Singles & Dating - 9 October 2007

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years.i was on the sick when i met her through depression.I wanted to change my life and start living again,so i started working for a voluntree group a few days a week.Soon it gave me the confidence to want to do other things,so i went back to college and started doing my gcse's again at the age of 27.I passed all these with flying colours and wanted more,so i took up a health and fitness course,i passed level 1-2 and now im doing my A levels...Im going also to be doing a coaching course soon,and thats where the problem starts.My girlfriend doesn't want me to become a coach as she says it will take me away from her,and are home.She says she wants someone who will come home to her at the end of the day and not be away doing stuff for days and nights at a time....Im really torn,i love my girlfriend very much,but also want a career as well.Ive had a really bad start in life and i feel like this is my chance to make it. please help.

2007-10-09 23:58:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is having an online debate about sex there are a few people involved i called it a mass debate now she s upset with me how can i make it better

2007-10-09 23:54:56 · 2 answers · asked by toon l 4

Please someone help me out with this. I feel sorry after i hurt her. But she tries to explain me. But i dont understand. What should i do?

2007-10-09 23:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Salman 1

Say yes if your partner asked you to have a threesome with them and another?
If so, would you have 2 girls or 2 boys?
Why?

I did, i regret it, i'd never do it again. that feeling of my partner sleeping with someone else...the worry of how much he may enjoy it, and leave me for her....never again!

2007-10-09 23:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him and after that he wrote that on his IM ID for me to see..he is shy and won't talk to me after I told him. He is from Taiwan. Does anyone know anything about Taiwanese guys?

2007-10-09 23:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by iloveanairforcesoldier 1

1: did not turn up 2 meet them

2: done dirty stuff witg a boy

3: or shag a 15 yrs boy?

2007-10-09 23:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this an ideal partner or what?

2007-10-09 23:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by criminal convictions 3

My boyfriend and I decided to wait for marriage to have sex, but i changed my mind and he didnt. I met another guy who wants to fool around. Should I just do it?

2007-10-09 22:42:49 · 28 answers · asked by Carrie J 1

...would she be considered a bad partner for a long-term relationship because she made her choice from which man was better in bed, rather from love?

2007-10-09 22:25:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 22:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by criminal convictions 3

2007-10-09 21:41:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 21:38:48 · 1 answers · asked by HANDYMAN99_69 1

you are 16-17...you proposed,6 months ago, a girl who stays near your house....you travelled and even now travel with her to school(by school bus)....but when she heard your proposal she got badly angry and yelled at you.
Will you still have feelings for her???

2007-10-09 21:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy i like. we've been keepin in touch for about a year. we don't know eachother that well. just small, flirty talk. he seems like a great guy. hardworking, good-looking, great heart, romantic, family oriented. he just found out that his father has a brain tumor (i'm serious, no joking around). i feel so bad for him, but, what makes it worse, i can't help him. i wish i could. what are some words of encouragement i can offer?

i would really appreciate it.

2007-10-09 21:07:04 · 23 answers · asked by ohsohot 4

In a relationship, should one person make a conscious attempt to be sexy for the other person?

Should a guy do things like give a woman backrubs, and buy her flowers once in a while, even if he doesn't feel like doing so?

Should a woman wear lingerie and initiate sex once in a while (or give a man a selfless sexual favor), even though she usually doesn't?

I think so. I've done some things I downright hated in order to appease a significant other. My friend says this is BS, though. He's married, and he says that you shouldn't be something you're not.

What do you think?

2007-10-09 21:01:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 20:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have a HUGE problem. My friend Katie and I have been best friends for a really long time. Well a few months ago, we moved in together and ever since then, we've grown alot in our friendship. It's getting to the point though where it's kind of annoying how close we are. Like there's this other girl, Kristen, that we have both been best friends with all throughout high school...well Katie has gotten to the point where she gets jealous if Kristen and I are hanging out without her, or she gets mad everytime I go somewhere and don't invite her to come....even if I come home and come in my room without telling her hey she thinks something's wrong. Confronting her about this problem is out of the question, b/c I know I would hurt her feelings and she'd cry because she has SEVERE depression, in a serious matter. I love being friends with her and stuff, I just feel like there has to be some way to handle this problem...any ideas?

2007-10-09 20:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most guys worry their penis is too big or small or thick or thin or straight or bent or long or short or just plain different. Nearly every guy worries about this in their teenage years!

2007-10-09 20:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a wonderful man & things progressed quickly. It was obvious from the start there was a connection between us. We talked every day, he came to see me at work, I went to his house, & we knew things were developing between us. He was honest with me from the beginning, telling me he's recently divorced and not ready for a relationship. Then one drunken night, he told me he loved me. We talked about it later and he said that he meant it but that he's not ready to settle down and is still seeing other people. We both agreed that the feelings between us are scary as we're both recently out of bad relationships. Then he backed off. Recently he told me it would be easier if I just walked out of his life and when I started to, he told me not to. I finally told him I loved him too. The vibe between us is odd now. I feel like I'm getting the run around. We don't spend time together anymore and we don't talk as much. Is he backing off out of fear or because he really wants me out of his life?

2007-10-09 20:32:47 · 15 answers · asked by hlynae 2

i hav fallen in lov once b4 but this is not my way of dealin with thing but i hav to tell som 1 how it is i hav got 2 guys i hav loved as friends but 1 is nore than friends i feel good wen he is close to me i hav feelin that ur mum mite say its a fase ur goin tho can anyone help i felli am on the edge of breakin hart

2007-10-09 20:26:13 · 2 answers · asked by erowe12jb 2

I've had my heart broken before.. and the pain was like nothing else. But, I dealt.. and I moved on. But now, my heart.. is literally, in pieces... I don't know what to do.

2007-10-09 20:22:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do guys take "just friends" the wrong way..isn't it better then nothing at all? I don't get it...I tell guys I just want to be friends and they run away after I told them I am totally in love with another guy!

2007-10-09 20:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if she previously didn't give you as much attention before?

2007-10-09 20:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The plant wasn't cheap and she killed it in a matter of 7 days. Is this grounds for ending the relationship? She obviously can't be trusted.

2007-10-09 19:53:34 · 10 answers · asked by Jared 4

okay here's the deal...he's been dropping major hints, saying things like i want something in return and he's always polite and gentlemanly. i've never had a bf before and im kinda new to this whole thing. if he asks i'll say yes because i do like him. but i don't know why he wont spit out the words i want to hear. i don't want to be the one who initiate the relationship, but how do i show him that i like him back with out disrespecting myself in anyway? or something along that line...i need help!!! =O

2007-10-09 19:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just give them what they want, is that wrong ?

2007-10-09 19:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1

My girlfreind is somewhat more experienced than me and lately has been signaling that I should just give it to her up the dooty schute. I want to do this right, but do not know just exactly how. Any suggestions? Any particular Positions or lubricants? This is a first time for me. Any help appreciated.

2007-10-09 19:42:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michael F 3

2007-10-09 19:41:35 · 17 answers · asked by baphomete666 1

would you cheat on your girlfriend if you had a chance with adriana limahttp://klondike.files.wordpress.com/2007/04/adriana_lima_6.jpg or jessica albahttp://www.2flashgames.com/2fgkjn134kjlh1cfn81vc34/flash/f-Jessica-Alba-3709.jpg
soooo would you i hope you wouldnt =]

2007-10-09 19:38:12 · 14 answers · asked by me 5

2007-10-09 19:28:27 · 15 answers · asked by whiteangel 2