8 months ago, I started going out with this girl, and it turns out that she has a lot in her past, and on top of that, is having a ton of problems concerning her dysfunctional family. When we were dating, she frequently lied to me about important issues (eg. sex, background, family) as well as other issues. I chose to stick it out, for a few reasons. #1 she was astray in her life + i really cared about her. #2 she had an abusive family and had nobody else #3 i loved her, #4 she was very fun to make out with. She lied to me, and we always had trouble communicating our feelings and pretty much anything. I ended it because it was hurting me. I dont have this problem with anyone else. Why am I having this problem with her? I recently tried calling her to get some coffee, again, it ended in an argument, because she couldn't express how she felt. What is the problem? What can I do to fix this? Why is it so much trouble? How can I show her a more effective mode of communication?
2007-10-09
10:24:32
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Dr. Mike B
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