My friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I am so devistated! I did the crying part... What is the best way to tell him I know? I want to hurt him, but I dont want to seem that hurt.
2007-10-20 09:16:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you know FOR A FACT what this friend was telling you is true?? Just confront him and give him a chance to explain.
2007-10-20 09:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by roppin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him at a time where neither of you have time constraints, you're both relaxed, etc. It might be best to do this with a trusted friend close by, but not in the same room. Gently tell him that you love him, then say that you know he hasn't been completely faithful. Try to have a calm, rational discussion with him. If either of you get really angry and out of control, suggest a little break.
2007-10-20 09:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know your friend is telling the truth? I'd have dinner with the BF and say that you heard that a friend of yours was sleeping around on her boyfreind. If he's interested in the conversation, he isn't cheating. If he acts guilty or tries to change the subject, then he is. If he is, try sleeping with his best friend. That should hurt him plenty.
2007-10-20 09:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you know he has been messing around and that you dont deserve that kind of treatment. Tell him you are going to move on because you dont want to live life with lies and a lier. The best thing you can do is really move on to bigger and better things.
2007-10-20 09:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible situation! well, honestly I wouldn't know what to do if I were you. I guess I would slap him if when he doesn't see it comming and then get ma anger out and yet at him. I guess thats the bests way to show that you don't approve and that the damage cannot be undone that easily. Well good luck
2007-10-20 09:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let that moron know that he hurt you! Calmly tell him that you found out and that you don't want to see him again. Don't though a fit, just let him know he hurt you. If this doesn't help any, go for Mayride's answer; I like it.
2007-10-20 09:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by U down me cuz im beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a little vindictive don't you think? Just break up with him. Tell him you know he's been with another person and you want a monogamos relationship so he just doesn't fit your style. be calm and collected and make him realize you dont need him.
2007-10-20 09:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to a hotel room, tell him youre feeling horny and kinky and want to tie him up. after you get him undressed and tied up to the bed, scatter some gay porn mags and dildos around the bed and take some pics. Then take all his clothes and leave. The hotel staff will eventually find him and free him and you can email the pics to everyone he knows including his grandparents and parents.
2007-10-20 09:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you see him, tell him you never loved him and you have been cheating on him with his best friend and you love the friend not him! Men never liked to be dumped!
2007-10-20 09:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get over the revenge thing. It will be hurt more if he knows you're happy and knows what he's done. Of course, leave. Be good to you. Be happy.
2007-10-20 09:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by IWTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋