Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

2007-10-18 16:03:59 · 24 answers · asked by taz 1

I need to know honestly here. I know it's different depending on each situation, but is it as difficult as everyone says to maintain a boyfriend when you're at two different colleges? We're planning on going to colleges three hours away. What are our chances, realistically?

2007-10-18 15:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I seem to complement girls when I dont even try.

2007-10-18 15:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by mr.fahrenheit 2

What kind of feelings does this evoke? Does it make him want to pursue her MORE or LESS? For example, there is someone that is very attracted to me as I am to him. But we work together so can't really do anything about it. From time to time he asks me if I am seeing anyone and the answer has always been no- UNTIL yesterday when I went on a date to a football game. He happens to be there, sees us and immediately positions himself so he can see us. I notice him walking back and forth and looking up at us from across the field. When my date went to get me a drink, I noticed him looking that way, I guess, to see who I was with. Anyway, I'd like to understand men and how they think when they actually see someone they are attracted to with another man even if they are just hanging out. When I saw him today at work, he seemed to show up everywhere I was and was extra nice to me. Coincidence? He never mentioned seeing me at the game yesterday.

2007-10-18 15:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by jewels 2

Ok I'm a freshman at college and I thought most people would have matured but I guess not. Theres this guy who sits close to me and these people I talk to. He is always making negative jokes about every little thing. He keeps thinking that hes funny and cool when hes the only one whose laughing at his own negative jokes.

Ok I use to humor them but now I'm annoyed. I try to start a friendly conversation and he starts to make negative jokes about it to make me look stupid. I then give him a come back saying how it was unnecessary and a few peeps agreed with me. I sometimes totally ignore him when he tries to make me look like crap.

How should I really deal with him? He thinks I'm his friend. Also would girls choose him over me? Will girls think I'm weak for ignoring his foolishness? I heard girls like mean guys who pick on others because they feel secure with those guys. Thanks for reading.

2007-10-18 15:54:22 · 19 answers · asked by Closed 5

2007-10-18 15:51:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked this girl that i like if she wanted to go to the movies with me and she said yea as long is she is allowed. and today wen i asked her if she knew if she could go or not she told me that she couldnt b/c she has to go to her brothers hockey game on sat nite and that she couldnt go. i want to know if u guys think she is using that as an excuse b/c she doesnt want to go or if she really has to go to her bros game thats an hour away. any opinions? were 15

2007-10-18 15:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by mike 2

hi i think my girl cheated on me.

what are some ways to get your girlfriend to tell u she cheated on u?

i have told her that i need the truth and hinted about it and i at one we broke up and i asked her

so now that we broke up what have you lied about but she said nothing about cheating on me

SO HOW THE **** DO I FIND OUT IF SHE CHEATED ON ME WITHOUT KNOCKING ON ******* DOORS BECAUSE I AM ABOUT TO DO IT

2007-10-18 15:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here goes... I have been with a boy for 3 years, its been rocky cause its been long distance on and off i moved away from home to be with him which was really hard and he doesnt even act like he cares. In the past 2-3 months he is barley there his new friends are more important and he says he cares but doesnt show it but in the past i have been very clingy and its been better latley but im dying...he knows i was with someone else while i was not here and he had broken up with me but what was i supposed to do sit around with hopes he would take me back...so he found out recently and now uses it against me at every chance he syas he wants to try nad get past it and things will be good for a few days then the weekend comes na di get ditched cuz his friends are more important he will let me down any day but not them... is this just becuz he doesnt care or cuz he just thinkgs i wont leave him...he doesnt take me seriously at all if i tell him im leaving he just says ok...and it hurts bad

2007-10-18 15:38:33 · 28 answers · asked by Apple 1

I really like a guy who's a year older...pretty sure he likes me back. Catch -- he has a girlfriend who's a complete b*tch to him and he doesn't deserve it. How do I show him that? ...and possibly start something between us?

2007-10-18 15:32:07 · 23 answers · asked by northern orchid 1

2007-10-18 15:32:07 · 31 answers · asked by curious 1

Do you think you can break up and makeup the situation its tough love

2007-10-18 15:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this year i met a guy in lunch. He made a horrible first impression, but since then he's improved and we're kinda friends. Unfortuneatly, I think he likes me and thats a problem because i don't like him. I think this because he is far too complimentary and seeks out my company a lot. so the question

1: If he actually does end up asking me out, how can I tell him I don't like him like that nicely while keeping the friendship

Part two: I like this guy and he is a year older than me, but we're really good friends. Should I ask him out, and hope for the best, or should I just wait it out? I'm afraid of ruining a great friendship and that he'd say yes just because he is so kind, charming, respectful, considerate and sweet.

Any ideas?

2007-10-18 15:27:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so theres this guy whos in a couple of my classes and he is SO cute! I really like him but he is such a jerk! He thinks he is all that and he really acts like he thinks that guys are superior to girls!! He is soooo beautiful tho, with kinda long but not too long blonde hair and a beautiful face! I hate him as a person but I just melt when I look at him! It is sooo hard to hate someone when they are DROP DEAD GOURGEOUS!!!! What should I do?!? It is so confusing, because at times I hate him becaus of the way he acts and then at other times I just cant stop thinking about how beautiful he is!! What should I do?!?!

2007-10-18 15:14:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating someone for a few weeks but it is hard for me to tell if she misses me when I am gone or if she is happy when she sees me. I can not tell when she wants a kiss or if she wants me to goto the next stage.

What would you think or do in this situation?

2007-10-18 15:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by Kev 2

im a 17 year old male and some times i dont know what to say to girls .... like what do i talk to girls about?
and i feel like up tight or something

why do people say to act with girls like you act when ur with ur friend thats stupid cuz we cant talk about videogame,porn,and you know guys stuff?

2007-10-18 14:52:32 · 29 answers · asked by Tom 1

she's 17, and will be 18 in no time, and dont worry, it wont be statutory rape or anything like that.... its real love, whether you believe it or not;)
her friends (some of them) have told her that it hurts, and that you bleed the first time you have sex. i know she wants to, but its this fear that keeps her from doing this (and i know she's not bs-ing me, because i KNOW her better than anyone else)
honestly, i dont know what to do: i obviously dont have a vagina to play around with and to find out what might decrease or eliminate the pain...
so thats why i'm asking you (guys and girls alike) to help out
anything is helpful, especially personal experiences and sites that tell you how to work with and around this problem.
also, this might be part of a larger problem, and if so, please speak up and tell me;)
thanks a ton in advance;)

2007-10-18 14:50:46 · 21 answers · asked by me 1

before anything gets to serious between me and this guy whos 2 years younger then me, i want him to know that i cant give him everything he's expecting and that im probably really difficult to be in a relationship with but i dont want to turn him off but at the same rate i don't want to hurt him. and he really needs to know that i have been abused by men sexually physically verbally and every which way you can possibly imagine so he can understand my odd ways and decide whether he wants me or not. P.S. we are both very young, im 17 he's 15, so i know you guys are going to say he cant handle that but i want to know if i should try or not. Also, i can't go out with older guys, they make me really really uncomfortable. Please help?

2007-10-18 14:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 14:45:06 · 54 answers · asked by Lindsay N 1

All of my friends are married and have kids. I am single with no prospects of marriage and I feel that I am being left behind in life. I spent my entire 20's killing myself in college instead of going out and focusing on my personal life. Now it seems I just woke up and looked around to find everyone my age has a husband, kids, and a minivan. Do you think I am getting too old and are becoming a spinster. I don't want to be the old cat lady. I need advice!! HELP!

2007-10-18 14:40:00 · 20 answers · asked by LenaRose 2

2007-10-18 14:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by angel 2

I want to go as the most EXTREME thing possable, so I figure, why not go as a girl......

And have her dress me (as a secret) and not think I'm wierd...

(Extreme, as in: Not usually seen or done)

(Please, no critisism, I am asking a regular question)

JLK2007

2007-10-18 14:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I noticed that a lot of women go for guys with good looks.... especially those coming from different cultural/ethnic backgrounds. And those people with rare looks are most difficult to find.

Take for example Orlando Bloom as opposed to Phillip Seymour Hoffman... or Denzel Washington as opposed to Don Cheadle.... or Russell Wong as opposed to Jackie Chan.

Remember... I'm only referring to the physical attributes of these celebrities.

Can you ladies shed some light on this and why good looks is good chemistry?

2007-10-18 14:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

No kisses, no sexual behavior,
How long did this era last

2007-10-18 14:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by Leo 3

So my ex and I have been seperated for about 3 weeks now, she's had feelings for another guy that lives far away from us. She says she's in love with both of us and is trying to decide who she wants to be with. Well, during these 3 weeks, we've been having sex and kissing and doing al the normal gf/bf things. She recently spent time with this guy and on Sunday (Oct. 14) they became an official couple. the past couple of days she's been telling me to wait because she was gonna come back. Well yesterday we spent the entire day together and she wanted to sleep over at my place. I decided to allow it and when we went to bed, she asked to have sex. So we ended up doing it and now today she has felt like crap cause she realized she cheated on her bf. We're planning to have a talk in an hour or two and I'm not sure of what to say. I feel bad for doing this and I'm afraid I may have ruined any chance of getting back with her. What do I say to her? What do I say to try and have a chance still?

2007-10-18 14:25:37 · 18 answers · asked by Scott S 1

Let's face it,he lost the house and his kids,too (more or less). Lately since i got a new boyfriend my ex has been acting like a pressure cooker. I have a very uneasy feeling.

2007-10-18 14:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy for a month. One evening we started to make out and it felt so close. The the next day he kept texting me about how great everything was and how I made his night perfect.

Then couple days later he tells me he likes me a lot, at which point I freak out...and tell him I need time to think about what we're doing. Eventually I broke up with him b/c he said plainly he didn't want to get hurt again and stuff...made me feel like I would hurt him for sure if I stayed with him!

It's been 1 month, I keep and keep thinkging about him....soo much....and last weekend we saw each other in a club but I freaked out again and..run!

I keep thinking abt him to the point I;m in physical distress...I want him close, no pressure, no stress, no ugly confrontations and explanations.

But something inside me tells me no, it's a abad idea..that I broke up with him for a good reason -he was too intense and demanded too much too fast.

I am torn, what is to be done?

2007-10-18 14:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have berated each other slandered each other and she has said some unfavorabvle things towards me and me to her,we have made racial undertones towards eaxch other(me being asian and her being iranian),but she will still want my attention.pass by me and things of that nature and even get upset if i don't give her attention.I'm afraid that she keeps saying things behinf my back,but i've done my best to patch things up with her.(i was respectful the last few times around)but then i've ignored her ever since.Why would she keep trying?I don't trust her...but i'm confused by her actions.

2007-10-18 14:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

been chatting on line to a very nice friendly man and has asked me for a date, i'm a soft touch and cant say no but really worried i'll agree because i'm vunerbal

2007-10-18 14:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

yea i was just wondering how old were you and what was it like? tell me everything!

2007-10-18 14:06:34 · 29 answers · asked by Volleyball&BasketballQueen 1