Singles & Dating - 16 October 2007

i gave this guy the impression that i have a major attitude but i don't, if i stop acting like that,and start acting like myself,he may think im fake and i dont want that! i really want him to see who i really am. What should i do?

2007-10-16 23:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

on any grounds character, attitude, love, care, affection, behaviour, family & relationships & marriage..... how do boyfriends/husbands expect girlfriends/wifes to behave with them & their mom, sis, bro. dad & others Totally what are those things a guy expects in a lasting relationship with a girl...

2007-10-16 23:56:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 23:53:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 23:51:31 · 9 answers · asked by mangolove 1

anyone else had this problem, she does'nt know about it.

2007-10-16 23:27:32 · 25 answers · asked by dann_501 3

am at my whits' end and feel stupid but I just dont know what to do anymore. I swear I tried all possible and radical ideas I could. I moved, I changed job, I made new friends, I go to the gym, I joined the local theater group to do some stage painting ... but I cannot stop thinking about him and now I'm at a point where I've become physically sick. I get a lump in my throat and have to run to the toilet to be sick and then I cant do anything but cry until I feel ok again. Why after 6 months does it still hurt so bad???
I know he doesnt want me and I know he is seeing someone else, I can live with the facts but my stomach just turns itself inside out.
What on earth can I do that will make me think and feel normal again? I have been on dates and met guys but as soon as it comes to kissing those other guys, I back off cause he pops into my head.

2007-10-16 23:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by soulsurfer 4

Would it be less to engage in other sexual acts? Is there a sliding scale? It would be handy if I could guage how much I'm going to have to spend buying a girl drinks before I get what I'm in the mood for.

2007-10-16 23:01:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend has recently seperated from her husband, and i think its going to be for good...but she made a comment the other day about good men not being interested in a single mother as a partner? i said she was speaking complete rubbish, but im starting to question myself now...so...what do men think abot single mothers as a potential new gf??

2007-10-16 22:49:27 · 26 answers · asked by charli 4

His daughter is 10 years old and is the only child. He caters to her every whim and she is spoiled rotten. She is very manipulative and comes across as trying to be sweet, but i see through that crap, mind u i used to be her age. I keep trying to tell her dad that she does not want to see him with me, but he keeps thinking that i am trying to keep trouble going. He is good to me, but i feel as if like i am playing second fiddle. Should i be feeling this way?

2007-10-16 21:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...who aren't after money, and want to fall in love with a man (not bi-sexual, or gay, or some other irregular thing)? Are there any that want to just share sweet affection, and get lost with me and not worry about the next day? Possibly someone who wouldn't put a damn piece of paper or career over me in the line of importance? Where are the nurturing?

2007-10-16 20:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

READ my previous questions for the story! And yes i know ive asked this already. I just Anyway, she says that i said that the guy told me that she was all over him. THATS FALSE. but her friend told my cousin that he left and went on the couch cuz my girl was a touching him in the bed. It turns out that she didnt and that he was just sick. But all i did was ask her if the rumor was true and ask her friend and the guy. She wont even talk to me. She says "Youre a LIAR" i dont believe u anymore! I guess i should have looked into it more before confronting her. I was the one person she could trust before. And she thinks that i made this all up to get everyone mad so that she would come talk to me or sumthing stupid like that. I just want to say sorry, but she wont let me talk to her. In about a week, im gonna ask her roommate to put my flowers and a card on her bed. What should i write in the card. All i wanna say is that im so sorry for causing drama cuz everyone somehow found out about i

2007-10-16 19:49:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How are you supposed to find the right one for you? I am sick and tired of trying to change my self.... why can't i just be who i am and like it? so what if i am not the skinniest, smartest, most athletic or beautiful girl there is? Why can't i just be happy with that?
I keep trying to change myself because sometimes i feel i am a loner... i just keep to myself and am shy! sometimes i am ok with that and other times i wish i could talk to more people and make more friends! i think my deepest fear is i will never find someone that loves me... a man, that i love and will love me and take care of me... i am only inhigh school, but i really do fear that i will have to pretend to be someone i am not to find my true love....
What should i do? and why is this happening? am i really just not good enough?

2007-10-16 19:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Seriously though... 1

2007-10-16 19:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to love it!! Now it takes me forever to get into it...i still like it when we do it, but i feel like i could be doing other things.....anyone else feel like that??

2007-10-16 19:13:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been hanging out with this guy and we have sex on a regular basis. He's introduced me to his friends and we go out to dinner alot but nothing ever official has been said about our "status"
I don't need to be his "gf" or anything like that (I'm 19 he's 23, its ok if its just physical) I just want to know if you guys think he'll be offended if I ask to go on a official "date" with him because I think I may like him and I think he wants more from our relationship too.

Also I don't want to offend him by asking him on a date if he thinks we are already dating which I'm not sure if he does or not.

I need help!

2007-10-16 19:02:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok..there was this guy I met in this chatroom....after talking to him for about a day, he saids he wants to meet me...asking me if I wanna have dinner with him...then without me saying anything, he saids he dosent have any other "motives" , just wants to meet up...Like is this normal? or is there something else?

2007-10-16 18:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by stelle 1

My friend just told me that in her last relationship she was date raped. Her mom doesn't know, the only person besides me who knows is the dean of our university, which is a private Christian one.

It's not a deal of who do I tell, but it was something that really matters to her. Where we are now, the general school of thought is that you get married before you have sex. So her virginity was something incredibly important to her, something for her future husband.

Now she feels devalued, worthless, tainted... And to have that taken forcibly from you, not even being able to give it to someone you love... I can't imagine it. All I can do is love her, but now my heart is breaking and I don't know what to do. Some help?

2007-10-16 18:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Angeliss 5

i have been with this guy for 4 years and its had its ups and downs feels like the downs were more then the ups but neways i asks me to do his laundry which is fine and cool, i can play the wife role but he doesnt just ask me he demands and commands that i drop everything i do and do his laundry he says that he should be priority, and to me my family and myself is my priority. We do not even live togetehr and he doesnt even live alone, he lives at his mothers im 22 and hes 27, like i said b4 i dont mind doing it but i just dont like being commanded and demanded like that WAT DO U THINK? WAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-10-16 18:51:32 · 33 answers · asked by Lexis 2

2007-10-16 18:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by Chakkara 1

I DON'T BELIEVE THIS ****. AFTER ALL WE'VE BEEN THROUGH

TOGETHER, AND AFTER ALL I'VE DONE FOR him AND THIS

IS THE THANKS I GET. 8 ******' YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN. 8

******' YEARS I'VE WASTED. FOR 8 YRS he has WALKED ALL

OVER MY HEART. TOOK MY LOVE FOR GRANTED. I GAVE him

MY HEART AND he SHREDDED IT LIKE IT WAS NOTHING.I LOVED

him WHEN ALL he DID WAS HURT ME. NAW U KNOW WHAT

**** IT he DON'T DESERVE ME ANYWAY. HOW COULD I HAVE

BEEN SO DAMN STUPIT TO HAVE PUT UP WIT THIS BULLSHIT 4

THE PAST 8 YRS. I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE THAT he DID THIS

BULLSHIT 2 ME. KNOWING THAT THERE WAS NOTHING THAT I

WOULDN'T HAVE DONE FOR him. YOU KNOW WHAT THAT *****

CAN HAVE his SORRY ***. BUT LET ME TELL U 1 THING he's

GONNA MISS MY LOVE. SO he can GO AHEAD n DO him CAUSE I 'M GONNA DO

ME. AND I WILL BE MOVIN' ON AND I WON'T BE LOOKIN' BACK.

YEA IT MAY TAKE A WHILE BUT SOONER ARE LATER ALL BRUSES WILL HEAL BRUSES WILL HEAL ,AND THIS PAIN WILL FADE.

2007-10-16 18:38:21 · 3 answers · asked by blkdiva360 2

got into huge fight w/my bf of 3 years. we've had issues on and off for past 2 years b/c i have pmdd and he's made poor choices (called girl co-worker last time we got into argument. they don't talk anymore-he never cheated on me w/her). i am on meds and seeing a counselor

long story short-after coming home from weekend camping trip (and after i cleaned his house-we don't live together) he told me he needed "me time" for two days!! i usually stay at his house on our work days (we work nites). i thought he was up to no good so i showed up at his work to check on him. he got upset but forgave me. he didnt talk to me for 3 days then called to ask if i would come over to videotape his rc airplane for him that he built (then asked me if i was doing ok). i came over w/my kids for a while. we talked again that nite. i stopped over his house next day so my daughter could use the bathroom after playing at the park near his house-he said he just wanted to relax instead of doing stuff w/us...

2007-10-16 18:29:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like him but i feel like i dont spend enough time with my friends anymore. when i am with him, i am bored to tears. shud i ask him to take a break? and give me space? how do i do that? right now im just sort of sick of him but i feel like deep down inside i still like him, hes just boring right now. i know if i DO break up with him, it will be very awkward becuz we have all our classes together. we have been going out for almost a month and we are sophemores.

2007-10-16 18:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was outside with my bff when my crush calls his sister my bff over to him to ask her to ask me to play basketball with him? and he seemed so happy when i went over to play he throws me the basketball and i try to shoot it but i have never played before and i throw an air ball and he starts to tease me and laugh and he is really really good at it and we usually are quite competitive with one another so i was really sad and went to sit on the curb and watch him and his sister play...and then his sister says to him why did you do that and punched him in the arm he looked at me with a sad look on his face...i have really liked him for 6 years and he just found out i liked him this year so guys would you ask a girl you know has a crush on you to play basketball with you if you don't like her? Does he like me back or not? Thanks

2007-10-16 18:25:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you choose between two people that love you? I broke off a relationship of 5 years and started a new one with a long time friend, now the person that i was with before for 5 years wants me back. Now the other doesnt want to let me go either. Im stuck in a place that ive never been, how do i decide who to choose? both relationships have had ups and downs and both people seem to want the same out of me which is a future.

2007-10-16 18:22:01 · 22 answers · asked by sweet_bfly02 2

I'm 17 yrs old and my boyfriend of 2 years has left me =( I loved him so much I just want to die cause I don't want to live without him. I don't think I'll ever find someone like him again. He is my first love and I never been heartbroken before and I keep crying, I can't sleep and I can't eat. What can I do =(

2007-10-16 18:10:41 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I tried to break up with this girl because I think that I am afraid to hurt her in the future which I did, so then now every time she gets mad at me , I tried to do many things to calm her down especially with my own "sweet"side. What can I do to make it stable? It happens like once a week if not then some other weeks. If I try to break up with her then she will just make me feel guilty because she claims to "suicide". I've had bought alot of things she wanted, hang out with her friends instead of mine, and I gave almost everything up just for her. I even cutted some of the last classes I have in some days just for her. I was even patient enough to wait for her to get dressed while I waited outside in the cold. I am going crazy here people. Is there anyone willing to help with some advices? Thanks a bunch.

2007-10-16 18:08:53 · 3 answers · asked by xdersonxdamain 1

she is very pretty, young, and even though i tell her i love the way she looks a million times, she still doesnt like her chest. she is like an A or maybe even a AA cup, but i dont like big breasted girls. and i tell her that and i always compliment her looks (and sometimes her chest too), but she STILL doesnt like the way she looks. she was never this self conscious until she was with me (her first bf). is there anything i can say or do to help her? ...i feel bad that she doesnt like the way she looks.

2007-10-16 18:07:37 · 24 answers · asked by David N 1

what do you like a guy with no highlights (dark brown hair) or a guy with highlights (blondish color)?

2007-10-16 18:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by hammy 3

sometimes i feel like my dad doesn't love me as much as he used to. i used to be REALLY close to my parents, they thought i was perfect and innocent and sweet, and they were so lucky to have me. but last year when i was 18, they found pics of me "with" my boyfriend. in a few weeks, mom went back to being the same, but my dad lost somthing. we're still close, but it's not the same. he used to see me doing somthing signature "lindsay" and get this look in his eyes and come over and playfully pat me on the head. i can't proove it, but i think now, every time he sees me do somthing cute, it reminds him that i'm NOT cute anymore. i don't feel what i did was wrong, he was my boyfriend and we we're just experimenting, but i DO feel like i lost a part of my dad. makes me sad :( anyone else out there relate?

2007-10-16 17:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl that when I was in eighth grade, was in seventh. Some of her friends told me she liked me, but I didn't like her. Now I'm in tenth grade, she's in ninth grade, and I think she's really cute. I'm pretty sure she still likes me because of the way her eyes glow up when she sees me sometimes. I don't see her a lot, I don't know anybody that knows her, and it doesn't help that she's a freshman. She's never even talked to me but her friends used to tell me she liked me and stuff. It would be REALLY weird to just talk to her, and I don't know who to talk to about her. What should I do??????? I really want to get to know her...

2007-10-16 17:57:20 · 3 answers · asked by QuestionBoy 1