I was up around 4:30 in the morning the other day; so was one of my cats. She wanted nothing more than to go outside.
"No," I said, "we don't have 'out' while it's still dark, honey."
She complained about this for a bit, and went off while I mucked about in the kitchen.
Not ten minutes later, my husband was awake and downstairs, with the cat. Apparently she'd gone off to complain to him about the whole in/out situation, waking him up and everything...
We eventually figured out that I'd promised another trip outside the night before, and promised it "tomorrow," with no qualifiers as to when "tomorrow" started. Hence her complaint to her Dad.
On one hand, she is aware that she's not to be out when it's dark; on the other, it was, technically, "tomorrow." We are committed to attachment-cat-parenting, so nobody's mad at her for waking up her father, but -- there is some residual tension about the whole misunderstanding.
Who was in the wrong here?
2007-08-07
23:28:45
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