So i ran away with my boyfriend but im only 17 and i turn 18 in a week and 4 days so i called my sister and told her where i was and she picked me up. so im going to be without him until im 18. what should i do? i want to run away with him but i dont know if they will find us? hes working and we got a room that were renting and everything.. what do you think i should do?
2007-10-20 12:15:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r 2 young 4 this
2007-10-20 12:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you are being molested or abused at home return there and date him. You are too young to be living with anybody before you get pregnant and have some real problems to deal with. Be young and have fun. Go to college, community college at least. If the love is real get married when you are 25. You are hurting your chances at a real life.
It may seem fun now but really boys grow into men and their tastes may change...then what? It's easier to stay the course now and get an education and then seriously think about marriage and family. You are not ready. 90% of my friends who did what you did when they were your age ended up broke, alone, on welfare or in poor paying jobs to support their children.
I do have friends who are still with their very first boyfriends and one only is doing well but that is because they both went to college while married and started their family after college. Watch some movies girl, you know the statistics aren't on your side. Wise up or you will probably be sorry. Obviously not writing for points or for best answer. I know this story and it rarely has a happy ending. Blessings and wisdom to you.
2007-10-20 19:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Creole38 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um.... How long have you been dateing? If its been just a few weeks or months then I say stay with you parents. But If youve been dateing like 2-3 maybe even 4 years, I say STAY WITH YOUR PARENTS!
I moved out for love and I tell you its not all its cracked up to be. I love my girlfriend but love dont pay the bills. Its hard to live together. Your relationship will become strained to the point of breaking. If you truely love him and he feels the same, go for it. But be warned, its hard. You have to think of your future too much. What if you get pregnant? What if one of you loses a Job? What if you lose interest in each other? What then?
2007-10-20 19:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by special_ned 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll sneak out when you're 18, move in with him and within a year or less you'll realize you made a huge mistake. If you get pregnant it will be even worse. You're waaaayyyy too young for even a relationship never mind actually living with someone 24/7. What you SHOULD do and NEED to do is grow up, finish your education and make sensible plans for your future...excellent advice you won't take, but I gave it anyway.
2007-10-20 19:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay in school. After you graduate you can go anywhere you want with him. You say he is renting a room. Do you want to live in a room? How old is your boyfriend? Any man who moves in with a minor is bad news. Find a better boyfriend.
2007-10-20 19:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just stray home is just 4 more weeks so you can be with him and anyways if you run away with your boyfriend he can get arrested
2007-10-20 19:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by ms13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you think you'll be too old for him once you're 18, just wait the week.
2007-10-20 19:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think that 11 days is going to kill you
2007-10-20 19:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
GROW UP FIRST!
2007-10-20 19:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Blonde from D islands 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋