off don't breed you can not even speak. He is not the one that is going to have to haul the kid around for 9 months and push a watermelon out a lemon size hole, he is not going to take care of a kid he won't have a job to support it.
2006-09-28 14:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now isn't the time. u're even questioning it. he's a minor. use condoms each and every time!! serious. u can decide if u want a baby, and if u want him to be the father in a couple of year. pls, pls, wait!!!
2006-09-28 15:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT, THINK ABOUT ALL THE STRESS AND PROBLEMS THAT YOU WILL FACE HAVING A CHILD JUST B/C YOU'RE 16 YR OLD B/F WANTS YOU TOO. DO YOU EVEN WANT TO? TO ME IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DON'T. TELL HIM THAT YOU AREN'T READY AND WANT TO CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL AND THAT HE SHOULD DO THE SAME.
2006-09-28 15:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by beautyj24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a job? Whats the rush?I dont understand why babies want to have babies
2006-09-28 14:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by First L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use birth control -- ALL THE TIME!!!
2006-09-28 14:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by LasVegasMomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋