Singles & Dating - 12 October 2007

Sorry I had to post this once again...but I'm in desperate need for help

I love my guy friend and I'm not sure what's next. I know FOR SURE that I'm special to him, that he has deep feelings for me, but I'm puzzled by this awkwardness and distancing behavior. It had been for the past few months of pulling and pushing (from his side).

I know he’d been struggling with his own issues/feelings & I helped him through some of them…but I can’t do it this time because my feelings are involved too!

I’m withdrawing away from him & giving him his space. Would he consider this as loss of interest or abandonment?



(10 pts for the most helpful answer)



Thanks

2007-10-12 23:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by HopeH 4

i ADORE my best frnds boyfrnd. i like him sooooo much. he flirts wid me all da tyme. but he really loves my frnd. i cant take it. its driving me mad. i feel soooooo jealous. last nite, we had this function thingii in skl. so, i went up in the buildin. no1 was there. it was dark. i needed somthin from my locker. he saw me and came 2. he started flirtin alot. i was like "omg, josh, thinks britney spears is hot." and then hes like "well, i think ur hot." n i did say nething.
THIS MAKES ME WANT HIM MORE. he knos i like him. but he likes my frnd wayyy more.

2007-10-12 23:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Physically fit,intelligent about a variety of subject matter,intuitive and a great guitarist musician.

2007-10-12 22:03:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy she wants to go out with is much older then him, and a big buff football type jock, i have had a huge crush on her an i think she knows an she doesn't seem to care a t all i think we would make an awesome couple but its like she always teasin me an it really hurts me cuz i wish i was that football playin dude who shes goin all ga ga crazy for

SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HIM like she knows me

how can she go crazy for someone she doesn't even know does anyoner know what i mean?

2007-10-12 22:01:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 21:58:40 · 3 answers · asked by AVALINE C 1

i mean, i'm still a virgin and i came from a "conservative" family but i really do wanna have se/x.. this is maybe due to curiousity..im only 19 by the way..

2007-10-12 21:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by czai 1

Let's say the that both teacher and student belong to a university. Both are single. Their age difference is 4 years. They are both in their 20's.

Now here are the questions:

- If you are NOT in his class, would it be wrong to the eyes of the university to date him?

-If you wait until you graduate, would it be wrong to the eyes of the university to date him?

-Either way [whether you were out of his class or graduated] would it hurt his career?

Please answer all three questions.

2007-10-12 21:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He looks at me sometimes..I catch him
and when i was in the dinner hall
I walked past him and he looked at me from behind and smiled
when i'm around him he looks a bit awcrawrd[sorry i have spelling probs]


but I like him anyway
and i dont actually know what to do when i'm around him or say coz i've never spoken to him apart from once on the net :P
what could i do and say?
remember this [He's kind of part of the "Popular" crowd if that exists but he's honestly different and doesn't talk much?


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2007-10-12 21:19:25 · 3 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4

and the amount of perfume she wear seem to be applied by one of those pest exterminator cans.

Everytime we do it I have to take a bath in tomato juice to get rid of the smell and scrub with Ajax to remove the make-up from my face and weiner.

I don't want to hurt her feelings, should I talk to her about it?

2007-10-12 21:09:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 21:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by sanusan_jp 1

2007-10-12 20:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-12 20:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Rawwr* 3

I'm a college educated 20 year old single mom with a beautiful baby girl. I am just curious what you guys think. Would you date a single mom, if so how do you see that sort or relationship working? If not, what would be your reasons for not dating a single mom? Also what, if any, benefits are there to dating a single mom? Any other input, opinions, or experiences are welcome. :)

2007-10-12 20:40:06 · 28 answers · asked by babydoll32 2

2007-10-12 20:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by Beauty 1

What do you most desire in a man's personality?

2007-10-12 20:28:58 · 15 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2

just means he saw me first and so asked me to dance with me?

when I shyed away, he came back an hour later and we dance for quite a while though...

i should just wait to see what happens huh?

2007-10-12 20:27:19 · 3 answers · asked by sam3345 1

okay...so we all went to the club like a week ago...me the guy I like, and a few of our other friends. Later that night I was freezing and he offered me his shirt & ended up wearing it home....Do you guys think I should return the shirt to his house on one of our off days or should I just bring it to work with me one day??? Remember im kinda shy but I really really like this guy!!! If I take it to his house should I try to talk about anything specificor hang out or offer to go some place???? what should I do if I do drop it off @ his house??

2007-10-12 20:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by jade_06 1

Suppose you know this educated and classy girl will make an excellent wife and a wonderful mother. You like her much, would like to spend time with her in various occasions such as having dinner out, travelling, going to movies, or just staying home and talking about any topic which would come up. Best of all you know she will be your best friend as your lifetime partner. There is another girl who is not comparable to the first one considering the above-mentioned aspects, but you have a lot of passion for her, you are attracted to her but only and only because of her appearance, not her inside…bottom line..you can’t get her out of your mind.

If you marry the first one, would it be possible that the level of passion increase with time? We all know that physical passion will be faded after marriage, so the 2nd girl might be the wrong one.

Please tell me what you would do if you were in this situation and please in a little bit details. I hope to hear from both ladies and gents.

2007-10-12 19:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

why don't girls ask out guys on dates? i mean if they want everything to be equal why not?

2007-10-12 19:48:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel horribe for doing this but i actually do love him as more than a dad but i know that i need to tell her that her husband is cheating on her with her own daughter, im just afraid to tell her i dont want her to stop loving me because i love her husband.

2007-10-12 19:43:23 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

thx ...let me know now...pls

2007-10-12 19:42:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 19:32:17 · 1 answers · asked by moore . 1

his best friend went up to me and asked me to dance with him... and so while i was dancing with his best friend he is standing there
so i go up to him and ask if he wants to dance and hes like naw
so 15 ish mins later hes standing there still and i ask if he wants to dance hes like later

later i see him dancing with another girl, and another and another..

i was really upset... should i have been?

2007-10-12 19:26:59 · 16 answers · asked by sam3345 1

I have this guy friend and everything at the beginning of our friendship was perfect. We got along and everything and just recently he has been saying mean things to me. for example, he said that i have such a sad family ( which makes no sense) and he would belittle me over the phone. Why does he do this. I don't understand. I have never ever have anyone speak to me like this before and it gets me very upset.

I have been super nice too.

2007-10-12 19:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Muah99 1

ok i really like him and i wana get back with him but i feel like doing something nice to him i wana draw him something but i dont know wat to draw him can u please help me i wana draw him something or like make make him something really nice. can someone help me i really dont wana just trow away almost 2 years of going out

2007-10-12 19:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by Cori 3

On the phone

Over a text

Email

online chat

See the person face to face

2007-10-12 19:06:30 · 20 answers · asked by Mar 1

2007-10-12 19:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by bonnielilburn 1

I'm 20 and haven't dated. Now I just avoid the topic of relationships or lie because I'm so embarrassed I've never had one.

Is it always going to be this way for me? Help?

2007-10-12 18:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello,
if your new and havent been following my whole story then ill fill u in. my first question got deleted so i ended up re wording it in the second. i was talkin about my girl friend and how im 19 and shes............kinda alot younger than me and our relationship. she loves me and i love her and she does everything that i tell her to like a girl is suppose to act toward her man. they do wat there told. but now in my third installment to my problem, the thing is i kinda hit her sometimes wen i get angry. but the thing is, she apologizes to me wen i hit her and stuff like she was wrong. is she wrong or am i wrong? or is she jus a real lady who no's her place? help please.

2007-10-12 18:12:40 · 16 answers · asked by Dread 1

I'm 28...not that it matters. My friend and I had an argument Monday night because I told him some things that were bothering me about our friendship...like the way he treats me, etc. He "thinks" I'm too dependent on him (I'm not) and says that he thinks that we shouldn't see each other as often (we were seeing each other weekly). I haven't heard from him since, but he said to give him 2 weeks and he'd talk to me soon. Fine. The problem I'm having now is that he knows that my biggest fear in the world is losing people close to me (long story) and I'm so hurt and angry at him for doing what he did, but at the same time, I miss him so much. Part of me just wants to see and talk to him, but part of me really wants to tell him to go to you know where. I don't want to lose his friendship, though. I'm just not sure how to respond when he calls again. He didn't end the friendship. He's just being an *A* hole right now. I'm just hurt, angry and sad at the same time. Help!

2007-10-12 17:45:26 · 3 answers · asked by First Lady 7