Singles & Dating - 16 October 2007

ok so this is my crush. he has a gf, but he is so confusing. i wrote him a note a couple of months ago saying im sorry for all the notes i wrote you i hope ur happy i wont bother you again have a great life.....but now he keeps looking at me and watching me and its really weird im trying to get over him but i dont know if he may like me and he and his gf are pretty steady and all and i just want to know what is going on . if you need more info just say it and i will try to give you more

2007-10-16 09:29:11 · 33 answers · asked by angelgal5382 2

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but i freakd out thinking someone would see us. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny yesterday and that i should do it with someone i luv . he said he was sorry and that he hoped i didn't feel used. was he using me/ did he feel rejectd? how should i move past this?

2007-10-16 09:26:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you asked a girl to the movies it would be because you like her right?
And if you invited a girl to one of your football games it would be good to??
ha I know it's kind of obveous buts guys confuse me and I need to knoww.

Thanks:]

2007-10-16 09:26:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend because I realized that I wasn't ready for the kind of relationship he wanted. I told him that I just wanted to be friends and he told me that he understood. Well he has started dropping hints that he wants to hook back up and he knows how I feel about that. He was all over me the other day when I thought we were going to hang out as friends. I didnt know how to tell him that I havent changed my mind from before. I dont know what to do. Any ideas???

2007-10-16 09:25:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK THIZ IS WAT HAPPENED IM WAS GOING OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT THEN WE BROKE UP BUT I STILL HELLA LIKED HIM AND WE SITLL TALKED.. BUT THEN A GUY ASKED ME OUT AND WELL I SAI D YES BECAUSE I TOUGHT I WOULD HELP GET OVER MY BOYFRIEND. BUT SOON LATER ON MY EX BOYFRIEND ASKED ME OUT AND WELLI SAID YES AGAIN.... NOW IM TRYING TO BREAK UP WIT THE OTHER ONE BUT I DONT KNOW HOW!!!! SO WAT DO I DO? HOW DO I TELL HIM?

2007-10-16 09:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oviously from the question i have been cheated on recently but he thinks i am over reacting, he did oral with some bimbo and thinks me not wanting to talk to him is a little drastic, so is there any advice?

2007-10-16 09:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by bebegurl 2

i am a teenager and i have had sex....i am only 13 and our condom broke!.....i just went to the doctors and i found out i am pregnant! i am sooooo happy! is this good or bad? my mom already knows and she is wonderfully happy! i feel like having sex again but i dont know if i am doing it wrong or not! please help me! and no RUDE comments about my age!!!!

2007-10-16 09:24:16 · 26 answers · asked by m&m 1

2007-10-16 09:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Vwgirl18 4

Ladies, Does tf'ing do anything for you?

2007-10-16 09:22:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

including when you're intimate...
By intimate signs I mean:
lots of cuddling when they're not having sex.
looking in her eyes when they have sex.
talking after sex.
things like that.

Are these signs? What else?
What about signs when you're NOT having sex?

2007-10-16 09:22:48 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6

he was abusive to me when drunk for no reason, and i want to finish with him. however i have a soft spot for him and think i would miss him. shall i tell him theres no committment any more. we're just "playmates", not boyfriend + girlfriend

2007-10-16 09:21:56 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I'm going to get chastised for this one, but i've braced myself for wading through the immaturity that might come.. Anyway:

I am a college junior and have an elective class on Human Behavior. For the particular project that I am asking for your help on I am doing 5 seperate sexualtiy tests from a broad range of men and women, in age ranges all the way from 14-65.

That said - This is a very serious question, just simply asking if you shave your private area - Shaven completely, partially (just bottom, just top), trimmed, completely un-touched, or if you do something strange that maybe i've never heard of, i'd like to hear about that too!

Oh boy, here we go...

2007-10-16 09:18:50 · 31 answers · asked by The Peav 4

My ex suddenly came back into my life after years of being apart. He has only just broken up with his long term ex and they are still in touch. Our relationship ended badly years ago and I really want to know if you think it is a rebound or could this work? Anyone been in a similar situation - did it last or will it be the same as before? Also what to do about the ex (do I worry or do nothing)?

2007-10-16 09:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for two yrs now and it still has not change, its actually worse. When I say hello or speak to him he doesnot respond. Won't even tell his father what his issues are. I have never mistreated him in anyway, he just doesnot want to accept me. My boyfriend tells me I must set him straight. and tell him he needs to respect. and donot go out of my way whatsoever... I need help?
Any advice?

2007-10-16 09:13:27 · 9 answers · asked by Teresa 2

not that I would use one, I'm just looking for a laugh.

2007-10-16 09:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 6

Why is it that some of you, NOT ALL, are out their clubbing hard and doing everything the woman YOU DON"T WANT is doing then when you find a decent woman you say "I want to marry her, because she is not out their in the club, she was a good girl" You were not a good guy. What is up w/ that! I had guy who wanted to go out w/ me a long time ago want me for that specific reason, that I wasn't out thier running the streets a lot, but he was and I was like "Why would I want you, you have played every field in the tri-state area? Why would I want a h_e for a husband!" He got offended and couldn't answer. But my co-worker recently said the same thing, and I asked him why? He says he wanted someone who was more pure than the chicks he was messing w/ I said but what woman would want a man who was out their like that. I mean if my current bf was out thier like that when we met I wouldn't have wanted him. So guys answer why some of you do that?

2007-10-16 09:10:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in college. I've been on four dates with a girl and known her almost two weeks and weve made out once and kissed goodnight three different times.I know that she likes me, she is the one who originally asked me out. I really like her too and want her to be my gf. I don't want to ask her too early and ruin it, but I also don't want to wait too long and make her think I'm just playing her. Girls would you be upset if you liked me and asked you to be my girlfriend after four dates?

2007-10-16 09:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfried so much! We have been through so much together that i feel like nothing can brake us apart. We use to live together with 2 other roommates (his friends, i should of known better) we got in a fight and he kicked me out!! Well now the other roommates say i'm not allowed in the house because they think we're going to get in a fight one of these times and the cops will be called, He's actually listening to them!! I have a boyfriend who never stands up fo me! I stand up for him all the time and he never does the same... Do you think i'm being 2 sensitive? What do you think? Whenever i say anything to him about he say's "GROW UP, GET OVER IT"

2007-10-16 09:08:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 08:48:45 · 13 answers · asked by Serengetti 3

2007-10-16 08:42:48 · 24 answers · asked by ? 6

or the quickest you have ever told someone you loved them

3 weeks once for me.. ended up not working in the long run

2007-10-16 08:39:23 · 36 answers · asked by Dauntilus 3

I can't say I never felt this before, because I thought I was in love once. I have almost the same feeling again, so I'm wondering if it is possible to fall in love again? I feel like I'm in a dream....shes the most amazing woman in the world. I can't believe my life would have moved in a different path if I did not meet this woman. I am scared to get hurt again, so I am not sure if this is even possible.

2007-10-16 08:32:17 · 36 answers · asked by Sean I.T ? 7

I'm just bored and wondering what makes you say yes to guys. Can a butt ugly guy pull your number at a party if he says all the right things? Can a great looking guy get it even if he has no game? What makes you say yes, and what makes you walk away.

Kind of an obvious question I know. I'm looking for something a little more ... in-depth

2007-10-16 08:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by Nate 6

He is in software right now, but plans to switch to the area of finance. I will thinking of gifting him a Wall Street Journal newspaper subscription. Will he appreciate it?

Also, would you suggest I gift him the everyday one, or just the weekend subscription?

Which one would you have preferred?
Thank you so much guys.

2007-10-16 08:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6

My boyfriend and I are both pretty shy in the bedroom. I am shy in general, and haven't had that many relationships, so I am not confident at all when it comes to sex. I feel like he is having the same problem. When we do have sex, it is wonderful, but I am starting to get frustrated because it only happens probably twice a month because we are both just waiting for the other person to make the move. I love him and I love every other part of our relationship. I don't want to make a big deal about it, because he is sensitive about his sexual performance anyway...What can I do to spice things up? I feel really stupid and inexperienced, even though I'm in my mid-20s. What can I do to overcome my shyness?

2007-10-16 08:26:17 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

i'm recently going through a rough point in my life, my girlfriend left me after 4yrs and there are many more complications. i have always felt that god has never been there when i need him the most. so now i find myself not believing in him. so do you feel like god has abandoned you?

2007-10-16 08:23:31 · 19 answers · asked by Ollie 3

I am a single 20 year old, very attractive woman. I am very thin and toned and I know my face is very pretty as well. I get compliments all the time.
HOWEVER, I cannot meet the right guy! it's like impossible. Where do you meet someone? Guys are always initially attracted to me but it seems no one wants a relationship. I would never tell any of my friends this, but I really wish i WASN'T single.
So, where are all those nice, good looking men out there? :(

2007-10-16 08:21:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

are open to being friends with benefits?

2007-10-16 08:20:21 · 17 answers · asked by Fall Back 1

i dont have a boyfrfiend because he moved

2007-10-16 08:13:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance just got back a week ago from working out of town in mobile for 3 weeks. the 1st nite he got back a woman named catherine called & he took the phone and ran, i suspected cheating at this time, this was on sunday. i made him call the girl back & tell her to never call again. but the name that popped up on phone was cat, he called cat2. which made me think he never calld her. he has a phone wit a plan but last fri. i caught him messing w/his prepaid phone. so the next mornin i look through his pockets and find his old sim card & stick it in the phone & find out he has been talking 2 her all week! i call the girl & find out he slept with her numerous times, took her out, & she is a stripper w/a kid & another 1 on the way! he finally admitted everything but says he made the biggest mistake of his life & wants a 2nd chance, so i told him 2 call cat & end it w/her. he said he needed time to think b4 he did anything. if he wants me back why doesnt he end it w/her?

2007-10-16 08:13:51 · 33 answers · asked by cami 1