I like this guy that is in one of my college classes but the problem is that he seems to always have his female friend around him and I can't seem to talk to him. How do I approach him w/o her getting jealous?
2007-10-20 09:23:12 · 15 answers · asked by Expert Answers™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also feel as if she likes him that why she is always around him.
2007-10-20 09:25:30 · update #1
Forget about her feelings and go for it. You can't be so nice, if she gets jealous than that's her problem.
You need to stand up with confidence and try to get what you want. That's what successful people do.
2007-10-20 09:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Byron G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it is time to get sneaky. The next time that you see them together, go up to HER and ask her to help you with a problem that you are having in class, but make sure that he notices you (wear some thing nice). Dont pay attention to him though because you dont want to let her know that you are interested in him because right now she has the upper hand and she will talk about you behind your back to get him to not like you so that he likes her better. Be really friendly with her and nonchalant (but not rude) to him. This will get your foot in the door. Do this a couple more times with both of them until you get your chance to ask him a question when he is with out her. Then let the question go on to a tangent about some thing that you both share an interest in. If he likes you back then it will work, if he is not into you then move on. GUYS ARE NEVER WORTH FIGHTING OVER!!!
2007-10-20 16:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way for you to approach him is to "accidentally" bump into him in the hallway or in class and drop your books and make him think that he knocked your books out of your hand. While he picks up your books make friendly conversation. If he avoids you and walks away without picking up your books then he's not worth your time cause he's not a real man.....But if you talk and that don't work then you need to move on and get over him...
2007-10-20 16:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by noodle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAME PROBELM WITH ME! BUt i have recently tried ways and they seem to be working.
Make it less obvious that you like him, but send little 'hints' occaionally. ALWAYS smile at him and greet him, when he leaves or enters the room. Also, wait. He will come to you if he thinks you are nice. So be patient.
If that doesn't work. This means RIP- Revenge Is Planned!!!!!
(JOKES!!! *but its worth a try on teh RIP thing!*)
2007-10-20 16:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat them up in casual conversation to find out if they are a couple. if not, ask him to meet later for coffee or pizza to discuss some aspect of the class as an excuse to get to know him better.
2007-10-20 16:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Marquis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him don't be neverous and offer to take "HIM" to coffee to study over the class problems then bring up that you also like HIM that should break the ice!!
2007-10-20 16:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like if he does end up liking u she is gonna get jealous. thats just how the female mind works.
2007-10-20 16:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by redcarpetchic15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first i would suggest you find out if there together or related. Then if she is by him when you want to ask him don't be shy; i mean i don't think she can control his life.
2007-10-20 16:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamin Big* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and talk to him im a guy and i love it when girls come up and talk to me about classes or any thing. just thinkof things to talk to him about and get to know him then ask him out.
2007-10-20 16:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Garrett 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you set yourself up for failure? You know he may a girlfriend. However, you should just ask him, Is he invloved in someone for staters?
2007-10-20 16:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋