Singles & Dating - 20 October 2007

I posted a question regarding my being an older virgin recently and most of the results were positive and that's encouraging.

I still can't help but be depressed though. Science says that a male's sexual peak is in his late teens to early 20's.... so according to science, I've already missed out on the best sex of my life and from here on out it's only downhill. Oh boy!

I can blame it on my depression.. or my lack of self esteem.. or my shyness and in the end these all likely played a part.. but in the end excuses are just that... an excuse and I need to accept the fact that my current situation is my own fault.

I have genuine worries about a woman being able to accept my virgin status and on top of that wouldn't even know where to begin once it became time for sex.

I feel so inadequate that it's laughable. I feel not only that I'm a loser because of my situation, but sometimes feel I shouldn't even exist because of it.

2007-10-20 23:19:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey,theres this girl that i see at a regular function that i really like, and think she likes me also,but need someone to help me know if she does or not, problem being, this function ends in another week, so i wont be seeing her for like another 2 years if i dont do anything!and dont wnna miss out on something really good. Basically i always seem to catch this girl glazing back at me at regular periods during the function(but only when shes not within close distance from me), its kind of like a look up, and as soon as she sees me looking back at her she turns away,but as soon as im in her face at close distance(cause we hand out things at this funtion), she will look in either direction but me, and then when i pass her, after a few meters and can catch her staring again at times. Im really open guy, and always make her friends laugh with things i do, but i tried my all to make her but she jst never looks at me when im in front of her. I wnt to ask her out and need advi

2007-10-20 23:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by dinnn 1

Well I sorta like this guy.

He is sensative, funny and pretty smart. Very good at basketball and running. He has the cutiest laugh and we do flirt quite a bit sometimes. Should I go for it or just lay off?

2007-10-20 23:06:51 · 6 answers · asked by mandy ; 2

...or having to wait 5 years to date again, which would you choose?

2007-10-20 22:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean like...say this guy just appraoches u and starts chatting with u....in ur mind, do u think "he approached me cause he finds me attractive so thats lame".
does that happen? or am i paranoid

2007-10-20 22:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1

If so why?

2007-10-20 22:28:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

I am a single man in my early thirties and haven't had much luck with women in my life. After thinking for a while, I have decided I want to take the exciting journey of parenting and become single dad. I would like to seek some advice on how I can have a child of my own. I want to become full time dad and want a child to carry my genes. Adoption and surrogacy are not the options for me.

Is it possible to help a girl/women financially who needs it and she can help me giving a kid. If we can enter into any arrangement.

I have heard such arrangements can be made with Russian girls. Does anyone know anymore about this or any other resources/information.

Would appreciate any genuine advice I can get from here.

Regards
Joe

2007-10-20 22:27:20 · 5 answers · asked by daniele_joe 1

i see this girl around town pretty often lately. twice in a row, she stared me right in the eyes over and over.

since then, i often see her walking down the street when i'm at this one cafe. but, i don't know her name and don't know how i should approach her. if she were *at* that cafe (seen her there before, but not recently), it'd be easy, but she's just walking by.

what should i do? just wait till she shows up at that cafe again, or something else? help!

2007-10-20 22:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 22:21:59 · 22 answers · asked by Louise H 3

2007-10-20 21:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by rahavard 1

We have been living together for 3yrs and because one thing or another it has gone on and on and still no job I have total financial responsibility. I can't do it nomore he says his trying to look for work ----somtimes when I come home from work he still in bed. We have a good time together but does he really LOVE ME or is he MUCHING.Please I would like to hear from girls & guys (remember) I love him very much

2007-10-20 20:55:42 · 11 answers · asked by missrosie4you 1

I need to know some things that I can say because he has been REALLY mean to me and I just want to get him back.

2007-10-20 20:51:36 · 23 answers · asked by emluvsmatt 2

pick one

2007-10-20 20:47:25 · 8 answers · asked by jkorchai 2

This may seem like an odd question to some but I really need some advice, so if you could just hear me out for a second. I have never been good at expressing my feelings and I just want to know how I can show my boyfriend how much I love and trust him. He is my first boyfriend so I am very new at the whole girlfriend thing. Although my boyfriend makes me feel like a queen I still feel inferior to his ex-girlfriend. He had sex with her several times when they were together and I don't plan on having sex with him... at all. I'm just a teenager. I just want to be close to him. My heart is sooo full. I don't really know what I'm feeling.
-thanx for reading this. any advice would be great.

2007-10-20 20:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do any other girls do this because I find it disturbing and it turns me off. Sometimes she takes it out and smells it which really grosses me out. This sounds like a joke but it's not.

2007-10-20 20:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by John W 1

our relation goes back to 6 months ago,,,he seemed to be a nice guy then with time he started to chabge,i never thought to be in love with him but what was i escaping from happened n now our relation ends every time n it's me who call him back begging him not to leave,,,,i don't know how to forget him though he's causing me an enormous harm...............please help;;show me the way i feel adict to his love,,,i'm lost n wanna truly to forget him.

2007-10-20 20:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a teenage girl who has no boyfriend!My friends all talk about their bf.I feel so ashamed and jealous.Why do I have no boyfriend?I really feel so down!

2007-10-20 20:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by Elena 2

ok ....... me and my boyfriend jay got into a fight because he cheated on me and i caught him well he denied the whole thing and i was thinking well i will just give him another chance so i did and yea i was really hurt because he cheated on me but im in love so i let him stay..........tommorrow would be our three month anniversary so we was going to make up for it bye hanging out on saturday so he could stay with me write..........well today came so i woke up around 9:in the freaking morning and he was supposed to come over write after football practice so i hurried up and got ready put make up on and did my hair really cute and he had me waiting all day for nothing because he never showed hge never even thought to call me and let me know and i caouldnt call him so what does this situation look like to you all i am just a little confused white girl with no one to get advice from so plz give me the write advice and i might give you the best answer award ♥amber♥

2007-10-20 20:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1

I am currently dating online, a gentleman @ i were messaging eachother back and forth a few times he asked for my #and never called a week went by he didnt message or call so i sent him a message he said he lost the # so i gave him the # he still didnt use it it has been a couple of weeks now am i overreacting all that mess is just getting a little played to me i dont have time for foolishness

2007-10-20 20:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

To tell you he loves you after only dating for 2 weeks or would you say that was a huge red flag? We haven't been intimate-sexually anyway.

2007-10-20 20:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my friend she's 16 years old and she met this guy while she played online on her Xbox, and so she tells me that she's been talking to him online through headphone for some time now, Now she says she loves him, she's in love with him etc, and they even chat online (myspace) But here's the part where I think it's dumb and kind of pathetic!
Well she's here in California, Los Angeles and He's All the way over in New York Bronx, Plus She's 16 a minor and he's 18 years old,
When she talks to me about him that she loves him, that he has a sexy voice, she tells all other girlfriends the same, I feel like letting her know how I feel about this!
But I just can't, She's living in a fantasy world! but i just can't believe it! She thinks that's love lol, IDK but I don't see it,

Also she's been asked out by many other guys and she turns them down for the online guy! i thought that was odd! and weird

Give me opinions what u think of this? How you see this as? dumb or hopeful?

2007-10-20 20:03:06 · 14 answers · asked by Vicz101 5

we broke up 3 weeks ago and found out a week ago he drunkenly hooked up (made out) with this girl at a party...it broke my heart...is she a rebound?

2007-10-20 19:52:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend, now ex, just broke up with me... We'd been going out for over a month and a half and we took a walk and, being a very religious girl, as I am a very religious boy, said that the reason she was braking up with me was because she was distracted by me and that she was drifting from God... I Don't know how this works out, but that's what she said... I went out with her pretty much daily, to the pond, movies, skating, everything... She's my whole world... Was that the real motive for her braking my heart, or was it just an excuse? Another problem is that I have only one friend in the state I live in because I just moved here recently and she was the only real person that made me feel loved... Now I feel nothing but loneliness... What do I do? Life sucks...

2007-10-20 19:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by Peter S 1

the one that wants me to move i had a 2 year relationship with and lived with for a while. the other i am currently living with and have been with for 8 months and i would feel horrible if i just left him with the apartment, that he pretty much pays for, so he wouldnt be in any finacial bind....i just dont know....help...

2007-10-20 19:41:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and not look like a total douche? i'd actually say it but idk i just cant find the tone or face to make when i say it.....and when would be the right time? when we're alone? when we're laughing and having fun? idk the moment never seems to arrive, yesterday i wrote him a little note saying "i <3 you" and he said, i dont want you to write it i want you to say it...and i just kinda blushed and got all shy.....at that moment i felt like saying "you know how i feel about you, why do you have to cheapen this feeling with words?" or idk 'actions speak louder than words..i rather show you my love than tell you".....is that good or do you have different suggestions? (btw i didnt say anything i just kinda...shied away all smiling...)

2007-10-20 19:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by Buttercup 3

okay one of my friends told me that this guy mentoins my name sometimes.When he was talkin to his friends about football he said my name and told them i liked that team.My friends said he said my name in a tone that she can't explain.I don't talk to him so why would he mention my name?He also mentions me once in a while? what does this meen

2007-10-20 19:34:07 · 4 answers · asked by E G 1

This is my question or y concern. I am single now.. I i consider myself to be really sensitive to my feelings. Even if i am single, buit there is hope that I can be with someone else, I feel my life makes sense. If I am dating someone I feel that whatever I do I do it for a reason. But whenever I am let down by a girl, or I feel I am alone with out now one to look for I feel that my life makes no sense. Thats why, they say that every road leads to rome. And I ask myself, I always need some girl to motivate my life so the things I do make sense and in someway lead me to her. This affects how i do in school, my mood, everything. Do you think this is bad?

2007-10-20 19:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by juvegcn 1

I seem to always want to be with him, and when I'm not, he's always on my mind. Whenever I see him, I can't stop smiling. Then when he's around, I'm always laughing. I can't imagine life without him. I am so terrified of losing him.

2007-10-20 19:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Me 1

me and my gf have been dating for almost 4 months and we havent kissed good or bad

2007-10-20 19:30:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 12 1/5 in the 8 grade.

2007-10-20 19:30:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous