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2007-10-18 10:18:50 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi..
You just said it "Boys & Girls!"
These are young people enjoying their lives..They are not ready for committment just yet..
They want to be free, have a good time, go away on vacations..They just want to be young and enjoy themselves! They feel. that marriage puts a damper on that responsbility!
Children, Mortgages,Restrictions, Responsibilities, Being faithful to each other..They are not quite ready for that just yet..
When the time is ready, men will start thinking. that it's time to settle down.. Women, will start thinking about that clock ticking away..How much time do they still have left to have children.
It's time to finally start thinking seriously..All of a sudden the boys and girls, will become men and women!
Now they are ready to settle down..(Hopefully)
Take care all..Have a great weekend!
2007-10-18 17:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you have more freedom in dating than marriage. Marriage is a committment most people, especially men, can't make. It involves being faithful and that is just hard to find. It also involves trust and trust is hard to come by when you lie in dating the person you love or supposed to love. Most marriages begin and end because we dont' know everything about each other that we should. Sometimes our families want us to marry and we feel like that's okay. Marriage is a sacred bond made in front of God and should not be entered into lightly. Just because you date someone for a few years and then ask for their hand in marriage, you feel like you can act they way you did when you two were dating but you can't. You have to be more open-minded, more concrete, more dependable; you just have to be more. You can be sure in marriage. Pray about it alone and together. Talk to your partner daily and find out where their head is. If you can't be at least 80% sure, then marriage is not the step that you should take. The other 20% comes from dedication and committment.
2007-10-18 16:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-13 01:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a contract and is a scary thing to get into. It is easy to stop a romance but much more difficult to get out of a marriage. It is also very expensive to get married and even more expensive to get a divorce. Just because you have a romance with someone which is fun does not necessarily mean you want to spend your entire life with them. It may just be fun or a passing phase. It is difficult to really know when you are sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with particular person. You don't want to marry someone where the relationship will likely end soon after. It seems to be a waste of time. Also if you do get married and you husband/wife turns out to be abusive it makes it harder to get away from them.
2007-10-18 10:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they haven't found the right one to marry. Most everyone thinks that marriage is a serious committment. So they want it to be with someone they consider is worth it, and will be with them through thick and thin. But fun is fun,and usually, u don't think the person ur just having a fling with is good and solid enough to be ur marriage mate.
U both put on fronts for each other...but after marriage, the mask comes off, and not all are willing to handle that, and if u know this before marriage, y go through with it? Fun is fun, and serious things are that, so when u are young, u want all the fun out of ur system...so u find others who feel the same....but marriage should be between older people who are ready to tackle that responsibility, and u can find many for fun, but only a select few can carry on the torch of marriage successfully...and they're hard to find.
U want to haVe fun with many, but only marry one..so u have fun with many. But are VERY selective when it comes to marriage. This is y in India, secrecy is prevelant, because when it comes to marriage, girls and boys alike tend to look for projected perfection in their mates..because they think it'll make for an easier marriage. But when having their fun...they don't care about any of their fun buddy's baggage, because they don't ever have to help carry it...but in marriage, they do, so they look for persons preferably with NO luggage of any sort....u know, more room for joint luggage.
2007-10-18 17:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that the marriage is a serious matter. We could have a romantic love. But it is not very sure for the marriage. We must have a lot of responsibly after getting marriage. we often have a discuss at millionarematch.com about the matter. And most of them agree it.
2007-10-19 01:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons come to mind...one is responsibility and everyone is steering clear of that one these days....our society seems to be living fast and furious and things in general don't last and products and you name is not of the quality it was 50 years ago. Relationships have just fell in line with everything else....There is so many people who want what is convenient and they are not willing to commit. It is the wave of the future and another straw on the haystack to our demise.....but how to remedy it remains unknown...now they are offering birth control pills to girls as young as 11 in Portand, ME at King Middle School......what message does this project? There are some "screwed" up things in this world....we could make a list!
2007-10-18 12:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz when you are dating its more freedom.... however marriage seems like a boundation or a stop on dating.... you have more fun and less responsibility when you dating or seeing each other...however when it comes to marriage you need to think about everthing which you can ignore while dating....its spending your life time with someone.....also it you need to think of Finance first,....if you ready or not which can be ignored while romance.......MArriage is a serious business and most of people will take time or would be the last thing on my TO DO LIST....after job/finance which are first priorities now a days....
2007-10-18 10:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Saaro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi gEnTLe m@n...
Because girls and boys think that they have freedom to do anything but after marriage they both have many relations to carry on and the utmost thing they'll have to get settled in life.
Girls are not sure because nowadays modern girls doesn't want all that in-laws problem.
Boys are not sure because they don't want to get settled.
But i think when once a couple is in love they should get settled in life as soon s possible.
Dont worry dude, neither me nor my bf is of that class who hesitates about marriage. We are dying to marry but still i have to complete my education and he have to complete his.
Long way to go....lolz....tc...sweet dreamz...bye...
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2007-10-18 18:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they see marriage as the end of their youth and the end of freedom...they see marriage as the start of a serious and difficult road that is full of drama, responsibilities and hard work...they believe that once they get married, the fun and excitement that they have while single will no longer hold true and they just cant stand that...they want to spend their life being carefree, being happy, try new things and enjoy it as much as they can...however, this does not stop them from experimenting with sex....which practically leads to marriage especially if they become pregnant....its kinda ironical...
2007-10-18 18:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋