My boyfriend likes to go to this bar after work sometimes. I sometimes think that he's cheating on me. My friend's cousin was in town and she is gorgeous. Anyway I asked her to got to bar and flirt with him or something to see if he would like flirt back or something. She went there and came back within like 30 min.....she said she sat next to him at the bar and he looked at her, just kept minding his own business. She asked him question like are you married, have kids and stuff and he took out his wallet and show a picture of me to her. He finished his drink got up and said have a nice night. She said..he just sat there watching tv and drinking. Now I feel bad...was that wrong to do??
2007-10-18 06:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by Miss H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it was wrong. Now you have to make it up to him. Take him out on a sponatanious date. dont tell him what you did, but show him that you love him and now trust him.
2007-10-18 11:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jon G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong yes, but at least now you know that you should have trusted him in the first place! Don't beat yourself up to much about it, I think most girls go through things like that when we really care about someone. If it would make you feel better (and it probably will) just talk to him about it and tell him you now know it was wrong and you'll never doubt him again. It'll make you feel better at least.
2007-10-18 13:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their insecurities, and it was brave of you to take that next step (or plain mad, can't quite decide). Your suspicions have been put to rest, so you need not dwell on this anymore. I suspect he would be very angry if he found out you had honey-trapped him, so either ensure he NEVER finds out, or sit down and have a reasoned discussion with him and be prepared for the fall-out. All a matter of conscience I guess!
2007-10-18 13:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm well it was wrong but if you did not do that, it would probably be eating you up inside right now. Whats done is done. There is no need to tell him anything because it might bring up trust issues. What he doesnt know wont kill him. Now u know that he wont cheat on you....just leave it as is.
2007-10-18 13:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by hemasrk2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋