Singles & Dating - 19 October 2007

2007-10-19 18:54:52 · 19 answers · asked by Erika 2

Well, I had a first date tonight and I think it went well. But first a little background. The guy I went out with told me before our date that he had never had a girlfriend and that he was a virgin.Thats no problem for me. We had a good time and we talked and laughed alot. We went to dinner and then afterwards went to a bar that he works at part time after his daytime job. So he knew almost everyone, and it was a little hard for us to really talk after that. He was sort of all over the place. I didnt say much, but I did participate in the conversation and laughed. But at the end of the night he didnt hug me or even try to kiss me, and he didnt say that he wanted to do it again. He said that he hoped I had a good time and I said the same, but he just sorta shook his head yes. Im confused. I want to see him again. He was totally charasmatic and I really liked him alot. Nothing bad happened, and I thought we hit it off but he gave no indication that he wanted to do it again. Any thoughts?

2007-10-19 18:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by Needs Help! 1

Do you believe its true that you cant love someone until you love yourself? I think its true but im interested to see what everyone else thinks

2007-10-19 18:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont understand how single people in their 30's get up and go fight for another day. Sometimes I just want to lay in bed and not fight anymore. I dont see the point why I fight so hard to get ahead. For who? It's just me, and I have no one else so why do so?

2007-10-19 18:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by terminallyalone2007 1

every time i see him i blush and i always have like light pink cheeks so its not to obvious, but i just get really happy and i can't help flirting with him... hes really sweet to me, but i'm afraid that i'm liking him and he likes me as a friend only.... he used to flirt in class b4 he transfered schools, but i still see him occasionally. whenever i see him he like calms down and is really nice and stuff... i've seen his friends (the ones that i don't know that well) like hit him or nudge him and stuff when i'm near and stuff, but i don't know if that means anything :) thanks for the answers!

2007-10-19 18:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by sexychick2009 3

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks. We haven't kissed yet but i want to. Tonight i asked her out to homecoming(next weekend) and she said yes. When I had to leave from a friends house at about 11, we hugged, but i chickened out and didnt kiss, we might go see a movie tommorow night. Should I just wait for our first kiss to be at homecoming during a slow dance or something?

2007-10-19 18:30:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well plez decode these for me... guys only
1. he is really mean to everyone including my friends but is super sweet to me
2. he loves to sit next to me but always scoots farther away wen i want to sit closer
3. he tells me he really likes me but he still does this lean toward his ex
4. he keeps saying that he is not ready to ask me out
but still wants me to hang and dance wit him
does he want me or just as friends he is sooo confusing help!!!

2007-10-19 18:26:35 · 10 answers · asked by madison d 2

There's this guy I like, but I don't know how to talk to him. I've had short conversations with him, but I want more. What do I do? I'm going to see him tomorrow.

2007-10-19 18:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by Violet 3

here's how bad it is. i am married but there is this guy that i use to work with and i had a huge attraction to him, and still do. there is just something about him that really has me thinking about him. i would never cheat on my husband but is it wrong for me to have this feeling or is it okay to like what i see and still be married??

2007-10-19 18:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

I am 15 years old and have never been kissed thats ok...... right?

2007-10-19 18:22:56 · 42 answers · asked by rikki c 1

My ex has recently come back into my life and some of his friends have said he still has feelings for me.
Although I love my boyfriend I don't know if we're really going anywhere and I've been thinking about leaving him since before my ex arrived on the scene. What do you think I should do?

2007-10-19 18:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i ask the guy i like (we are friends and i think he likes me!) his phone number? what if he says no!? what do i do!

2007-10-19 18:16:25 · 2 answers · asked by <3 3

My best friend has 2 kids under 5 and is in love with a 21 year old man. I think it is o.k., only she first met him when she was 20 and he was 14. She met him through her younger brother who is now 24- he has no problem with it. Also her ex-husband grew up with him and they all come from a small town. I am not sure what to say to her???? I dont even know if it is wrong/ right???? My husband thinks the whole thing is weird@&$@??

2007-10-19 18:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by animalluvr 2

I am on the UK for a school trip. I want to know where i can find a prostitute without aids lol. And money i ant to spend is 50 Pounds at the most. Help me.

2007-10-19 18:03:25 · 21 answers · asked by King JT 3

ok, so call me a nerd but i guess im more obsessed w/ school. Never had a bf that lasted for longer than 2 weeks. Any advice?

2007-10-19 18:00:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a classmate that likes to touch my hair like for instance, yesterday, her arms are literally resting on my back while touching my hair. she's done this a couple of times and only to me. also, she always rest her head on my shoulders saying she is tired. (like today she rested her head on my shoulders 3 times saying how tired she is) she also loves to touch my arms and like play around with it.
when we talk to each other there is this awkward tension between us and we feel shy towards each other. she keeps teasing me in everything.

also, when she did my vitals i was so nervous and my pulse reading was like on 128...then when i did her's was 108. we were both above normal. when i was putting the blood pressure cuff on her arm she felt very shy and quiet. i dunno

when i asked her about our teacher being gay...she seemed quiet and her face was serious. i think she got uncomfortable about that topic. she didnt even answer my question.

im bi and i don't know if she is...im not out

2007-10-19 17:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by hellocrazyb 1

2007-10-19 17:47:11 · 1 answers · asked by skateboarding 1

after many years of persuing me and wanting me, i finally gave in to him and fell in love with him. NOW for some strange reason, he stopped asking me out and he barely wants to talk to me. i feel rejected and so down. i feel like my heart is broken. y did he want me to fall in love with him and not consider me? y would a guy b so cruel. i told him from the start i did not want to b hurt so i did not accept at first. i decided to accept cause i thought it was wrong to let him linger. but now he acts like he doesnt care, i've never been so upset in my life. please give me some good advice. i cant stop crying

2007-10-19 17:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5

2007-10-19 17:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been told that I'm too nice. When I take a lady out, I know before hand I'm sexually attracted to them. But. out of a weird respect I find myself waiting for them to make the first move. Would ladies rather have a guy that's more agressive when it comes to taking the initiative?

2007-10-19 17:39:57 · 16 answers · asked by david 4

So about a month ago this guy tells me that he likes me, and at first I was unsure if I liked him back, but i told him that I did and that I was attracted to him. Since then we have cuddled a few times because we live in the same dorm I go down there sometimes, but most times he never makes an effort to communicate with me during the week, and on the weekend he always wants to chill with me in his dorm, but don't get me wrong he isn't like looking for sex, he is a virgin and he has never had a g/f So im just wondering what's up...what exactly do you guys think is going on? If he likes me then why does he not want to spend more time with me or talk?

2007-10-19 17:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by ru4reel412 1

Why has casual sex become much more commom and accepted than it was 25- 30 years ago? Do people not believe in relationships or have morals anymore? Sex is not what it used to be. Does anyone believe that casual sex is killing romance in todays society? I dont understand how people can sleep with one person and move right on to the next and not give a damn about the person they were just with. Sex is supposed to be valued. Casual sex has become more physically risky with the spread of STD's and it seems like nobody cares. People may be using condoms but that doesnt always protect someone from catching an STD. Anyone can catch an STD even when wearing one. Are people all about fun or what?

2007-10-19 17:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so~

i just got a new boyfriend and we have never said more than a sentence too eachother but we really like eachother. he is soo shy!! normally i can get a boy wrapped around my finger in 2 minutes and open up to me but we have this awkwardness with eachother its soo strange! usually im never shy around guys but its hard for me to even look at him. i mean i really like him ive never had this problem before with guys i like! help? and also----

what can i do to get my charm to work on him? (dont mean to sound kinda self centered :( )

2007-10-19 17:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Super hot chick, she's average fun, but you don't like hangin out with her that much, your boys are funner

2. Average looking chick, but you absolutely love
'hangin out" with her, she's fun

2007-10-19 17:32:36 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 1

is your relationship perfect?

is there such thing as a perfect relationship? and if not, why are you still in the relationship if there are things that aren't right?

my bf lied to me...so i ended it. but now i'm thinking "well theres no such thing as a perfect relationship...maybe lies are ok in a relationship?"

2007-10-19 17:25:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, I know this sounds crazy, but I want a lower sex drive. My sex drive compared to my boyfriends is out of control. I can do it a few times a week, but him? Not so much. We haven't had sex in a month, and this has become the typical routine. Sex once every 4 or 5 weeks.
Generally after one session I'm set for a few days, but then I want it again, and when I don't get it I want it ALL the time. I hate having to try all the time, and I'm usually met with a "no." But my boyfriend means more to me than sex, so I want to know how I can lower my sex drive?

2007-10-19 17:24:45 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 3

I'm not complaining but just wondering why. I'm a sophomore in college this year and guys have been starting to ask me out and want to hang out with me. I haven't done anything with my looks, i look pretty much the same. I go out about the same amount. I don't really know what it is.

In High school I only had one guy intreasted in me the whole four years. And last year I only had a handful of guys. But so far this year I've had more guys approach me than High school and last year combine.

why??

2007-10-19 17:23:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Due to my extreme shyness, I have managed to make it into my mid-30s and still remain a Virgin. Am I dead in the water? Is lack of experience a major negative for an adult male?

2007-10-19 17:19:39 · 30 answers · asked by Sirius70 5

I like light colors. My Fiance doesn't care but doesn't want to rest his head on butterflies or take a shower behind Paris. So how do I make our home more comfy to live in? He doesn't care to decorate he just wants to add that he doesn't want to live in a girly palce, which I am more than willing to compromise but how? What colors do you guys think are good to make both parties satisfied? What designs for walls and tables do you think is a compromise?

2007-10-19 17:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this question if from my friend whose a 21 year old GUY:

wat should I do..... am having a party and I acedentially invited the two girls I am currently talking to, am really intrested in both of them and I have no idea wat to do.... how should I come across talking to both without disrespecting any of them???????

2007-10-19 17:04:52 · 16 answers · asked by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6