Weddings - January 2007

Im getting married in august and im totally baffled on what to do...We are planning on getting married at the courthouse (on the lawn) and have a small iniment wedding. We were planning on having a lot of people at the wedding..but that has changed and we want a small one....what should we do about the people who wanted to come??? with us being low on money we both understand a big wedding is not in the plans anymore..all we wanna do it get married with the most important people! Is that so wrong? any ideas on what to do anyone!?

2007-01-23 05:06:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 04:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

I have been trying to think of something different for a wedding favour instead of the usual almond boxes or bonbonieres any ideas welcome!!!!

2007-01-23 04:58:15 · 34 answers · asked by sweety 1

My mother and I don't have the best relationship ever but we still talk and what not, and when I got engaged she offered to pay for the wedding and everything even for my dress. Well when it came down to me buying my dress she was nowhere to be found so now I have to buy that myself. I want to get this wedding planned already and she keeps saying that she needs more time to get money together. ( she has the money she makes more than enough ) Im not even wanted that big of a wedding but everytime I go to plan it she makes up excuses and I have to push the date back I have had to do this at least four times already. I just want to get married already. I know the grooms family pays for the alcohol but I don't want an open bar so should I ask my fiancee' to talk with his parents and see if they will help us out with some of it and us pay for some as well?? I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS. I just want to get married already and my mom is making things very hard on us.

2007-01-23 04:43:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really don't want dark colors so I was thinking about maybe platinum or champagne colored dresses???? Does that go with a January wedding?

2007-01-23 04:41:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are her "duties" as her sisters maid of honor?

2007-01-23 04:40:57 · 14 answers · asked by suzycrmchz 3

Your best friend is going to be your maid of honor. However, you don't know her fiance all THAT well.. but you know it would mean alot to her if he was there, regardless of the fact that it is YOUR wedding. I'd like to have him there, but would you invite him to the wedding, and if so, how? Thanks

2007-01-23 04:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 04:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke M 1

I'm getting married at our local courthouse. It will just be me and my fiance. And his mom as our witness.
There won't be a big ceremony either. We'll probably go out and eat and that's about it.
We're planning our big wedding for next year (2008).

I haven't bought my dress yet. And i am not planning on buying a big expensive wedding gown. I want something simple like a white or ivory prom dress, evening gown or social dress. Doesn't really matter what it's called.

But i was wondering if it would be ok if i go pick out a dress with my fiance. Since it won't be a traditional wedding anyway....

2007-01-23 04:34:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say you want to get engaged to your girlfriend, you need to know more about her, what questions should be asked, to see she is the right one for you?

2007-01-23 04:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 04:12:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 04:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married on St Patricks Day!! I need some ideas for the wedding!!!

2007-01-23 04:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married. So, when is the best time to please and win my guy's heart .

2007-01-23 04:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by Abose b 1

i'm not sure what type of chocolate you need to use to make molds, or how expensive it will be? I want to stay in budget, but i also want my guests to have something nice. did i say i have 250 guests.. if anyone knows of any ideas, of inexpensive favors please help

2007-01-23 03:54:49 · 8 answers · asked by mandylinn 3

2007-01-23 03:52:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24, we have been together for 2 years and moved to a different state on our own, and have our own place. He is my absolute best friend, we talk about anything and everything, we do everything together. We have talked about our own goals and dreams and we both want many of the same things. We have talked marriage and I am SOO excited if/when he does decide to propose. But part of me is kind of scared too, how can I be sure he is the one? Can I be sure? Is it normal to have some doubts (I really don't want to say 'doubts' I guess I just mean...is it normal to have some questions of whether he is the right one for the rest of my life)? How did you feel before you got married or engaged? What was your relationship like? Thanks in advance for everyone's advice

2007-01-23 03:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need HELP !!!!!!!!!!?
i need some help okay u may or may not know AJ the kid i superly love okay well we r playing volleyball and he is a junior and im a sophmore and we play all together i have mostly seniors and like 2 juniors on my team but today we played his team and he was kinda putting signs on the table and i was picking them up like he smiled at me and we would stare at eachother wen 1 wasnt looking so i dont know if i should ask him out what do u people think !!!!!!!! i need help!!!!! PLEASE

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but he flirts with me to and i really like him but its not the first time that a guy liked me or i liked a guy !!!!???!!
bahahahaha

2007-01-23 03:24:14 · 9 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1

2007-01-23 03:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2

Has anyone experienced or has known someone who has experienced wedding postpardum? Is there ways to prepare yourself or things you can do to avoid this?

2007-01-23 03:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by angel 3

and then having a large reception when we come home. Is it okay to include where we are registered in the reception invitations?

2007-01-23 03:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by nmdun 1

Since they already have a VERY good idea we are planning this:

Should we tell our parents of destination wedding upon first meeting; they never met before .... tell them of our plans at first meeting?

My fiance and I have recently decided to have a destination wedding and not invite ANYONE, including our parents.

My parents divorced over 20 years ago and still HATE each other. Both have re-married since then. My fiance's parents are still married and would really like us to have a TRADITIONAL wedding, as would my mother and my grandmother.

While they have an idea of our plans, we are thinking of having them (my mother and stepfather and his parents) meet for the first time for dinner and announce our wedding plan.

We think that they are less likely to get overly upset in the presence of future in-laws, and this will allow them to let the news settle in for a little while.

Is this an ambush to spring it on them like this, or a good idea, so we don't get a guilt trip?

2007-01-23 02:53:10 · 10 answers · asked by Advice Please 3

What are the typical songs played through out the ceremony. I never paid attention and now I have to tell my pianist what I want. I don't have any desire to be different...and I need suggestions for a song she can actually sing as well.

2007-01-23 02:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

They barely know this girl, see her at the kid's birthday parties. 3-4 times a year, until she moved out of state. She just found out that they called her sister in law for her address, her parents and her sister's address. Rule of thumb, if you don't have their address---they must not be close....don't invite them! Anyway, my friend doesn't want to go and she doubts her parents or sister will want to go. She's wondering if she should talk to her brother and his wife about it, so that they can explain this to her family? Or if she should just decline when the invites come? Another thought would be decline the shower--but ship a shower gift (from the family)....and decline the wedding? But I don't see why they would even have to go that far. Jeeeez, are people that desperate for gifts? Any thoughts on this? I say decline both, don't send gifts and don't worry about people you barely know.

2007-01-23 02:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by crazymom 4

is it proper to inlcude something in the invitation to give the bride/groom something as a money tree or include a link for donations to a disney vacation for the bride/groom & children?
they really don't need anything as they've been together 9 years, two children and already have home.

2007-01-23 02:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by kathrynjtm 1

My wedding is going to be in Spain but we are going to live in New Zealand. Is is rude to remind people of that fact and ask them to take it into consideration when getting us a present? I don´t want to seem rude but if more than 70 people gives us something I don´t know what we could do to send them all over...

2007-01-23 02:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by aroundtheworld 2

Our wedding is set for August 1, 2007. We're having a small intimate wedding with approximately 75 guests. How do I let our guests know about our registries?

I have read you shouldn't put it in the wedding invitation, but is it okay to include our registry locations along with our "save the date" cards we are sending out?

2007-01-23 02:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by Sip 3

i want honest answers please

2007-01-23 00:42:28 · 14 answers · asked by patricia s 1

married 7/7/07, are you going to be one of them ? If so are you choosing that day because it is suppose to be very lucky?

2007-01-23 00:12:43 · 21 answers · asked by lisababyg ♥ 5

Which would you do?

2007-01-22 23:42:34 · 11 answers · asked by STARS 3