private pics??

Question

my man and i took some very personal photographs last night, but today he has told all his friends in work about them, and they want him to bring them in??

he is not bringing them in, but who else thinks he is soooooooo wrong for bragging to all his friends about it??

we have been together 7 years and we love and trust each other very much...i just cant beleive he is acting this way.

Answer 1

Well, for flap's sake!!!!
All it takes is one freakin' bad apple to spoil the bunch.
There are a gazillion great guy's out there who would kill to have a partner that would do stuff like that, would never betray your trust and would worship you for being the amazing kinky creature that you are! Then this bone-head comes along, shoots his mouth off and wreaks it for EVERYONE!!!!
Every woman who reads this, no matter how strong her relationship is with her partner, will never, ever do something like this, no matter how much SHE wants to do it, for fear of this gordy-goofball, juvenile behaviour.
May the lord have mercy upon his cripple, prepubescent soul.

Answer 2

First of all, you both agreed to the taking of the photos, which means you have a very vibrant, adventurous, active sex life that you should both be proud of, especially after seven years of being together. The fact that you have such a sex life implies that there is some sort of special connection between you two, most likely Love, because Lust does not last that long unless you have 'fallen in Love'. Men have a habit of boasting about the things they have in their lives to their friends and colleagues, particularly those they are very proud or attached to, (including their partner, house, or car!); this is because it is an ego trip (makes him feel good about himself), a power trip (makes others envious of what he has), and a social bonding mechanism (makes others want to learn how he has achieved and attained his lifestyle and all the benefits). It is WRONG TO BOAST without CONSIDERING your FEELINGS too, I guess he didn't THINK before he ACTED, but there is NOTHING WRONG with bragging or boasting about what he sees as an example of how good his life is or being, HE SHOULD BE PROUD, HOWEVER HE MUST REALISE that he may JEOPARDISE what he values in his life, and RISK losing it, IF he were to take those photos into work.

Answer 3

I certainly do think he was wrong and you should now make sure that all traces of the photographs are obliterated. I think what he has done is a monstrous betrayal of trust and I doubt that I would ever trust him again.
The fact that his friends at work feel it is OK to ask him to bring them in speaks volumes about how he is perceived by them and, by association, how you are perceived. Of course, their perception of you, if they don't actually know you, has been coloured by how he speaks about you.
Does he speak with such impropriety at work about his mother? That will be a "no", I guess.
Make this immature creep show some respect for you or take steps, great big ones, in the opposite direction to him.

Answer 4

First what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom!!! Second have you lost your mind, never do anything that could come back to haunt you (I hope you are not running for office, interested in film or music or general being labelled a ****) Your man was wrong for bragging but you were wrong for doing it
PS
If you break up with him forget about getting them back..all of his friends will know

Answer 5

Hi there.

Well I'm sure you trust your partner to take those pictures. However, once you take those kind of pictures you have no control of where it goes. Imagine any one of those pictures, would you like it to be on a billboard, or front page of a newspaper? Didn't think so.

It's wrong for him to brag about it, but all men do it, he wants to show you off, but he doesn't really respect your feelings that much, because he bragged, but he respects them enough to bring them in.

Make sure you think twice before taking those kind of pics =]

Regards...x

Answer 6

Ok. Yeah. That's a jerk thing to do, and you are totally in the right for thinking that's wrong. You need to make sure he understands that bragging about personal things like that, is not acceptable.

Answer 7

You could look at this in two ways:

1) He is proud of you and wants everyone too know this.

2) He only wants you for the sexual benefits (ot being mean!), If he respected you he would not tell people and keep this close intemaccy between the two of you!

Its completely wrong what he is done!

Answer 8

nicely I fairly have been by using 1000's of google pages attempting to determine it out. So it rather is not any longer what i'm responsive to. the reason being by using the fact, "Tom Anderson" (The writer of Myspace) has been updating alot on myspace and has been doing it on an usual basis. So Tom fixes all the cheats to get previous into inner maximum photos.

Answer 9

That's what men do. They brag. If I were you, have a tight grip on those pics though. I wouldn't put it past him to show them. If you don't like his bragging and think the pics are more personal, talk to him and tell him you'd appreciate things like that to be kept between the two of you...

Answer 10

That was definitely in poor taste. You should probably have a talk with him about other ways for him to get his friends to think he is cool that don't involve putting your private lives on display. If he wants to put you on display then he needs to do it in a manner that elevates you instead of showing you in a vulnerable position. By doing that he is trying to prove to them and to himself that he is in control of the relationship.

It's a guy thing and most of us have a hard time overcoming the peer pressure to be competitive and in charge.