Say you want to get engaged to your girlfriend, you need to know more about her, what questions should be asked, to see she is the right one for you?
2007-01-23 04:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If I needed to know more about my girlfriend before I pop the question, I'm either in a hurry or there's something fishy about her or the people she's associated with. In any case, a good way to get startet is:
"If you were to marry the man of your dreams, what would you have to tell him so that it becomes a secret between you and him?"
2007-01-26 04:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are thousands of questions to ask.
What does she expect out of marriage?
Does she want children? How many?
But these topics should be discussed as you get to know one another. You can't just present her with a questionaire.
And besides, who knows about love & commitment? There are couples that people wager won't make it to the 2nd anniversary that have been married 40 years. And then there are those that seem soooo compatible that never go the distance.
The only way you r-e-a-l-l-y know a person is the day-to-day living life. And still, somedays you look across the table & wonder who that person is. It is about honoring the vow you make.
2007-01-23 05:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, if you are already considering marrying her, hopefully you know her well enough. However, make sure you know everything about her family, how she feels about them, how she gets along with them. You will need to know if she wants children, how many, would she want to be a working mom, or a stay at home mom. Make sure your religions are compatible, because your values and morals define a lot about your future marriage and family. Is she in debt? Does she abuse credit cards? Ask her what she believes the role of a husband and the role of a wife are.
2007-01-23 08:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, by the time you're considering engagement, all the relevant questions should already have been asked. If they haven't been, take more time before proposing. It's not like there's a questionnaire you hand her before giving her a ring... You learn about a person from interacting with them over time, not as much from specific questions and answers.
2007-01-23 05:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her father in case you want to be classic, you dont want the moms permission. there are a selection of thoughts to ask, purely be advantageous you're by myself and your female friend rather isnt modern. that is going to be a private second between you and her dad. in spite of everything he will be offering you mutually with his maximum efficient belonging, you want him to understand you're truthful about taking good care of her, no longer purely performing some grand instruct for each body. My husband become in college at the same time as he requested my dad so he requested on the phone, my BIL requested my dad at the same time as they were out on the golfing route. Its no longer a lot your area as what you're saying. And when you're straightforward and back, truthful it will be a good second to commence your relationship off with this guy. you've given him appreciate so he will be more suitable than in all probability to grant it lower back to you.
2016-10-15 23:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't already know her well enough to know the answer, then she is not the right one for you.
It's not a contest - she can't answer a series of questions for the big prize. This is your future - you need to make the call.
2007-01-23 04:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by firehorsetwo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun you should know if shes the right one miles before you ask her to marry you. on a lighter note getting her name and number might help lol. Seriously you should know each other inside and out before you consider marrying her!!, that takes time but marriage is a lifetime commitment, so its worth taking
2007-01-23 04:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by suzie1968uk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost you need to ask....
is she healthy? are you?
has she been married in the past, therefore free to marry?
does she have children?
who does she live with?
what's her religion?
how does she handle your rough edges?
on a tougher note....notice how she communicates. and check out your communication skills. if you can communicate with excellence (eye contact, expressive words, positivity) there you have it.
in my case, our communication is what keeps us going long and strong.
2007-01-23 07:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask questions to get to know her then you really should'nt be getting in to a life long commitment with her!!! Don't ask questions just be with her for longer.......?
2007-01-23 04:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 does your dad own a brewery
#2 do you swallow
#can you cook
if she answers yes to any of the above your in
if not RUN AWAY
2007-01-24 07:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by R I P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋