Singles & Dating - 19 October 2007

Why is it that when a girl like a certain celebrity, say Brad Pitt, a guy is quick to say"oh he's gay" "That dude is gay" why yall always calling somebody sexy, gay! Be honest is it JELOUSY?

2007-10-19 07:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by Synamon 2

What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.

Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"
i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!

2007-10-19 07:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And im 18 years old and i am graduating high school this year. Do you think when i go to college (probaby ECU) that I will go crazy? Everybody says that Im going to because Im not allowed to do anything now.

2007-10-19 07:10:19 · 28 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2

I've done it a couple times. They were both betwen 18-21 years old.

2007-10-19 07:00:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He had a good job he quit beause of stress. The second job (only lasted a couple monthes) he quit because he was verbally harrassed by his boss ( which I don't blame him.) The third job he was let go because he was not the right type for them. The fourth job he was sent out of state for training and they let him go there for supposidly being the wrong type also. But... on that job he was talking about eventually quitting when he got back. I am questioning the security of this person and the ability to help support a family when we get married. We have been together for almost 3 years. We just got engaged last December of 2007. I still care for him, but I am not really seeing a marriage due to this unstability. I am also questioning the escuses now. The first three were feasible but it seems like a habit. what do I do??? I feel like i am not being fair to myself fo accepting this behavior. This has all come down in 10 months time.

2007-10-19 06:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by PADMAE 2

we have been together for about 3mths ruffly his birthday is in a week. i love him love his personality every thing. we talk to each other like we no one another a long long while and are very good friends. he told me he loves me and i told him back and is really beliving that he means it.he told me that he wants us to last for ever and that came out of his mouth on a serious note. we talk to each other everyday we see each other 3 times a week due to my strick home and he always shows up. i could call him anytime and tell him to meet me and he would come. i have been at his home already didnt see the parents because i told him i wasnt ready he is not forcing me or anything he just spoke about it and i agreed that i would do it with him then he told me[not that same day eh] he would rent a room and it was up to me if i want to do it or not. i really want to do it with him but i dont know if i am making a miss take i need am answer fast

2007-10-19 06:44:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with her a year ago. She was wonderful but I didn't have time to her and I couldn't carry on a long distance relationship; but I MISS her very bad. Two months ago I sent her a letter asking her forgiveness and telling her that I was extremely stupied but with nothing about getting back together. I didn't expect she would reply because I disgraced her, I admit I hurt her much. And then she replied with a very brief e-mail saying she forgave me and she got over the hard time. I sent her another e-mail thanking her for her reply and saying that I wish we may have a chance to have coffee together someday when I go back to the country (actually I meant to be friends as a step to get to know each other better that might lead to a relationship again).
It is more than one month and she has not replied. I know she read my e-mail but why hasn't she replied? Also I tried to call her once and no response.
Note: I know from friends over there that she hasn't dated anyone since me.

2007-10-19 06:39:47 · 41 answers · asked by Heartache 1

am a boy at 17 years and i got a problem with girls.
there is a girl i like who works at the kebab store.
how can i ask her out. plsss give me some good advice.
am gonna die loooool!!

2007-10-19 06:32:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend only lives 5 minutes from my job. I called him and asked him if he felt like bringing me something to eat and he said "nope". He was out running to the bank anyway.

I cook at least 3 to 4 times a week and he comes over for dinner when I cook.

2007-10-19 06:29:37 · 43 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

Ok... me and this guy went out, but he broke up with me because he said he didn't like me as much as I liked him. He just liked me as a friend, and we've been friends ever since. Today though, he wrote me this poem. What do you think it means. I need as many opinions as I can get. Good or bad, thanks!!!

Time and time again I think about what could have been and would have been.
The punishment I don't deserve, the pain thats inside, the hate brewing over.

WHAT DOES HE MEAN!!??!?!?!

2007-10-19 06:28:46 · 25 answers · asked by Raven 2

I have been dating this guy for 7 years and we have three kids.. through out this relationship he has accused me of sleeping with other people. I'm not sleeping with anyone...including him! I have a lot of guy friends... why does he accuse me? is it wrong that I have guy friends? Or is this just a bad relationship?

2007-10-19 06:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by lissa034715 2

Whats Your Definition Of Love?

2007-10-19 06:17:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you do something that is plainly your fault and then get mad at us like it was our fault. We didn't do it nor were we there when you did it.

Example: My girlfriend got dressed this morning by herself and went to work. I went to visit her and I noticed that she was wearing my pants. I told her discretely and tried to make her feel better about it, because she got embarrassed, by telling her that a lot of the girls here on campus do that and that it is not a big deal and that she still looked great. Nope, she just wanted to blame me for it and get pissed about it and now she tells everyone that I am the one that pissed her off. WTF....please give me some insight, please.

2007-10-19 06:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well there is this boy and he is kind of cute. at a parade last weekend my sister was in, i was there watching it. and his baseball team was in it. the whole wy pasing me and the whole way until i couldn't see him anymore he was looking at me. there was no one behind me, and no one in front of me. does thismean anything? he looks at me at school a lot and smiles. does he like me or what???

2007-10-19 06:01:13 · 25 answers · asked by brunettebeauty 2

I asked this yesterday, but im adding a few points.

I have a friend that i just really started to like as more then a friend. We never really hung out outside of school for the 4 years we went and now that she just moved back into the city, weve gone out and seen eachother a few times(movies and eating). Now ive known her for years and just started having the
feelings a month ago. Now the idea i have is the Secret Admirer thing. I was thinking Get a box, attach a love poem to it, and put some flowers in it and leave it at her door for the morning.

i dont wanna just come out and say it. i want to actually show her how i feel instead of tell her.

and i want to do this, or somthing like it a few times before i actually let her know its me.

is this a good idea?
should i change something in the plan?

ty ladies.

2007-10-19 05:56:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so here's my situation. Been seeing a guy on and off for 3 years. We are 27. I live alone, he with his parents. He still has curfew etc. He never invites me to family events etc. in 3 years. I keep breaking up with him, but then I call him because I'm lonely. Then I think we can be friends, but we can't. I'm always mad at him because his parents run his life. I feel I am too old to put up with this. Why can't I move on? I've deleted his # from my cell phone etc., but I keep calling him back and even apologizing for getting mad at him. I am losing my sanity here. What is wrong with me?

2007-10-19 05:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Martie 1

well me and boyfriend started dating in april.and now we are in our 6 month and we had sex in our 4th.i feel soo close to him and i really do love him.he mean soo much to me.is it wrong for us to have sex now?

2007-10-19 05:43:24 · 56 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2

For girls only: I have pectus excavatum and I think it looks bad (concaved chest) deformed ribs where they join the pec muscles. I know the center for a "masculine" man is his chest and girls really want a guy with a great chest. So what do I do? Would any girl really even want to be in bed with a guy with pectus excavatum? Please don't tell me that if a girl loves you they don't care about what your chest looks like (really a load of crap).

2007-10-19 05:42:48 · 9 answers · asked by Marky Mark 1

I went out with a girl for 3 years, ups and down but it was nothing but amazing!! true love it felt most of the time, and she did alot for me. but when she told her parents about me, they said no and her mum even slapped her, because she kept saying she wants 2 marry me, they didnt agree because i was much younger than her and i didnt have a real job. anyways she told me it wont happen, and cried and cried, and i cud tell she truly was hurt. anyways she stopped contacting me for months, i got nothing!! not even a miss call from her.....anways 1 day i asked her lets meet and go cinema for the last time, we went and even kissed!!!!!!!!
going home i cried in her arms saying i will miss u,she cried aswel, but after that day i didnt hear from her! its beens 2 months now but still nothing, whats going on???????
we went out for years, and i knew she cared alot,she cried alot if anything happened to me, what happened? it dont make sense to me

2007-10-19 05:38:05 · 10 answers · asked by sugarguyguy 1

i really like this guy and he is friendly to me, says i look good etc has definately flirted with me-im quite conservative he has loads of friends is a footballer and is really out going i want him to think im really special and different from the rest what can i do

i feel like im not good enough and slightly intimidated by his friends etc- i do have a good job am doing better than most of them in terms of career- but it also takes over my life and sometimes i feel like im not as social as i should be what can i do so he will like me

he facebooked me the other day i started it by asking how he was

he put back "hey babes im good u ok? looking good by the way?x

what should i write back i really really like him dont want to put me foot in it though if he does indeed just see me as a friend

2007-10-19 05:37:33 · 3 answers · asked by racheal m 1

Would you rather have an enthusiastic lover or a lover with a great body?
You can't get both or a mix each.
Just pick one and say if you are a man or a woman.

2007-10-19 05:33:45 · 8 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

So, last night I went on a date with a much older guy. Im only 21 and hes 51. Im aware of the huge age gap, but its ok. I really like him, but what does the general public think about something like that?

2007-10-19 05:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok first off I would like to say I am not a homewrecker. Here's the story. I worked @ a conveniece store and the cops would come and get free gas. Well there is was a georgous cop who walked through the doors and we got to talking and everyday he would come in to see me. He was sweet and funny, but married. I mean I really fell for this guy. He was alot older than me but thats okay. One day I saw him on the side of the road and blew a kiss (just a friendly one) and he came in later that day and said this is a small town you could get me into trouble all the while have a grin. He said next time tug on your ear and I'll know what that means. Then I said what if I tugged on both ears then he was like I dont think I would be able to contain myself. He was always sending me mixed signals. Talking about his wife then flirting with me, well I think we were flirting. I dont know I dont want to feel bad but I think he was pursuing me as well. He made me giddy again. What do you think?

2007-10-19 05:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by Lanieღ•° 5

2007-10-19 05:30:51 · 3 answers · asked by *~~The Wizard Mouse~~* 3

I belong to Mensa, the high IQ society, and read about three books a week. Is that a turn on?

2007-10-19 05:28:12 · 22 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1

I've asked questions about women and how men see/value them as lovers. It seems that enthusiasm towards sex is the only thing that matters to make a woman a great lover.
Do you agree or disagree?
And why?

2007-10-19 05:15:56 · 4 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I'm perfectly comfortable with my boyfriend and I''m just wondering what do you girls do/say to tease your boyfriend to get him turned on? & guys...what would you like?

2007-10-19 05:15:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

After the loss of a baby...a few months down the road I got super depressed and kinda crazy (postpartum depression i guess). And I'm still in the midst of it.
Anyways, my boyfriend and I have now been spending time in different places for almost two months. He calls me a couple times a week. And he says if he didn't care about me he wouldn't call me. He always ends our phone talks saying "I love you" first.
When I ask him if he loves me he says he does. When I asked him recently if he's 'in love' with me he said "I dunno I think so."
And he said he loved me - not like how he loves his mom, but he couldn't say how exactly....
He said he just wants to be alone for a little while and have his freedom, etc... but that he's not going to be with any other girls. Like he just needs to get this out of his system.
He says I can't come see him and he can't come see me cause we need to be away from each other. And his dad is having surgery in a week and that maybe after that I can come visit.

2007-10-19 05:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

anything I do is not ever good enough for anyone any more...!
I just wanna give up on life and just drop out of school and move FAR away and never speak to anyone ever again!!

2007-10-19 05:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by lil_ms_attitude122 2

I am 26 and a woman and I am finding now that I am dating that if a person doesn't have sex with me the way I want or need that I am just done with them.
My friends say I am shallow but am I? I mean I think it is a most important part of a relationship!

2007-10-19 05:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5