Singles & Dating - 19 October 2007

My boyfriend of a few months is planning on visiting a friend (girl) who lives in another country. He tells me she is only a friend but I'm really worried as I don't know her and wonder why he has to do this. He met her when studying overseas a year ago and they've been in contact as friends. She visited him once (before we got together) and they've kept up the contact by chatting. Am I paranoid? I can't help feeling that if a man needs to visit a woman, he must have feelings for her. Any words of wisdom would help me.

2007-10-19 23:53:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She comes from a christian family. We are 25 been dating almost a year and agreed to wait a year to get married. We are also saving sex with each other until married.

Thing is even though her parents like me they do know about some of the problems in our relationship and I am a little uncomfortable with the idea of asking them for her hand in marriage. Not so much that they would say no, but that they would grill me about our issues we've been having lately.

Can't I just forgo this? It is after all her decision. Her sister married a guy her parents knew was bad and would end in divorce and they still let them get married. I just feel stupid about asking for permission...

2007-10-19 23:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

Hey, girls! Do you think you can sit on thighs of a male friend without any feelings for him? Actually a female friend of mine sat on my thighs in a dance club in front of her friends (females). Does it mean anything?

2007-10-19 23:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by Ignorant Guru 2

2007-10-19 23:21:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do really need good positive feedback on this one, Thank you

2007-10-19 23:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Red Riding Hood 3

OK the relationship is not really that old, about a year, six in dog years;)

We have done paintballing, ocean, beach, go karts, put put golf, shooting range, movie, pet store, window shopping, feeding birds, art show (she's an artist), etc.

Most the fun stuff has been done and I try not to repeat things at least not too close together. Any new ideas? Something fun active and adventurous that is not typical?

2007-10-19 23:15:22 · 2 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

I been single for almost 4 years, I have dated during that time, but for some reason I can not trust these women or open to them because it never feels right. Some friends say its because I still am pissed at my ex fiance from 4 yrs ago and I will never trust or get close until I forgive her. I know that it is perfectly normal to hate and not forgive her and it has no bearing on other women because they are different people. Can someone please tell me what the real issue is?

2007-10-19 23:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by rustychiefs 2

We were very , i repeat very drunk. We've kissed before because we'r so close but im defo not a lesbian!! I am getting a divorce from my hubby because i cheated on him with our male maid... We got back to mine and started kissing like we always do but then we put on some dirty channel and we began to touch and one thing led to another....
Does this mean i fancy her? Because all i wanted was abit of fun? Has any one else had the same experience? We are talking to each other fine like it never happend...

2007-10-19 22:34:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl in my English class, whom I have a crush on. I saw her twice walking to class and the first time, she waved and said hi towards my direction, but I thought she was saying hi to somebody behind me, and I didn't want to seem stupid saying hi back when she might be actually saying hi to somebody else. Well the second time I saw her walking to class and she again said hi and waved, but again I thought she was saying hi to somebody behind me and just walked off with a smile. Well after I passed by her, I looked back and there was nobody there!!! Now I just feel really akward but I want to start a conversation. It's pretty pathetic but I'am actually 22 and I'm not usually a shy person except in front of somebody I like. any suggestions???

2007-10-19 22:33:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Do you poke fun with them, act sarcastic and funny and crack jokes?

2. Do you blush and act all awkward, uncomfortable shy and quiet?

2007-10-19 22:25:59 · 16 answers · asked by david 2

A man escapes from prison where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed.

He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair, while tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom. While he's in there, the husband tells his wife:

"Listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck." If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you."

To which his wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck. He wwas whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked me if we had any vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you too!!"

2007-10-19 22:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by **mum to a little miracle** 4

My girlfriend manages to keep track on me because she knows my screen name on YA. So I cant pretend I am doing something else etc as she sees what time I ask questions or answers.

Should I change my screen name and block from other sers so she cannot spot when I'm on here ?

2007-10-19 22:16:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Simple question, the guy is one you spend time with as a friend and he hasn't owned up. Can you tell he fancies you rotten? (especially aimed at worldy wise women of 25 and over).

2007-10-19 21:57:04 · 12 answers · asked by SITSC 1

I would like to remain single forever to benefit my career as an author. I also feel uncomfortable with relationships. What are some good pieces of advice to accomplish this?

2007-10-19 21:54:28 · 15 answers · asked by adm_twister_jcom 5

2007-10-19 21:48:28 · 27 answers · asked by smartypants 2

Recently, researchers at the University of Texas did a study asking people why they had sex. After asking over 2000 people, they were able to catogize a list of 237 common reasons. Some stand-outs:
- I had a headache, thought it would make it go away (you know, I have a headache right now....any takers?)
- Someone dared me (c'mon...someone dare me...I DARE you to!)
- I wanted to cahnge the subject (what subject is so boring that this is the only logical exit?)
- I was attraced to the person (duh!)
- The opportunity presented itself (more common answer for men...anyone surprised?)
- I was afraid my parter would have an affair if I didn't (How many people out there had an affair because their husband/wife didn't?)

So now I throw this out to the wonderful people of POF. Let's see what kind of reasons we've had for having sex (this should be good!)

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http://www.bigblackconnect.com

2007-10-19 21:14:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 21:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

15-20 years younger?

2007-10-19 20:54:54 · 15 answers · asked by guesswho 2

if u girls like a guy in high school then y do u avoid eye contact with them, flirt with their mates, try to ignore them, pretend u don't notice them......why not just show him ur interested....i 100% garentee that if he likes u and u show him u like him, he'll ask u out

2007-10-19 20:50:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I must say, I dated Western woman and almost married 3 of them, but Asian woman are hands down better quality girlfriends, friends, lovers, partners.

While Western woman are busy trying to be like men in the workplace, portrayed in movies and media, Asian women actually like being women. They like being with men, as opposed to having a man, then trashing him to your g/f like Western women do.

Asian women actually respect themselves and men and don't have to carry signs in the street and join organizations brow-beating everyone who doesn't care to listen to their victimology.

Anyone else think Asian women are better?

2007-10-19 20:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by dumblib2009 1

should I go for it or make the sacrifice??

2007-10-19 20:27:31 · 2 answers · asked by vetkin// 1

i just finnished watching the new hannah montana show,
it was so cute. and then i realized how much i like this guy. ive been crushing on him sense cross country started. I was so into him, and i tlked to him all the time on myspace but both of were to shy to tlk in person, one time i went up to him to tell him good job on. hes younger thsn me almost about a year, hes really tall, and cute. whenevr i tlked to him on myspace he always tlked about how he won, so i would have to compliment him, so i said yea ur a god and before when we first started tlkin i said he was cute and he responded as thanks.. i always see him starring at me but that was before now cross country has ended and ive never seen him since, at the championship he got 1st place of course and but never tlked to me and then finally came up to me and tlked the fair was that wekend and he asked me if i was going tonight meaning awhile ago, i said yes but then he totally ignored me and didnt say hi and we walked by each oth

2007-10-19 20:21:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any comments?

2007-10-19 20:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kaka 3

He is a sweet talker but it was kinda disturbing when I found a picture of John Elway with my head photoshoped onto it.

2007-10-19 19:58:25 · 21 answers · asked by KyleBoiAnswer 1

and the other person likes is continually doing things to cut you inwardly what should that tell you about that person? I can tell the person cares to a degree however it's my opinion that she has had suffered much abuse in previous relationships that she is caring with her. Addicted to drama? Any advice/ input is welcome...

2007-10-19 19:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4

do u think a nice beautiful smart girl coould ever like a nerd

2007-10-19 19:38:31 · 17 answers · asked by George S 1

or temptation is to high very weak can't control themselves. What do you think? Cheating = no love at all?

2007-10-19 19:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

2007-10-19 19:07:41 · 19 answers · asked by Lady B 4

Help im meeting this girl tonite for the first time and i just want her to love me help

2007-10-19 19:01:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wasn't sure if the rough and tough look is appealing or maybe just a lil too scruffy

2007-10-19 19:00:34 · 25 answers · asked by LOFT1009 5