Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

HELPS ME THINK.She is a 35 year old single mom (I'm 22), that I met 2 weeks ago because she was helping me paint a (family)friends apartment. We did some painting, but mostly just talked and got to know eachother alittle. (skip ahead-she came over once, I didn't make a move.) She came over on Monday (second time) and we were having good conversation, until she started talking about having SEX w/ a 20 yr old in Mexico, and how she is sleeping wiith a 21 yr old and a 23 year old right now.( i bet she has more) Well, I then asked her if i could kiss her and she said NO, because she doesn't want to add more drama too her situation. She did happen to mention she likes guys to " Control" her and other stuff. I am not a forceful person...I ask before I just try to kiss a woman. I know this sound crazy, but it's ALL true..I know I should have not wanted to do anything with her, but my PENIS was doing the thinking at this point. I was thinking " I have a chance, she likes younger guys."

2007-10-18 17:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1

Like now it is officially getting out of hand.. the last four guys i have messed with, went out with, or talked to has had girlfriends. Why is this happening to me??? Please tell me why?? Can it stop?? Its starting to get to me, im getting upset about it now.

2007-10-18 17:26:28 · 26 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4

I gave more details people?
I have green eyes and medium brown curly hair. I wouldn't say I'm super skinny, but I wouldn't say I'm fat either. I'm smart, shy, funny, and can be a little mean . ( Who's not?)I like to help people and listen to music and hang out with friends. What's wrong with me to make guys not like me? The people before didn't really help me.No guy has ever come up to me and told me that he likes me.My best friend says that I'm pretty and that people like me, but I don't believe her.

16 minutes ago
I like to help people because they need help. I don't want anything out of it other than them being happy.


I really do have green eyes and it depends on the light for how light or dark they are.

2007-10-18 17:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by abbyharleydog 2

I had mentioned to my friend that I had liked this guy in my class but didnt want anything to come of it. Wednesday she decides to blurt out after giving me a compliment “and shes single to!” right in front of the guy. It was that tone of voice where you are trying to emphasis the "secret". Its hard to explain. But anyways I turned beat red.

I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind and I just keep thinking of worse possible scenarios of him asking why she said that or explaining my intense blushing. I have to see him around school at least three times a week. So now im dreading that. I know im over analyzing. I just don’t understand why im so tied up about this and how to make it stop.

hes a nice guy, thats why i like him, but id prefer him as a friend. im not really read for anything like that. Im just hoping im not is type so i can get over it.
blah Nerves can make you act so childish… any advise would be great

2007-10-18 17:24:11 · 2 answers · asked by Kat 2

I 'm curious what makes someone have a great personality?
How can you become the likeable person people want to be around?

2007-10-18 17:22:49 · 1 answers · asked by ? 4

When will you. Forget about all those old fashioned rules of courtship. Desperation in men's eyes is often quite attractive. When will women learn to ask more men out? Like me for instance?

2007-10-18 17:19:48 · 27 answers · asked by John L 4

Well theres this girl in my chemistry class that I just met that I like but I dont really know her shes one of my lab partners, I wanna say something to her but i dont really now her like that, every girl Ive went out with ive known for a while and been friends with previously Ive never approached a girl ive only known for only like 2 weeks so any suggestions on what I should do? And also when ever I talk to her she smiles and gets really red like one time I seen her in the hall and made small talk and she started cheesing really hard and blushing is this a sign that she may like me? or could she just be friendly?

2007-10-18 17:19:09 · 3 answers · asked by josh d 1

(This is what my ex bf that broke up with me 3 months ago sent me recently...oh Lisa is the girl hes talking to now)

Dude, I just dont know who else to talk to... Im really unhappy right now... Like things are going in a alright direction as far as my financial status. Which is great. But i dont feel like im happy. Its alot of things. Well, it really is just two thing Lisa and You. I understand that you cant wait on me, and i dont think you should. But as someone that loves me, can u tell me whats wrong with me? I dont feel attractive at all. I want to get closer to stephanie and i cant. Like i told you, we are just good friends. It just feels like an invisible wall is up sometimes. The more i feel unwanted the more i want. And in the end im here alone sad. Cause i look at you and your doing well. Which is a good thing. Im not asking for you to be sad like me. Just tell me why you think this is. I feel so frustrated. Is it karma for all the bad things i've done?

2007-10-18 17:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by Helen 1

I went out with a girl for 3 years, ups and down but it was nothing but amazing!! true love it felt most of the time, and she did alot for me. but when she told her parents about me, they said no and her mum even slapped her, because she kept saying she wants 2 marry me, they didnt agree because i was much younger than her and i didnt have a real job. anyways she told me it wont happen, and cried and cried, and i cud tell she truly was hurt. anyways she stopped contacting me for months, i got nothing!! not even a miss call from her.....anways 1 day i asked her lets meet and go cinema for the last time, we went and even kissed!!!!!!!!
going home i cried in her arms saying i will miss u,she cried aswel, but after that day i didnt hear from her! its beens 2 months now but still nothing, whats going on???????
we went out for years, and i knew she cared alot,she cried alot if anything happened to me, what happened? it dont make sense to me

2007-10-18 17:18:06 · 3 answers · asked by sugarguyguy 1

I've been invited to an exclusive party (for like the first time ever). My best friend isn't invited. She says she's okay with it, but I feel bad going without her. You're supposed to bring a date. I really like this guy. Everyone I ask says he likes me too. I think it would be lots of fun to finally go to one of these parties. I really want us to go together, but I'm scared to ask him.
Should I go (with him as my date)? If so, how on earth do I ask him?!

2007-10-18 17:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

what makes u interested in a girl?
do u see her personality or wat?
and wat r sum signs u give when u like them?

2007-10-18 17:04:49 · 18 answers · asked by Jacky 2

is it acceptable???...would it last long???..state your side..

2007-10-18 17:01:36 · 13 answers · asked by kriztin 1

my b/f and i have been together for 3 years now and he always picks his mom over me and we have 2 kids help what to do thanks

2007-10-18 16:59:45 · 31 answers · asked by big mama 1

i need help because i am going to lose him and we have been together for 3 years.........

2007-10-18 16:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 and my boyfriends best friend who is 17 is always trying to convince me to have sex with him I always say no his response is always "Roy will never know". Then I tell him that one i am not a cheater and two I don't love him i don't even like him. But he never stops I told my boyfriend and they talked and his friend said that he was just kidding and then the day after was like "If you tell Roy then Roy will know." The he tried to get me to do it again I told my boyfriend again and this time his best friend confirmed everything and now they are not friends and I feel so bad! I just don'r know what to do.

2007-10-18 16:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by socceranglex03 1

Does anybody know how I can get my fat assed girlfriend Rose Marie out of the bedroom? She is now 678 pounds and can barely get her solid *** out of the king size bed we have .This is a real bummer as we live in the Barton and Sherman area and I dont like going looking for crack alone. Please help with any suggestions you have! Thank you!!!

2007-10-18 16:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 16:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

2007-10-18 16:46:42 · 27 answers · asked by grace 4

I meet him 2 months ago. Met each other's mommies, spent every moment we aren't at work with one another. I'm 25, he's 37 so i don't do the "are you my boyfriend?" thing. i do however tell him that if we are having sex that i will only keep it going if it's exclusive and he agrees. he's at a bar with a female friend who tells the bartender that they are sleeping together. the bartender is a good friend who tells me. he denies it and i look through his phone (juvenile, i know) to find a text message from her that says "i'm sorry, i didn't know she knew her". so it's obvious it's true. i am still willing to work this out if he wants to but is it worth it? is it okay seeing that there was no official "status" between us? p.s. i'm no angel. i screwed my ex a week after he and i started seeing each other but realized that i DID want to be with new guy only and haven't strayed (or wanted to stray) since. i'm a cynical girl so my "whatever, it's all bullshit" answer is all i have

2007-10-18 16:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 16:39:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a very physically affectionate person, and there's a big part of me that wants lots of attention. But whenever a guy tells me I'm beautiful or wants to spend lots of time with me, I get scared. I feel this instinctive urge to fight it off. I used to be touchy feely, but now I only like it from guys I have known for a while, not new people. It's like I'm afraid of getting hurt or that they'll change their minds. I was sexually harrassed last year and propositioned a lot by a few sleazy building mates. Do you think that is another reason why I'm scared of male attention? How can I train myself not to be afraid of it? I have pushed away some decent guys and I don't want to do that again. I really want a loving, attentive mate one day.

2007-10-18 16:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do ladies try to act hard to get if he knows that shes intested in getting to know u and also when u ask her a question she tends to say the opposite of wat ur expecting or want her to say on purpose ?

2007-10-18 16:25:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex boyfriend brett had gone out for 5 months, then we broke up in april because he was mad at me saying i nag to much, and hed always get upset with him, and now about 3 weeks ago he calls me , he got sent to juvi right after we broke up and now hes in a group home, he called me up and told me how much he really loved me and how much he still cared, he sounded so sincere but i dont know if he really meant it? he took my virginity and he used to treat me like such **** sometimes but i really like him i know ive never liked a guy like this, he hasnt called me in 3 weeks do u think he doesnt care or what?

2007-10-18 16:22:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My finacee and I have been together for about 2 years, and haven't ever lived together. Now we are going to be living together, and she is afraid that she will be worn out, sexually. Like, she does not want to have sex every day or two, like we had agreed on sevvvveral times. Is it true that she'll become 'worn out' if we were to do this?

2007-10-18 16:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by smrpg4148 1

2007-10-18 16:15:58 · 39 answers · asked by flashlight 2

2007-10-18 16:14:36 · 24 answers · asked by baby gurl 18 1

I recently requested an old friend to add me to his friend list on myspace. I will say that we had a thing for each other in 6th grade, oh so long ago. I haven't seen him in about 10 yrs and we went to different high schools. Instead he sends me a message telling me about what's going on with him, which I was glad. At the end he puts in there that he expects a reply from me unless my boyfriend doesn't want me to have friends. I am single and wondered why he didn't just ask me if I had a boyfriend rather than automatically assume. I guess its flattering that he would expect me to have one, but I'm got this feeling he put that in there to kind of indirectly ask me. Are there any other guys that do that or women that have had guys do that to them?

2007-10-18 16:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Little Lyn 2

with out already investing too much in him. By that I mean already liking him...a lot.

Ive been really hurt and screwed over by guys that I thought were good guys only to find out they were complete...well ya know. Is there any way to tell before I start to like them too much?

2007-10-18 16:11:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, I thought I got a date, right? She goes and tells her friend that we're just going as friends. Might not seem that weird, except for the fact that I was positive she liked me. Everybody else thought so too, some of her friends even came up to me before and told me she likes me. Soooo many people ask us if we're a couple. She flirts with me constantly, she is always touching me, she shows all the signs of liking me. But when her friend walked up to us and said "I heard you're taking her out on a date," she says "no, we're just going as friends." When her friend didn't believe her, she asked me, to prove her friend wrong. I wanted to object, but didn't want to do so in front of her friend. Now it's kinda late for that lol. But wtf??? ok, she's a flirt, I already knew that, but I didn't think she was THAT much of a flirt. She HAS to like me....I mean it's soooo obvious, but yet....is she just messing with me? I don't want to write her off just yet, because I was so sure, but still....

2007-10-18 16:10:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 16:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous