and its only been two weeks how can i hurt him bad? to get him back for hurting me!
2007-10-20 12:13:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has hurt you...and you know how it feels to be really hurt. Would you want to inflict that same hurt on anyone else?...I don't think so. The best thing that you could do is quickly forget about him and his sleeping adventures.
By wanting to inflict hurt on him..you would just be hurting yourself the most. Avoid that situation and move. I am sure you will many guys who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
By the way, your ex would be really hurt when the same thing happens to him..that is..his girl(not you..whoever it is he is dating now) actually dumps him and sleeps with some other guy. Now thats just Karma..and you had nothing to do with it. He asked for it, he certainly deserved it and hell..he certainly will get what he asks for.
2007-10-20 12:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy to say in hindsight, but you shouldn't be going out with people like that. Taking revenge on people gets you into even more trouble so don't do it!
My advice is to take it as a lesson learnt, let it go and move on with your life. Hopefully you'll find a nicer guy next time. Get to know someone well before you enter into a serious relationship.
I think there's a lot to be said for no sex outside of marriage. Just gets people hurt.
2007-10-20 12:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Raichu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I'm proud of you.
You dumped him and that was the right thing to do FOR YOU.
Don't worry about getting back at him. He is a USER. And ALL USERS become LOOSERS in time. Ask yourself where his brain must be located!
I know your heart hurts right now, but, always remember that "time and space (away from him) heals all." That means: LET GO! Don't sell yourself short. You deserve better, and will get better. I guarantee it.
PS- That's 35 years of counseling speaking.
2007-10-20 12:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ernie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares????? You dumped him, remember?
If he's sleeping with two chicks, what's that got to do with you????? It just proves that he's a cheater, but it's not your place to teach him a lesson. Let's hope he's practising safe sex. By the way, I hope you practised safe sex when you were with him.
Remember the old saying..'what goes around, comes around'. You will be the better person for moving on. Vengeance is never a good thing.
2007-10-20 12:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get him back? Revenge is over-rated. You're better than that. He will suffer for what he did when he is ready to grow personally.
Of course if he is sleeping with two women (simultaneously?) it may be some time before he begins to learn from his suffering in an obvious way that satisfies you, but deep down inside he is suffering. Obviously it is quite a long way down, and he wouldn't admit to it.
2007-10-20 12:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life without him in yours. If you see him, wish him all the bests. Just be thankful that you are not still be with him. If he is sleeping with two women, he doesn't respect them, so we can infer that he doesn't respect you either. The best revenge is to live life better. Go be the best person you can be. Get your education, meet someone who truly loves you, and have a wonderful life. God bless.
2007-10-20 12:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste you time on revenge. It solves nothing. The best way to get back at someone who hurts you is to hold your head up and act like it doesn't bother you. What goes around, comes around. Eventually he will get paid back.
2007-10-20 12:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by aloriael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Moving on and being happy is the best revenge. Trust me. Don't ever let him know it got under your skin. Besides, you dumped him for a good reason. Who cares what he is up to now??? Find someone worthwhile.
2007-10-20 12:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by thinkaspell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget you ever met him! He would love to know that you are still thinking about him. Ego Idiots only care about the hold they have over you. Free Yourself! If he sees he has no hold on you it will be the best revenge.
2007-10-20 12:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by tacmedwarrior 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont wanna get him back...its just going to make you feel worse because u cant hurt someone that doesnt care...and if u do it and u dont get the reaction you want you'll feel really bad inside...just move on guys like that dont deserve ne attention
2007-10-20 12:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by lovely28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋