Together for 2 1/2 years. Just reeling from an event in which he ran into and invited a woman from his apt. bldg. (he barely knows) to go with him to a wine festival, then a party, etc., w/no regard for me. Instead of fixing it, he says I should have made myself available & doesn't call for 2 wks. He then comes over but instead of making up, I tell him I can't even look at him the same anymore-I'm hurt! He asks if there's anything that could change that, I say no, so he leaves. A couple days later, he's calling me, he's miserable-so am I, so we get back. Well, about 3 weeks after that, not by his confession, I should add, that the dirty little secret is revealed. Turns out that just hours after leaving my house the night I turned him away, he went to a bar and took someone home. So, "technically" he didn't cheat, but c'mon, 2 hrs? What does that say about the value of this relationship? If he could do this after just 1 attempt to make up for last screw up? Would you get back?
2007-10-18
05:59:19
·
17 answers
·
asked by
Michelle H
1