Singles & Dating - 20 October 2007

Well I told this guy that I am not ready for a relationship but we can be friends so we are friends now. When I call him and then he says long time I have not heard from you. I usually call him randomly could be a week, a day, or two weeks later. I dont do this on purpose though. When I call him and I did not get him, he calls me back several times to make sure he gets me. Why can he just call me instead just waiting for me to call? He says he enjoy talking to me and he tells me he like me a lot. I am not trying to over think this but I just wonder. I will ask but I want to know your opinion.

2007-10-20 13:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends Christine, Melissa and me all like the same guy, and were like best friends !! Christine ended up dating him and now she is dumping him because me and Melissa are sad they went out and jelouse. she said she wouldent mind if I went out with him.. but she isnt sure about melissa. should I ask him out ?

2007-10-20 13:07:35 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah C 2

How would you react if your S.O. wanted to go out to the bar with someone of the opposite sex that you never met. Plus haven't heard or know of them very well. Would you be cool with it or not or would it freak you out?

2007-10-20 13:03:15 · 23 answers · asked by ☮ Erica ☮ 5

Hey everyone i'm 16 from n.ireland :]
Umm well i'm basically just a very shy person and it's getting me down more and more everyday.
I haven't started college long ago and well I have friends in it it's just i'm not as "talkative" as they are and I have the feeling that they are kind of awkward when talking to me.. and I don't mean to make them feel that way :[
I'm just scared to be myself in case what they will think of me and I mean i'm a nice person, but I'm just worried they will think I'm boring because i'm quiet. :[ So I just hope they like me for me. And I like each one of them for who they are, i don't like to judge.:]
This is one of the reasons i've never had a boyfriend but I don't need one to be happy anyways lol... it would just be nice x]
This is one of the reasons I dread going everyday.
Well I would just like some bits of advice on confidence or something and well yeah i'm upset about this now.
Thanks everyone xxx

2007-10-20 12:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just started goin out with the girl i love, and i kissed her on the lips, is that bad?

2007-10-20 12:54:44 · 9 answers · asked by ian 2

confused

2007-10-20 12:16:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i ran away with my boyfriend but im only 17 and i turn 18 in a week and 4 days so i called my sister and told her where i was and she picked me up. so im going to be without him until im 18. what should i do? i want to run away with him but i dont know if they will find us? hes working and we got a room that were renting and everything.. what do you think i should do?

2007-10-20 12:15:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and its only been two weeks how can i hurt him bad? to get him back for hurting me!

2007-10-20 12:13:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told him i'd think about, it now what?

2007-10-20 12:11:34 · 67 answers · asked by SportyShorty 2

I have loads of frends like to many. But i feel so empty is it just me?

2007-10-20 11:44:14 · 26 answers · asked by veskit 1

I am 26 years old. I just got out of an 11 year reationship. We were going to get married, buy a house and have kids. Things just didn't work out for us in the end. I just feel like I had my life all mapped out and comfortable and now everything is up in the air. Now I have a new bf who is 20 years old. I am falling in love with him and I think he feels the same way too. But at 26 I am ultimatly looking for someone to spend my life with. I don't know if I can expect that from him at 20. I don't want to waste either of our time. I certainly don't want to waste more years on something that will just end again. I want to get married and have kids in a few years. Yet I don't know why but I just feel like he's "the one". He is very mature and responsible. He`s not the typical 20 year old guy. He has already made comments about us living together. Should I have a talk with him explaining how I feel and ask him what he is really looking for from this??? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-10-20 11:42:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have trouble doing it and when i do it is always in a soft tone. and for myself who is 32 yrs old it is horrible

2007-10-20 11:37:24 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1

Whats the best way to phrase the question" will you go out with me?" or is it just best like that?

2007-10-20 11:33:22 · 11 answers · asked by J.D. 3

My ex broke up with me, he knows from some of the stunts hes pulled the past week i am furious with him yet he goes to my best friend to ask pointless things about me....When he was with me hed talk to her to get information...Why is he talking to her, hes out of my life and she dislikes him for what hes done to me. He should be completely aware by now anything he asks her gets told right to me. he also will not take our photos off of facebook, why would you want pictures with someone you apparently dislike so much?

2007-10-20 11:33:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 11:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by mike 1

2007-10-20 11:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been talking to each other and hanging out and doing other stuff together, i thought there was something there but when i didnt even get a hug or anything at the end of the date it made me think that there was nuthing coming from his side. maybe i am overreacting. what do you think?

2007-10-20 11:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by lily b 1

My ex wants me to go away with him to Miami Beach for my birthday. He know's that I'll be eighteen then. I told him that Im currently in a new realationship and Im trying to build our love for eachother again, My realation now isn't really a new one either he had to do time in jail for something that he didn't do really. I don't know what to do as far as the ex-boyfriend situation. I still have feelings for him alot but I don't want to make it seem like he can always have me. He thinks in his head that no matter what Im doing he'll always be apart of me. What should I tell him. I want to let him go. So how would I tell him that in a way that he will understand and go on about his business for good???? I also told him that Im pregnant by my boyfriend and im engaged and he still seems to not care. He said "why wouldn't I want you anymore" I need advice on what to do

2007-10-20 11:10:36 · 21 answers · asked by ikea t 2

Can Anyone Plz Helpp Me...!!! What CAn I Do??

2007-10-20 11:07:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which of type of guy would you prefer as a boyfriend?

Guy A:really hot, and athletic. all the girls are after him. Sometimes a really nice guy, sometimes a complete idiot. is irresponsible and lazy, and can't really be trusted. lives to party

Guy B: not bad looking, and a really sweet guy. knows when to work hard, and when to have fun. gets reasonable grades, and can be trusted when you need him the most.

Guy C: pretty good looking, and very smart. top grades in school and can talk circles around you. really athletic. nice guy almost all the time. Funny, but can be serious too. Not really a partyer, but knows how to have fun.

This is a hypothetical question only, i'm not looking for relationship advice

2007-10-20 11:05:15 · 29 answers · asked by Hawkgirl 2

ok, your best friend broke up with their boyfriend/girlfriend and you are interested in them and them in you. and the 2 of you start dating. why is it that people get so upset about that. they broke up with them, now why should it bother them so much?

2007-10-20 10:37:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but he had bad breath and looked unclean. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny and that i should do it with some1 i luv since he has a gf . he said he was sorry and that he hoped i didn't feel used. was he using me? how should i move past this? is he into casual s**?

2007-10-20 10:35:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this one girl have the same last name. ( we arent even closely related) Is it okay to date her? I really like her.

2007-10-20 10:31:28 · 15 answers · asked by theweddingrocks 2

I just started gettin to know this girl and I know she is a busy person. The thing is she NEVER calls me so i gotta call her but...i want to let her know i like her but at the same time not make it seem like I have no life ya dig ?

BUT if i called her everyday around that time is it ok ?...I don't want to come off as a needy person who has no life lol

So is 7PM a good time to call her...cuz i don't know alot of people who is busy at that time lol

So do i call her everyday at 7PM or every other day ?

2007-10-20 10:26:47 · 3 answers · asked by ew 2 de extreme 4

I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years recently and I have been utterly depressed. I still love her, and I can't stop thinking about her. We broke up for complicated, but not unresolvable reasons. I have tried many times to tell her how much I love her and want us to work, but she just tells me she needs time to figure out what she wants. She does not know if she wants to be with me or to be single. What makes this hard is she used to be desperately in love with me to the point that she demanded me 24/7. Now she wants me to not talk to her. What should I do? How do I move on? I try to stay busy, but even when I'm busy I think about her. I feel so lonely. All I want is to be with her again. I cry every night and it is so hard not to contact her and tell her i love her. But I know I need to move on because this is not healthy. How can I force myself to feel better and shield myself from this pain? How does one forget the one they love and thought they were going to marry?

2007-10-20 09:59:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What type of circumcision does your son have tight, loose or in the middle? I'm looking for my son to have a tight one so he doesn't have to deal with any extra skin. Is there a certain type of circumcision that anyone adovcates from their personal expriences. thanks

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2007-10-20 09:55:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 09:41:27 · 20 answers · asked by alex m 1

Now he's started calling me everyday just to chat, but it's making me think of him again. He doesn't ask me out he just talks. What should I do? Not take his calls or return them or just point blank ask why he's calling me?

2007-10-20 09:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by hi 2

I like this guy that is in one of my college classes but the problem is that he seems to always have his female friend around him and I can't seem to talk to him. How do I approach him w/o her getting jealous?

2007-10-20 09:23:12 · 15 answers · asked by Expert Answers™ 4

My friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I am so devistated! I did the crying part... What is the best way to tell him I know? I want to hurt him, but I dont want to seem that hurt.

2007-10-20 09:16:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous