Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

that he is looking for a serious relationship & he seemed very genuine. I have had doubts recently so I checked on a local dating site and saw him on there. It had his picture but another mans name on his profile.
If he was interested in me surely he wouldn't still be going online dating?
How can I tell him that I am feeling hurt by this?

2007-10-18 11:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well after dating for 2 months we broke up .........after breaking up like 1 month later he was dating some other girl but this girl(his girlfriend) calls me private i answer but nobody answers usually when that call comes in i dont pick up cause i know its her......but one day she called me telling me not to call her bf meaning my ex again but i told her whatever ........what do i do if she calls private again and no one answers......until this day i have not told my ex that she called me.......

2007-10-18 11:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by camacholilac 2

I'm seeing my boyfriend soon but i know that it will be 'that time of the month'. We havn't been intimate yet other than touching and kissing. We're both frustrated now but i, being such a giving gf, want to take him to the edge even though i cant get much in return. Apart from the obvious are there any lil sexy, sensual things i can do?

Guys, what drives you wild? Girls, what do your men love you doing?

He knows whats up btw. Doesn't expect anything but i want to surprise him. I have my own techniques etc that i know work. was just looking for something new 2 make things a lil different on my side

2007-10-18 11:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have this trust issue and he said he could not trust me because of what his dad put his mom through when he was younger but i told him i trusted him with everything i had ok.............well i told him if he didnt have anything to hide to give me his password to his myspace and he gave me one similiar to it but it wasnt the write one was he hiding something? well i got his paasword off the internet because i am reallly smart and can get anyones password but anyways i went on to his myspace he was talking to some girl and i wasnt aware but he cheated on me with her and i found that out after i read them emails but he found out i knew some how and he asked me through our myspaces ( so what are we through now or what )and i told him no but after i told him i might be pregnant with his kid he is now trying to denie it and i wont see him till saturday wich is our 3 month anniversary so waht should i do believe hm , just forgive him and talk it over and just let me know.

2007-10-18 11:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1

Its considered good for a man to have sex with loads of diffrent women but when its the other way around the woman gets a bad reputation, how come?

2007-10-18 11:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by Deano 2

So my boyfriend recently just broke up with me. I've been taking it pretty hard. We've had our problems but there was never any doubt that we loved each other. I admit that at times i would pick fights with him over dumb stuff but we would always make up. We saw each other all the time so he missed out on some of the things his friends did but thats a given when you get into a relationship. He friends however would always tell him how lame he was for missing this or that. During one of our fights i broke up with him thinking we would get back together. Come 2 weeks later were not official but were still acting like were dating. one of the days we were haning out he told me he kissed another girl. I was so upset and he told me how bad he felt. Next day he has a change of heart decideds he doesn't want to be with me. he says he wants me to be happy and not cry. i decided i never want to see him. That day he goes out to a party and kisses another girl. Whats the deal.

2007-10-18 11:11:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer C 1

:( he always talks about his ex tisha
how shes ruining his life
and he wants to beat the **** out of her new bf :(
and he says he loves me and he has no feelings what-so-ever for her anymore..
but why the hell does he talk about her so much?
i tell him that if he wants to be with her then he should go be with her and i wont be upset or anything..
but he keeps saying that he loves me and he doesnt want me to break up with him..
i love him.. :(
what do i do?
im so confused..:(

2007-10-18 11:10:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this exchange student who is now my older brother's (one year older) best friend. He came in August. Now he comes over every day to my house. He LOVES coming here, I guess it's because his host-family dosen't like him. Well, and so like more than a month ago he started looking at me a lot at school (he's in my class, because my grade and his grade of high school united this year) and such. My family likes him a lot, cuz he's very sweet and nice. Also, the boy he stays with has had a crush on me since we were kids, so I dunno if this boy's so happy about me being interested in his house-partner (the ES). By the way, that boy has a GF, so he has no right to come between us.
On Sunday my brother went to play some tennis, and his friend stayed here with my family and me. He was so cute. And that day my grandfather came over, so I sang on the karaoke, cuz he wants me to. I also was with a nice dress and all. My mother said the ES (exchange student) LOVED me that night.

2007-10-18 11:05:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to know

2007-10-18 11:02:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy and I are both coming out of bad marriages! TRUST is HUGE between us, and we are both having issues with it because of "other people" .

Well now we have been fighting because I talk to other guys. Not that there are a lot of them, but my best friend happens to be male, who likes to flirt, so Gary ( boyfriends name) found this out and is all bent out os shape about it, keeps asking me "have you talked to your guys today?" This has gotton us in so many fights I dont even want to speak to another guy anymore!
He makes me feel AWFUL! And I understand that he doesnt talk to other girls ( that I know of) but COME ON!!!!
I'm home with him all the time, and if I'm not then I'm at my job. ( which I have also quit to be with him more!!!
Help Me!
Is there anything I can do to make him know I want only him? I'm stressin with him mad all the time, cant take it! And dang it I love him!!!

2007-10-18 10:59:38 · 2 answers · asked by Jenny 1

One of my best (but relatively new) male friends sometimes seems to be hinting at something amorous and flirting, and says things like "Let's travel together!" Then the next day (we work together) he will act uncomfortable and cold. Then invariably we will see each other again and he acts as if we are best friends bordering on something else. I have tried to restrain myself from encouraging a relationship because he has said several times he doesn't want a girlfriend (always talking in generalities, not refering to us directly). But even just being best friends is sometimes hard. You know how it is with a friendship where there are feelings and you can't pretend they don't exist--you're supposedly friends but you feel as wounded almost as if you were dating anyway. Hand on heart, I would be happy being just best friends but i don't know if that's possible with someone who's so 'hot' and 'cold'. WHAT IS HIS GAME?

2007-10-18 10:59:10 · 1 answers · asked by beatrice 2

what do you think is gf material? and what do you look for most in a girl? (optional) would get mad if your ex gf was dating another guy? (opion) do you think most guys still have feelings for thier ex that would maybe wanna get back together?

2007-10-18 10:54:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had a great chemistry, we both were drawn to each like magnets. He asked questions which indicated that he was looking for a wife. He made many attempts to get my affection and attention. Made me laugh & teased & offered gifts

Was seeing him informally helping with a few things and just was not the right time for me. I just was so overwhelmed and really needed to think things over. Asked him to keep in touch and he said has things to sort things out but would definitely want to see me again soon and he reiterated that he will be in touch soon.

It has been over six months and still no sign. He seemed to want to get many things over while there is an opportunity. He is going to be 40 in a few days.

I m growing fonder of him everyday, and just worried that he has gone, the more i think about him the more I realise how great he is. I just don't know what do? I want give him all the space he needs but wish I said what i felt when I had a chance to. Did I miss my chanc

2007-10-18 10:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay....so there is this guy that i like and i kno likes me but i haven't talked to him in over a week! i wouldnt care that much if i didnt like him the way i do. but the last time i talked to him he said he'd call me back but he didnt!then i heard he broke his collarbone or somethin ni football.......i had called him(even though i swore not to call him so i didnt seem desperate.....is that dumb?)to see if he was ok.....but he didnt answer so i left a message.......HE STILL HASNT CALLED ME AND THAT WAS LIKE 2 DAYS AGO!!!!!(opps....i hit the caps lock key.....hehe!)wat do i do?....do i just get over him or do i keep going after him?(if i go after him, im scared ill seem desperate!)PLZZ! HELP!

2007-10-18 10:50:37 · 16 answers · asked by AWO USN Airman 2

u guys got it wrong, i DO talk 2 him, we ARE friends, i was saying, sometimes if we don't talk for like a few days or some ****

2007-10-18 10:47:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my ex of 2 years ago is working close to my house, we date for 3 years back then and i loved her very much. To this day i have never felt for anyone like her and still occasionally dream of her. Should i go there? Ihavent seen or talked to her in 2 years!?!? Help?

2007-10-18 10:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by bread 4

So, I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We hang out frequently, he calls/texts me daily and I'm pretty sure that he is not seeing anyone else. I'd like to know if we are dating exclusively or not. Should I ask or wait for him to bring it up?

2007-10-18 10:33:25 · 3 answers · asked by Heeheheehee 2

What do you girls really want from a man? Its hard to understand you girls you never satify so what his it why you girls are like that

2007-10-18 10:28:02 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

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Don’t forget to star if you like this question ... Hey this is only a reminder, not a request.

2007-10-18 10:18:50 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-10-18 10:17:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this one guy but he has a gf but i like this other guy to but hes single. who should i go for??? ( i like the boy that has a gf more)

2007-10-18 10:11:36 · 38 answers · asked by A.p.H.r.O.d.I.t.E 2

I have been good friends with an older gentleman at work for a year or so now
We've always had great conversations together and share things in common, I consider him a very dear friend
Last night he asked me out to dinner, this is not uncommon because usually everyone from work goes out at once, but this time we were alone
He gave me a huge diamond necklace, confessed his love for me, and now wants us to date. I did not accept the necklace and told him I wanted to remain friends. He can't seem to understand why, he is very rich and women are always falling at his feet but I only love him as a friend
I'm 20 and he is 62. I want to stay close with him but he keeps offering me the necklace and tells me I could live a much better lifestyle with him... but Im happy where I am now
How can I get out of this graciously and still have my friend?

2007-10-18 10:04:16 · 33 answers · asked by marm212 5

Does this guy like me? His name is Blake...He's SO popular. I hang out with his friends and stuff. But he's EXTREMELY popular. Well he stares at me some. And one day he ImED me and said. Heyy are u going to the track? And I said.I dont know..Probably. And he said Oh cool. Well i'll be there. And then one of my best GUY friends that Blake doesnt know. Told me that Blake said DO YOU KNOW HALEY? And then my friend said YEAH. And blake said well cool..Im going out with her =]

But im really not going out with him! lol Does he like me?

2007-10-18 10:02:04 · 71 answers · asked by ♥HollisterBabe♥ 1

Is the blond curly-haired girl in these pictures pretty?
http://i243.photobucket.com/albums/ff216/AlexAnKlai/untitled7.jpg

http://i243.photobucket.com/albums/ff216/AlexAnKlai/untitled3.jpg

http://i243.photobucket.com/albums/ff216/AlexAnKlai/untitled2.jpg

Just curious. What do you think of her?

2007-10-18 09:59:49 · 53 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2

Another Brad question.

The thing is i've dreamt of Brad Pitt4 way too long. I know it sounds stupid cause i don't even know him, and will never meet him.

I only know parts of the people he pretends to be (the characters he's acte/portrayed). But i feel innocence raw/real emotions, when i look at him (who knows it might just be animal magnetism/just a crush) .

I guess i can't really like him though. I couldn't really want someone whose real self comes across as incredibly selfish and almost wicked.. i mean look at how he left Jeniffer Aniston and continued an affair with another woman like he had not just left 7years of his life behind (there's no way he wasn't cheating on his wife.
(I know u can't stay with a person u don't want)
.I still like him:-).

i just want to know can this happen in real life, i mean, With Brad Pitt i know its fantasy, iKnow i'ma fan with a crush. But can people really love/think they love someone they don't like/know& would it really be luv?

2007-10-18 09:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by tidunia 3

My boyfriend is going thru a really hard time right now financially, emotionally and phsically. Today a rock flew up and hit busted the windshield in his truck. He said, "this is the last straw." It was so sad! Any good suggestions on ways to cheer him up? He is 24 and I'm 20. Lives by himself. We are both tight on money right now so I can't take him out to eat or anything. What can I do???

2007-10-18 09:55:12 · 34 answers · asked by whoa 2

I have been meeting many nice girls lately but none of them spark my interest. Usually because they are reserved or they are just not that type of girl. I'm not looking for someone just to "do it" with or someone to have a long term relationship with. I just want to meet a girl who is really comfortable with her sexuallity and isn't affraid to show it.
We all have sexual fantacies, and I want someone who is not affraid to tell me what they like or want.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I want a girl who will take charge and rough me up a lil bit lol.

Where are they!!!??

2007-10-18 09:52:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

of course guys love to see their girl in sexy underwear and bras. I have never really cared about being sexy. I'm a very pretty girl( as i have been told) and i'm not fat or anything. I decided that it was about time that I TRY being sexy so i went to VS and bought a couple sexy bras with underwear to mach, the lacy kind. I want to know why i'm feeling so embarrassed when I think of wearing it for him, what's wrong with me? This has actually bothered me for quite some time, I wish I wanted to be sexy but I feel so embarrassed... :*(

2007-10-18 09:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by underwaterer1 2

ok for people who hav already answered question's from me b4 you know i have bf probs. Ok here's the deal my bf and i are broken up (so he's not really my bf anymor) any way im dating my friend john to make my ex jelous but there's been no response. I know he still likes me cause he flirts w/ me all the time but i try to ignore him. Also his friends say it's obvisis that he still like me. any help?

2007-10-18 09:48:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 09:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by Michael O 2