Weddings - January 2007

Is it possible the married/engaged couples on Eharmoney are getting married are taking big steps because, the matching process on the site is so slow that the minute they see someone they get along with they just jump on the opportunity and marry them?

Could it also be that these people are soo into the thought of marriage that they are just quicker to jump the gun the minute the system spits out someone who they get along with and cant help but to think to marry them?

2007-01-23 16:18:13 · 6 answers · asked by Gina L 1

My fiance's 2 cousins have been mad at us for an incident that happened 5 mths ago. (To make a long story short, one of the cousins who was receiving housing assistance was allowing her mom & brother to live with her; little did we know that her mom was telling the Social Security dept. that she was living with us (so she could keep her dissability benefits and her daughter could keep her low income) they got us involved to the point where a detective asked us ?'s and neither my fiance nor I was about to lie for them. Since we didn't lie for them, that is the reason why they are mad at us. So they talked bad about us for quite some time but now everything has calmed down but they still don't talk to us. We do see them at the grocery store and at a local club and they don't make any effort to talk to us. Do I send an invite & let them make the choice themselves if they don't want to come...but we don't want them to come and talk bad about us during our wedding either..what would u do?

2007-01-23 16:14:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do they vary by location?

2007-01-23 15:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 2

2007-01-23 15:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by Levitra K 1

2007-01-23 15:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. What is the traditional proccess by which couples meet in court in this culture>
2. How long does the engagement last before the wedding cremony?
3. Where does the wedding take place typically?
4. Are there any specific month, days, or times of day considered to be auspicious and/ or inasupicious for the ceremony? If so, why?
5.What colours or symbols are associated with marriage in this culture?
6. What kind of attire do the participants wear? Does it have any particular significnace?

2007-01-23 15:04:15 · 1 answers · asked by pingaandi 2

I was at a bachelor party where the groom to be was stripped by the 3 strippers that had arrived, and they obviously toyed around with him for quite a while. This honestly made me raise the question, is this too far? Would his fiance be upset? Is this what normally goes on at these parties ???

2007-01-23 15:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by Razor 2

I waited too long for the "good gifts" and all that are left are like pot holders and things like that. And I want the gift to be something that is for them, but that is "me" like too. Not pot holders.

2007-01-23 14:49:00 · 15 answers · asked by Suzanne C 1

I realize that a cash bar is considered to be in bad taste. Do you think people would be disapointed if there was free wine and non-alcholic beverages? (Punch, Pop etc.) but no hard liquor?

2007-01-23 14:35:57 · 17 answers · asked by July Wedding Girl 2

I am the maid of honor in a wedding, If i was to host a bachelorette party on a party bus (lots of fun!) for a night of clubs, casinos, etc., would it be wrong to ask the other girls to pay their part? for example, lets say the bus costs $1200, and we had 30 girls, should i ask each to chip in $40??

2007-01-23 13:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by >>Ascher<< 3

she will feel awful and the dress won't fit. If she's induced, same situation. Either way, I don't know what to do. I want her to be involved, but I don't know if she will be able. Thanks:)

2007-01-23 13:58:02 · 19 answers · asked by lola 2

2007-01-23 13:55:11 · 1 answers · asked by catfrommiss_42 1

how old were you the first time you lost your "purity"?

2007-01-23 13:40:30 · 27 answers · asked by NCH pride 1

How soon before the actual wedding should the bride have a bachelorette party?

2007-01-23 13:12:24 · 13 answers · asked by >>Ascher<< 3

I am personally addressing them, but wanted to know if I should write Mr. John Smith and Guest or just Mr. John Smith. I am inviting guests if someone doesnt have a significant other, as I think its rude not too. Also, should I just use normal hand writing or calligraphy? Im not a master at calligraphy, far from it, but I am trying. Thanks for everyones help in advance.

2007-01-23 13:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by michaellandonsmommy 6

2007-01-23 13:06:56 · 18 answers · asked by maverick 1

I'm planning a 1950's wedding but am having trouble envisioning what it will be like. I don't want it to be about juke boxes, poodle skirts, and music notes. I'd like something a little more formal but can't figure out what. Does anyone have any ideas for:

1. Decorations
2. Favors
3. Music source - record player, dj, CD player hidden beneath table, ect.

2007-01-23 12:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by Galoshes 3

I ordered a Alfred Angelo dress. It is too small. And the arms are tight! I think i was measured wrong! I have included a link to the dress. I cant even zip it! Can this be taken out? I have an appt. with a seamtress in a month but am freaking out... i havnt gained weight and can't loose any... PLEASE HELP... http://www.alfredangelo.com/index.cfm.. it is a style # 1575

2007-01-23 12:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by looking_4_0drama 2

I'm having my wedding late april and it's going to be at my fiance and i's church. It's not going to be huge...just something simple and nice. Only immediate family and a few close friends are attending so it will be small. We are thinkin of have the wedding then doing a dinner at this really romantic/fancy restaurant that both of our families love...but I keep on drawing blanks at to what i want to do with the actual wedding. I always imaged a big fairytale wedding like in the movie and books but its not what I really want. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? Or know of any great websites to help me plan, find some good wedding stuff, etc...

Oh and it's not gonna be really formal like with a reception, rehersal, or anything....just the wedding then the dinner....any ideas though would be great! But it'd definately going to be small, simple, and special...so keep that in mind while answering! Thanks!

2007-01-23 11:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Amanda 3

Esp since we both are virgins?

2007-01-23 11:49:52 · 17 answers · asked by Coalie 2

good look, sort of a 'Miami Vice' retro look? An, if I want to draw more attention, sandals?

2007-01-23 11:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by victorschool1 5

I just got asked to be the maid of honor at my sister in laws last minute wedding in 3 weeks. What are my responsibilities since she is doing it in vegas? Help!!!

2007-01-23 11:44:20 · 2 answers · asked by Maid of Honor Jitters 1

My sister's planning a wedding on an extremely modest budget and was told that you could save a ton of money getting married on a Friday or a Sunday. Which do you feel is more appropriate? We have quite a few out of town family members. Is the whole Friday/Sunday thing just dumb and she should bite the bullet and find the money for a traditional Saturday wedding?? What do you think?

2007-01-23 11:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Trouble's Mama 5

2007-01-23 11:37:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The step-daughter is planning her wedding for that particular timeframe. Is this selfish of her, or should I see it as one day and bite the bullet to please my husband and child and place my feelings aside for that one day?
Searching for many responses.
Plz, all rude comments and criticisms may press the ENTER key and move on.
Thanks.

2007-01-23 11:34:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

The step=daughter is planning her wedding for that particular timeframe. Is this selfish of her, ,or should I see it as one day and bite the bullet to please my husband and child?
Searching for many responses.
Plz, all rude comments and criticisms may press the ENTER key and move on.
Thanks.

2007-01-23 11:32:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, long story short. My ex-best friend was the maid of honor at my wedding. We are no longer friends. Well her whole family came to the wedding pretty much. Mom, grandma, 2 brothers and one sister (who was also in my wedding party). I also rent from her mom. She lives down stairs with her mom along with her brother and his wife (they are all adults). I want to send thank you's out to everyone. I will to her brother that lives on his own, grandma and her sister who lives on her own. The problem is the ones downstairs. The only one that I feel doesn't deserve a thank you is my ex-friend, and believe me she really really doesn't. But I don't want it to be shoved in her face. What would you do, just send out the thank you's anyway and forget how it may make her feel or ignore the whole family all together?

And her mom and grandma could care less about the whole situation, honestly. I've spoken to them since then.

2007-01-23 11:26:16 · 8 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7

Have you used your dress for anything else?

My friend used her dress in the making of 1 girl baptism dress and 2 for her little boys.

2007-01-23 11:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

When should I give them their gifts? We are having a wedding rehearsal a day before the wedding. Should I give the wedding party their gifts then or at the wedding?

2007-01-23 11:06:45 · 21 answers · asked by shydiva218 1

i need a ribbon somewhat matching the picture in the link i will provide (white with black beaded edges). the brides bouquet is going to be white roses, white dendrobium, a little bit of stephanotis & black ornamental chili peppers. (basically same bouquet as in the picture but with roses). i need to find a website with ribbon like this or somewhat like this.


http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/5316/meganbouquet4yn.png

2007-01-23 10:56:57 · 5 answers · asked by erin 2