Singles & Dating - 7 October 2007

i'm in the 8th grade, every monday we have to attend club.. i met him there. he's in the 9th grade.. i really like him but i dont know what to do.. if i make a move.. he might not like me and i just might get hurt.. what should i do? i want to be really close with him so that at least we'll be really close.. and who knows we might get together.. so what should i do? i only see him every monday.. should i try to get his attention?? if so how can i get his attention? PLEASE HELP!! i am desperate but i dont want him to think i am desperate.. im not sure if i want him to know i like him.. he might reject me. WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELP

2007-10-07 23:39:35 · 4 answers · asked by Gravity. 2

I went through traumatic events that means i get tired easily, only can work part time, people always ask why i dont have a bofyriend but as a business graduate won't climb the ladder and have diminished earning capacity. i used to be an athlete and am attractive. would a guy want me given i am damaged goods. if not for this i would have a lot to offer, always get on well with guys, confident but can't compete fnancially so a guy may want me to earn as much as them. does this effect guys or would they love me anyway, given i didnt damage myself, i was on the recieving end of someone elses actions and recovered as much as a i can but still get tired...would a guy want a girl who is good looking but can't keep up financially? the boy i used to like is now a Senior executive...he probably cant comprehend part time or limited career. i like achieving but have limitations. would like guys opinions. if you didn't know, would you take me on? i only had good boyfriends pre-attack.

2007-10-07 23:12:30 · 1 answers · asked by whatsupnow 1

My girlfriend gets really angry with everyone when she is having her period and last time she had it she lost it with me and said that next month when she is having her period I will have to wear her used pads to feel what it is like!

I was like ewwwwwww about the whole thing but I did not tell her out of fear she would snap my head off. I am really scarred of getting an infection if do this. She said if I don't wear them next month she is going to dump me. What should I do? Is this normal behaviour from girls?

2007-10-07 22:17:21 · 30 answers · asked by Mr Nobody 1

2007-10-07 22:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by rihannsu 2

Assuming the woman is crazy about him and the man says he loves the woman but is just not into commitments, is there any hope for a happy ending or sorts?

2007-10-07 22:11:05 · 19 answers · asked by ••Tara•• 5

my girlfreind is staring to get on my nerves, she over reacts at every little thing. for example the other day i had 3 missed calls from her (i know thats not alot) and about 2 texts in about 30mins, the reason for this was that she saw my name on MSN and it no-longer said her name with flowers around it, so she apparently burst into tears before continously ringing me, i couldnt answer because i was driving.

as far as i can see this is a bit obsessive or is this normal?

2007-10-07 22:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by Kruger, Freddy Kruger 6

The age I am talking about is from 21-26. Due to him pursuing higher degree in research medicine, he feels not necessary to move out yet, so he lives with his parents.

Would you find it a major issue or turn off that he still lives with the parents?

2007-10-07 20:57:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I have come to realize that know matter how great of a person you are, all guys look outside a girl. Her breast, her waist, why does that have to be all that matters? You have to be little, I mean even the Christian guys are like that, she has to look nice. Why I don't get it? I am a big girl, I am not ugly though I have had many people tell me I am not, but because I am a "hefty" women I am not "worthy" of dating. I have a really good personality. Please when you answer don't say well if you lost some weight... because I want someone to love me for me... Not on how I look outside. Please help I just don't get it.

2007-10-07 20:50:29 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Bean 1

2007-10-07 19:59:03 · 1 answers · asked by Jo 1

Hi as i said this girl kissed my bf when he was drunk just 3 days ago, I found out from a friend of mine the day after and i got mad. I didn't wait for him to tell me i just phoned and started to call him stuff,we met but i told him to split up.. He admitted it but he said it ment nothing and he is terribly sorry..right now he's feeling ill and stuff and he's not going out.

Now after reading some other similar questions i told him that im ready to forgive him because i love him too much and i know he does too though he said to give him a bit of time to sort his atitude out. I don't know what to do realy, the image of him kissing another girl is killing me but i don't want to lose him coz of a stupid kiss..

Can someone help me?

2007-10-07 19:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by ozzy_ozbabe 1

Hi, yesterday, I had an argument with my gf over the phone. It was just a small argument. So she said "if you make me mad again, I will go out with this guy named Alex, he has been asking me out many times, I 'll say yes if you make me mad".

I was disappointed. I always thought love shows respect and not being spiteful. If you are mad, then we can work it out, no need to go out with another guy. How would you feel and what would you do?

2007-10-07 19:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7

im in love with my best friend and he doesnt feel the same i think that it s goin 2 be impossible to keep my feelings to myself. is it just better if we're not friends ne more??

2007-10-07 19:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by lovely28 2

Lately Ive been hanging out with a new group of friends I met through school(college) and Im pretty sure this one girl and I have a connection. As a group we party go to bars and do all that good stuff, however Ive been giving this girl alot of attention and shes been responding with signs. It started out with us just having fun partying, dancing then it evolved to holding hands on one ocassion etc. When we talk to each other she always smiles at me, I smile back we make eye contact frequently and Im pretty sure we have a connection? I mean even this weekend(friday) her and another couple and I went to a sandwich place after the bar and when we were eating she was like "is this our first date?" laughingly...and Saturday while at the bar she told me she wanted to "talk" when we get back to the house. What does that suppose to mean? Is it time for me to make a move? Whats our connection mean?

2007-10-07 19:33:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know. I never had gf but I need someone who I can talk sometimes. She says she loves me. I don't know what to do. I do like her but I am kind of scary to love her. I have no plan to meet her or anything. is it illegal to love someone 15 online? Tell me what do u think

2007-10-07 19:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by Success 1

What turns other girls on the most? Are there any general truths/consistencies from one girl to the next?

What about you guys? Whats makes for the hottest sex for men?

2007-10-07 19:12:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The club we're both in is a sort of program where mainstream students cultivate friendships with special-ed students. We are both general-ed students.

Last week, we had a party where we met the parents of our special-ed buddies. He came over and remarked on a lot of the things I did. Things like: "Nice creativity with the scissors." "You're doing way too much work, chill out." "I heard you speaking your Chinglish to his mom" (Chinese with sprays of English) We chatted a little about languages then, and he told me about his ethnic background. At one point, he set me on a task, and blew me a kiss, then said, "Just kidding." Every so often, he would glance at me and smile.

That was a week ago, and he hasn't done anything else since. What's with the mixed signals?

2007-10-07 19:04:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anita 5

a ho is a ho is a ho is a ho. No?

2007-10-07 19:04:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wondering if it is okay with the administration for me to get involved with a teacher at a community college? I keep hearing that it is allowable as long as I am not dating him at the same time that I am his student. However, is it TECHNACHILY OKAY BUT SERIOUSLY FROWNED UPON BY THE ADMINISTRATION? There is this [SINGLE!!!] teacher who I talk to sometimes. I AM NOT IN HIS CLASS!!! However, it has been a year since we met and he has not asked me out. Could it be because he is WORRIED about getting in trouble?

NOTE: I AM NOT IN HIS CLASS!!! HE IS SINGLE!!! WE OFTEN CHAT!!!

If anyone has any stories or examples that they could share, I would really appreaciate it. I want to know if I am wasting my time waiting for him to ask me out.

Thank you for whatever you can do for me.

2007-10-07 19:02:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have never met face to face. She swears that she is in love. She will wait till he is 18 for them to date.Does this sound like she is way too naive or that he just a real smooth talker or possibly someone older trying to bait her. She also says this guy understands her and they have alot in common. I say WTF!!!

2007-10-07 18:57:54 · 22 answers · asked by meiyotora 2

what's the sexiest women's shoe?

2007-10-07 18:54:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay there is this guy who sits right next to me in spanish right and like i like him so much its like boom! so anyways i think he knows that i like him because like i am always talking to him and like idk its hard to expalin. and then the stuff he does around me he acts really shy idk if hes shy in real life or just being shy around me and then also when i like pull down my shirt he pulls down his shirt too. and then his smile is so adorable. okay so now my friend wrote him a note saying "she" which is me likes you!
and then like he did not even write back or anything but then he was like nervous after he was done reading it. also the other thing he does is tap on the desk when im tapping on my desk and draw on himself like 7 mins after i get done drawing on my hand. okay so how do i know if he likes me? and then like also do you think on monday he will respond back to note saying yes i liek her?
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2007-10-07 18:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by hey yo 3

but never has time to hang out with me. she is always to busy and says she will have time soon. i dont believe the stuff she says to me cause i have problems trusting girls. but everything she says like we are goin to have a future together and stuff. and she says shes gonna call me back and doesnt call for like 2 days and when she does she says she was very busy. and when i told her that i dont want to talk to her cuz she doesnt have time for me she cryed i really need answers for this i dont understand it. does she really mean what she says or is she playin games

2007-10-07 18:48:21 · 9 answers · asked by Eric P 1

Details: I feel as if he gets on to me about every little thing I do. I cuss too much. I'm a slob( which I am not, my friends always say how neat I am). I have a bad attitude. I am so sick of all my faults being brought to my attention every day! Can someone please give me input on how to put up with this or how not to?

2007-10-07 18:47:05 · 8 answers · asked by grace 1

ok, on saturday me and some of my friends went to the theaters. one of my friends is a girl that used to like. another one of my friends sat next to her and talked to her throughout the whole movie.when we went outside, i started to talk to her, and i put my arm around her.she pulled my hand off after 3 sec.. later on the friend that she sat next to put his arm around her, except sh didnt take it off.she just started to laugh with him. that little moment ruined my whole evening. does that mean she likes him more thatn me or what?? this confuses me.lol

2007-10-07 18:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by GOW insane 2

If you have a boyfriend and its a long distance relationship -[not that that matters'].. and you hang out with someone you havent seen in like two years and out of no where your friend you were hanging out with just kisses you.. and keeps kissing you at random moments throughout the night................. is that defined as cheating in a relationship.

2007-10-07 18:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Stacie 2

My ex girlfriend is over me, but she said I can call her when ever if I want to talk. We were in a long distance relationship after only 2 months of dating. I didn't trust her for some reason even though she gave me no reason not to, and she knew this so she broke it off. She is at college now and probably wouldn't have time for a relationship anyway. I'm going to still meet girls and stuff like that, but when she comes back next summer, I want to try to win her back. I figured if I talked to her every month or so and just kept in touch, and tried to rebuild some relationship after what happened, if we were both single in the summer, she'd think about it. She was really something special and I want to show her that I changed, because I will be working on making myself a better person while she is away at school. Is this crazy?

2007-10-07 18:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesica and i have been really good friends and in the beginning i was like on the fence on asking her out but then I made the mistake of asking another girl out and that's when i realized that i really did like Yesica. After i asked out the other girl, i noticed that she got sad and i kinda knew she had a thing for me but after this incident, she kinda got a little over me and i really am sorry and very regretful for asking the wrong girl out. Now we've talked about and she did confess that she "liked" me back then and I told her that I did too, but that was it. Any other person would think that thats it for me, but then again we are still good frineds and there was on night where we were actually holding hands. And there are many night s where we talk alot. And then she's always trying to make me jealous. Ive already asked her to prom and she accepted. But she always makes it seem like she feels nothing for me. I wanna tell her how i feel but i can't for some reason. It's killing me!

2007-10-07 18:38:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sergio 4

2007-10-07 18:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by devil in disguise 2

my ex and i were talking on the phone for about 45 minutes. that was until his phone died and never called back. i called and his phone went right to voicemail. so, i sent a text message. i said "hello" and then "it was nice to hear your voice." NOTHING. do yout hink he was bored with the conversation? i know he's my ex but we've been friends and known each other for 10 years. i want to contact him but, what do you think? i think he should contact me. Thoughts?

If you want to reply with a smartass comment, DONT BOTHER

2007-10-07 18:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am personal fan of not using pick up lines and not doing anything really clever to introduce myself. I usually just try to look for a conversation starter and work from there. For example, say were at the book store and I notice the girl is open to me....I will say soemthing about the fact were in the same suject area or just a simple hi (then work from there).

My question is, what works best? What do you women really like?

2007-10-07 18:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by sjsharks3921 1