Singles & Dating - 19 October 2007

[Im a guy] I do find guys attractive... But not often.. When i do see a guy i find attractive i dont feel like i wuna **** him or anythin... I feel like i wana be with him.. and cuddle sorta thing... Its the way way i feel when i find a girl attractive...

2007-10-19 03:34:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my man and i don't get to see eachother often. it's a long distance relationship btw. we usually have things to do and friends to hang out with when we're together so it's not like it's boring. just wondering if anyone has any suggestions for some spontaneity. he and i are pretty open minded, like to be outdoors, whiskey, movies (comedies and scary films a plus) among other things. sexual suggestions are also appreciated:) thanks so much you guys!

2007-10-19 03:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by dairy queen 5

She's married w/ kids,20yrs older,cheated on husband,touchy feely,and has been told by other women that they're interested.I've told her about my feelings years ago,we're still good friends-has its ups and downs,she calls me her goddaughter,we've had some long hugs,kissed on lips a few times in car/dark (accidental?),we're both religious.She says I'm too quite and that's sneaky to her.I am shy but don't hide my love-always there for her, my hugs are sensual.Fantasize daily.Have a hard time talking to her-don't know what to say/have anything to say-just enjoying our moments together. Told her weeks ago I wanted to meet up to talk to her-we live 1hr away-she says ok but nothing yet.Claims her days have been busy.Emailed her a poem saying some feelings,she says she's confused about it,I emailed back saying this is part of what I wanted to talk about,can we meet.She emailed a poem to me and others basically saying to pray.What 2 do? How do I conversate w/ her besides the basic how's ur day

2007-10-19 03:25:41 · 2 answers · asked by I wonder 1

alright, i was just in a long distance relationship his name was dan, me and dan broke up because i wanted another guy, someone who was close to me. Me and that guy that was "close to me" only lasted 1 day. keep in mind that im a teenager, so this is complicated. anyways, there are tons of guys in my new school who want me, and this one kid touches me all the time, he rubs my back, pokes me, and grabs my ***. i dont know if i like it, or what, but honestly, im wicked confused. im in the process of trying to get back with my ex, because i truely love him, but he's really far away, but for him, im willing to deal with the distance. but this other kid, really makes me think. he isnt as good looking as my ex or anything, but he's really nice, and sometimes i think about what a relationship would be like with him. im really in love with my ex and would do anything for him, but then this other kid gets in the way. i dont know what to do .. . help?

2007-10-19 03:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by nadiaaaa 1

me n my bf live 2gether but work different shifts (he goes 2 work @ 6 in the a.m to bout 3:30 and i work 3 to 11)n when i get home hes in bed already. we used to hasve sex a lot b4 we startd working these hours n now im lucky if i get it once a week. i think hes getting himself off while im at work so its not a big deal to him i dont think but i dont do that kinda stuff so what about me? i totally understand that hes tired n stuff but im in my second trimester n i really really what him lol so i guess my question is: what can i do to let my bf know that im ready n willn?

2007-10-19 03:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but we split up 3 times at periods when he told me that he needs to play the field and was temped by other girls. I was devastated but respected his choice and tried to get over it. He then decided that he had made a mistake each time about 2 weeks after each time we split and begged me to get back with him and because he had done nothing with anyone else and was so emotionally upset at the thought of losing me I took him back wearily. The last time this happened was a year ago and we are very happy now but I have flashbacks of all the times I did not feel good enough and feel unattractive. He tells me that he loves me but I feel I hold my love back at times and am distant because Im angry with myself for taking him back when I maybe shouldnt?

2007-10-19 03:16:19 · 18 answers · asked by twat 1

2007-10-19 03:15:09 · 10 answers · asked by Hakoo Ma Shantai 4

okay, dont judge...it was my bro's b-day yesterday and we all went out to celebrate. there is this bartender at the local pub right up the road from my house and he constantly flirts with me. i made the mistake of one time making out w/ him to find out later he was married. sooooo....you think i would know better but they say alcohol clouds your judgement...anywho, apparently i made the same stupid mistake again after he gave me and my bro a ride home but i swear he came on to me (still no excuse, i know) now i feel horrible and am replaying the night over and over again in my head. when i go up to the pub again do you think i should say something to him? (like "sorry" or "you are a creep" "cheater") something along those lines??? or should i just pretend it never happened???

i know people out there are gonna call me a whore or slut or whatever....but dont judge cuz i dont care.

2007-10-19 03:10:36 · 38 answers · asked by Katerina Beana 4

What do you women think ?

2007-10-19 03:01:27 · 15 answers · asked by Me 3

quick info on me, 24 yrs old, drive mercedes clk 430, supervisor for landscape company and attend night school as auto mechanic. So future is looking good. I doubt that info is the problem but jus wanted to say it just in case. Here we go. I am black and have no problems with blk women as friend or relationship wise. But it seems whenever i flirt, go clubbing, try to start convo with white females, they go beserk. They give me a look like are you kidding, how dare you try to advance on me, or even dare be near me, and i'm like whoa calm down shorty. Its not that serious. Even casual convo, or in a bank line waiting to deposit your check, I always feel this hidden tension. Lately i have noticed its been easier to talk to a little more unattractive white women, but when it comes to the blonde and gorgeous brown hair (paris hilton) & (jessica alba)example.. I still get the that treatment like go away, your not worth me, and i'm like, you should be lucky i even gave you attention.

2007-10-19 03:00:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 02:57:48 · 15 answers · asked by william m 1

this summer we rode bikes together and we talked adn we raced and HE was the one to flirt and now he seems shy around me do you think he likes me

2007-10-19 02:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 02:51:22 · 3 answers · asked by leesux1 1

Ive liked this girl for a long time and everyone knows she likes me too. but she is with a guy who is never there for her and everyone and even she knows im there for her no matter what. she tells me she cares for me and when he makes her sad she thinks of me to be happy. but when they are having a good day she says we can only ever be friends and she thinks its going to be different with him this time. so i ended it with her cuz i feel thats not fair to me. im here for her no matter what and she goes back to him time after time was it right wat i did by ending all ties or should i still try with her

2007-10-19 02:44:55 · 11 answers · asked by Will.i.am 1

I put another question on here because I was having a real dilemma and I got a bunch of bang her and send her my way answers. I mean why is every guy such a perv. I mean I am the same way but I do not express it.

2007-10-19 02:33:08 · 9 answers · asked by drow_warrior_drizzt2002 2

ok well i have a friend that needs my advice and iono wat to say. shes 14 and this 19 year old likes her. she kinda likes him bak but she says she will feel weird with him cuz of that age. do you really think age matters?

2007-10-19 02:20:36 · 35 answers · asked by lova91090 1

Me and my boyfriend used to get along great...until he moved. i guess we still get along, but lately some things have happened. he started doing drugs, and three days into his new school he was expelled. a little while later he tried to kill himself. i dont love him anymore, and i dont see any future with him, but he has actually told me that he would kill himself if he didnt have me, and i believe him. i think the best approach would be for him to break up with me, but i dont think that will ever happen, because he is really obsessive. once i left my phone for an hour, and there were 35 missed calls from just him...no joke. ive had enough of this nonsense, but im scared of how he'll handle it. any ideas what i should do??

2007-10-19 02:12:53 · 11 answers · asked by dramaqueen4x 1

Me an my boyfriend of a year are going through a break up, although its not been confirmed I can tell it is happening an we are joint by a thread. Ive been trying not to face reality but its starting to hit me now and I cannot cope. It feels like my whole life is being dragged on a downward spiral, im just not interested in anything anymore. All i can think about is him and what Im going to do when he is eventually gone. I love him so much and have never felt like this about anybody but the damage in our relationship is now beyond repair. There isnt anything I can do now. But I would like to know what I can do to get through this. Thanks :)

2007-10-19 02:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by JSPADEx 2

what kind of PDA(PUBLIC displays of affection) do you like most?

2007-10-19 01:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by iLOVEJESUS 4

2007-10-19 01:58:47 · 23 answers · asked by very hot men 1

2007-10-19 01:57:40 · 18 answers · asked by very hot men 1

hey guys!

im holding a dinner with my friends (dressy casual) except my dining table only holds 6 people.. maximum 10 people if i make room in the corners but im inviting 16 + people... what can i do??

its a SORT of formal party where we get dressed up and eat gourmet food and stuff... just a bunch of close friends...

any suggestions please?THNKS!

2007-10-19 01:04:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf tells me about other guys that try to approach her, invite her out, etc. Then it made me a little jealous and I said not to mention one of them, an exfriend. She said that she tried to tell me about her life. Somehow is good that she tells me and I know all. Or all women experience constant approaching from men and I am paranoid? Anyhow I don't like hearing much about other guys.
Thanks for reading that.

2007-10-19 00:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by Theta40 7

im 20 and i dont have a boyfriend. is that normal?is that ok to not have a boyfriend at this age. i'm a bit plump. and i dont have a girly personalities and i'm not matured enough compare to other girls at my age. in other words im a bit childish and bubbly, goofy and all that . is guy really like slimmer girls and those who mature enough? sometimes i do worry that i dont have a boyfriend. do i have to find a boyfriend or just wait for the time?

2007-10-19 00:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by esperanza 1

i broke up with a jealous gf. i was happy at first, then sad, then happy

2007-10-19 00:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy i have a crush on keeps looking at me in the hall ways, when im cheering at his football games, & when we once had a combined class. but he never tries to talk to me. i talked to him exactly twice because i had a question to ask him about his up coming football games. His 4th block class is right down the hall from mine and his teacher happens to be my cheer coach so i usually go in there to talk to her and to see him. lol yesterday he and i came out of our class room at the same time and he happens to see me coming down the hall way so he was talking to his friends then went in the class room and i saw him talking to my coach... then after that when i passed the classroom and was going towards the stairs.. he came out and i saw him speed walking. then he walked right next to me all the way down the stairs.. he doesnt really speed walk. EVER. & when he got out of his practice early... he came to mine and watched for a bit. please help meee!! is this a sign of interest?

2007-10-19 00:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by cheerlovexo 1

2007-10-19 00:26:48 · 27 answers · asked by sky‹(•¿•)›© 5

For some reason I feel bad when I'm around other couples probably since I've been single all my life. Just wondering if anyone else feels the same way.

2007-10-19 00:25:33 · 19 answers · asked by Artguy35 1

was seeing a guy for 8mths.was going thru alot of cr*p when we met think i depended on him too much emotionally and scared him away,kept calling him untill he finally changed his numba.i want to call him (leave message on old no,know he still has it) want to say sorry for being total nightmare.im in a much better place now back to my old self,feel really embarrased about the way i acted just totally out of character.want to say sorry..........please advise on what to say!! thanx.

2007-10-19 00:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off i liked him. He is always nice and can sometimes be a bit flirty. so i liked him for ages and then he found someone else so i turned my attention to someone else and when he broke up with her all of a sudden he wanted to know who i liked. and was paying more attention to me. now i think there could be someone else for him and he always finds a way to tell me. But what the idiot doesn't know is there is someone else for me that has my attention at the moment. how do i make it so i screw with his head for a change? i'm so fed up!

2007-10-19 00:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous