Singles & Dating - 7 October 2007

I just started online dating. People keep saying i dont think you should do it that way it isnt safe!! But are you any safer if you go about meeting people in bars,church,supermarkets,or whatever other traditional way you choose to meet people. The 1st date is never safe i dont care how you 2 met. the only disadvantage u have when u meet them online is that u dont really know how they look!! I can meet some1 at a party, store, mall what ever that dosent make it any more safer the only thing you honestly can be sure of is how he looks !!!

2007-10-07 18:15:30 · 25 answers · asked by latora_king 1

I dated a guy about 4 years ago for about 5 months. We only had sex twice in that time. He was older than me (about 18 years) and I quickly decided the relationship wasn't right for me. But, after 4 years, he still calls me at least twice a month. He still tells me that he loves me and wants us to get back together. I haven't initiated contact with him since I broke things off 4 years ago. I'm in another relationship now with someone I think I could marry. I don't want anything to do with this man, but he won't take NO for an answer. He rides by my house. He calls me at work. He calls my cell phone and blocks his number. I've changed my number more than once, but he always manages to get it somehow. I don't know what else I can do to make him understand that it is OVER between us and that I DON'T LOVE HIM! What else can I do? I really need some good advice.

2007-10-07 18:09:12 · 2 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1

2007-10-07 18:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by h_evers 2

I met a guy he lives an hour away should we be meeting 1/2 way or he should come to my side of town??

2007-10-07 17:58:17 · 18 answers · asked by latora_king 1

Im pissed at this guy im kinda seeing and i dont know if i should be or not.


he has a cousin who hates me.
and tells him all these lies about me; saying im too emotional and mean and get aggravated really easily.

and the whole time he is telling me its not true. but to me it doesnt matter cuz he isnt defending me or nothing. He is just listening to what she is saying and then telling me.

And the thing is; she doesnt even know me. Like ive met her twice. and she only talked to me for like 10 minutes the first time i met her.

DO i have a right to be mad?

2007-10-07 17:51:54 · 4 answers · asked by Ace 1

I just finished an emotonal holiday with a guy friend that once used to be so promising for future relationship, yet ended 2 days ago. Due to the long distance reality, and he is still not sure what he really wants with me, and he thinks that he is not so sentimentally invlved with me, although he cares a lot about me. Now I am so scared how I can cope with my new work and learn neaw skills there. I have not got new friends at my new work place yet, and suddenly everything in the worls started looking very daunting. How can I pick myself up again? What is the best way to concentrate on work without feeling like crying and doing nothing?

2007-10-07 17:50:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I had sex for the first time when I was 23, yes 23 - no nastyness please, I was really dissapointed - I remember actually doing it and thinking ' is this what all the fuss is about'

I was into some very advanced masturbation techniques before I actually had sex.

Was anybody else - guys - dissapointed??

2007-10-07 17:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by lucylonglegs 1

I don't know whether i want to love him and be friends with him or not, He really hurt me and i don't know what to do

2007-10-07 17:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by Samantha 2

2007-10-07 17:24:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy in my class (i'm in 8th grade). I'm shy and am a little afraid because he turned down like 5 other girls. I used to sit next to him and i think he likes me but i'm not sure. He playfully teases me in front of people ( his and my friends) , he takes my pens,highliters,etc.. and teases me that he has them , he gave me is sn and cell numberr. From a guys point of view .. does he like me? and if so how can i approach him?

2007-10-07 17:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and this kid went to the movies and we kissed we are only friends though but he is always flirting with me..but now he wont talk to me and i dont understand why...i kind of like him but i dont know why he wont talk to me now

2007-10-07 17:10:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now and we both love each other to death. But everytime we get into a fight or argument (mostly her fault, trust me) I go through the same cycle of me not speaking to her for days, then she says sorry and I forgive and forget, while nothing changes really. and then we repeat this cycle a few weeks later, and so on. It's starting to get really old and I feel I'm always just trying to make her happy. Has anyone experienced this?

2007-10-07 17:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by ladiesman217 2

alright so theres this girl I knida like and I never see her outside of our club that we are in I only seen her once outside the our club, our club meet every 2 weeks, i dont see her so I cant really talk to her and I really havent talked with her alot, just a little. but I want a date with her, to see if i really like her. How would I tell her, should I just say the next time I see her,"what are you doing this weekend" or talk with her a little more than ask., How should I do this

2007-10-07 16:57:25 · 3 answers · asked by battle14 2

About a year ago I joined a self help group, and after a few months a guy who I realy like asked me out, but he was still seeing someone, I was upset because I wanted to date him but not hidden on the side I told him so in fact I really lost it with him.
Then I felt realy bad. Over time we became friendlier I knew he had broken up with his girl friend so I asked him for a kiss he said no but then a few weeks later he asked me for a kiss , he came to my house a few times and we had sex. Then I started to want a little more, to go out, to spend a night together to get closer. he started backing off and I started to feel anxious and insecure and defensive and I landed up saying some things I regret, I told him maybe we should be just friends and he said he had wanted that for a long time but didn´t want to hurt me. Now 2weeks later has given a job to a girlfriend a new woman. We never went out, out and it only lasted a few weeks. He´s still friendly but I´m realy hurt .

2007-10-07 16:55:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

atleast not yet thats what he says. i cant see myself spending alot of time with someone with no prospects of getting married. also we have sex and i feel sad after every time. my family does not believe in premarital sex, what do i do? he says he cant see himself beng a husband just yet.

2007-10-07 16:50:11 · 18 answers · asked by asking 1

2007-10-07 16:36:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this adorable guy at church whom I'd like to become friends with. He's got a girlfriend, so I just want to get to know him as a friend. We don't go to the same school...so we don't really have that to talk about. I've added him on my facebook...but I don't really know him all that well...

Is there any way I can break the ice at church? Or on facebook? I'd like to get to know him...

Would this be considered sleazy/man-stealing-esque?

2007-10-07 16:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Victoria_Sunshine 1

There was this guy I rejected by an accident. I hope he saw how freaked out I was. He was the first person to ever admit that he liked me and I froze up and said no. Do you think that maybe, after a month, he'll try to get me again?

2007-10-07 16:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 2

2007-10-07 16:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She called me in the middle of the night drunk and was crying over an exboyfriend of hers from 2 years ago. I really took this to be rude and dissrespectful. I called her the next day and said I think we shouldn't talk to each other anymore because she clearly has feelings still for her ex and has zero feelings for me. I said I was not her therapist or her girlfriend. I just wanted to be her boyfriend. I don't want to be on the backburner. In my opinion, if a girl likes you, she won't call you about her ex no matter what. She has been contacting me 9 mos. Its been 9 months and she still refuses to be my gfriend. Still no affectiontelling me she was not ready to be together and would just hurt me.I think its just because she is not over him. Did I do the right thing here? She hasn't called me since, just texted "Well I'm gonna miss you". I guess it doesn't bother her much. What would you do if the girl you liked was crying about her ex from two years ago? Would you stop talking to her?

2007-10-07 16:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by D 1

I'm just feeling sad for some reason. I feel like no one likes me!

2007-10-07 16:21:18 · 4 answers · asked by buriedalive 2

2007-10-07 16:18:09 · 18 answers · asked by Nyne 1

this is short simple, me and my girlfreind were making out. I was kissing her on the neck and she was really loving it. I look out of the corner of my eye, and she hed pulled her shirt down with her finger. I moved over to the exposed part of her chest, and then began kissing her there, she then said that was as far down as her shirt would go, kind of pushed me back. She then pulled her shirt up, and I began kissing her all over her chest. The question here is what do you guys make of this, we are both happy with the way this makeout session went, but I am slightly confused. I was just woundering if anyone had experienced something similar, or what point of a relationship this is?

2007-10-07 16:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this lady via email, she told me sge is terminally ill and asked me to manage her fortune. I want to know if she's being real or scamming me?

2007-10-07 16:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by blackgal925 1

Okay…so a guy friend called me and asked if we could get a cup of coffee together. So, we met up and the entire time was magical. We have so much in common and we were laughing the whole time. Also, he paid for both of us and told me to get whatever I wanted. In addition, he hugged me, which he’d never done before. I felt such a strong connection with him, and left feeling so happy. Later he texted me and told me that he had a really good time and to keep in touch. He also said good night and put a smiley winking face. I replied back that I had a good time too, and we should keep in touch. Okay…so…Now what? So, should I call him or wait for him to call. I get the feeling that he likes me a lot, and I like him too, but I don’t want to chase him away by being too forward. I feel like things definitely have the potential to move to the next level. The trouble is that he has a much busier schedule than me, and I don’t know which days he’s available. Also, he has a car and I don’t. Does that change the rules for who calls who next?

2007-10-07 16:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by lovefool1050 3

We were dating for over a year when he had to leave the country - he had to go back home to be with his family (his dad died). A few months later, and we're still arguing because he can't call me (he can't get phone cards there, and hasn't found a way to be able to call) and he doesn't email me (he's not an email person, though he has a computer) - he expects me to call all the time. He leaves for weekends without telling me, leaving me wondering where he is. I've always been sure that he loves me, we've talked about marriage, he says he'd never cheat on me. I haven't talked to him for five days, and I haven't gotten an email either. I'm under a lot of stress at school right now - a LOT - and he knows this, and I've begged him to email me more, so that I know I can count on him to be there for me. He swore he would. I don't know what to do, I love him, but it's driving me crazy! I admitted I'm insecure and I need him to reassure me, all he needs to do is email me, and he won't.

2007-10-07 15:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by jessie99 1

I know it may sound stupid, but what is the difference between a guy calling you hot or sexy, and a guy calling you beautiful? If a guy uses this line, is he just trying to see how far he can get you to go off of flattery, or does it mean he likes you? What does it mean?

2007-10-07 15:50:56 · 18 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1

Anyone know what the difference would be if any with a couple with an age difference such as this??

2007-10-07 15:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3

What is it called when someone chases you around trying to take off all your closing or holding you and trying to do that, im trying to prove something to my friend about this, what is it called? when someone does that?

2007-10-07 15:47:55 · 17 answers · asked by joey p 1

8 years ago I lost my best friend, my neighbour I grow up with and gf into a car accident... and her family and our friends thought it was my fault for what happen... I also felt highly depress and guilt and kept apologizing to everyone and not even my own sibling was going to forgive me... but I never meant to cause any harm... it really was an accident... I come from a trip.. I hadn’t seen her in two weeks and I missed her soo bad so I went to surprise her at her work.... with gifts... a heart necklace with our pictures inside... I saw one of her co worker at the mall on my way to see my gf and she asked me to come along cause I had a car and she was very seductive with me and start to touching me and I respectfully explained to her how important my gf is to me but she kept pushing herself on me... I was a young boy but I still stood up for what I thought was right... and when I pull the car to the parking lot some how I ended up on top of her on the back seat and it was an intense hot sex that we both just give yourself in and I know I should have stop but I didn’t and when I saw my gf coming toward my car I asked the other girl to hide in the back seat and my gf was all happy see me and very tired from work. So we kept driving with my literally shaking in fear of what will happen next and we were listing to radio and my gf was singing a long nothing compares to you by O'Connor and when the song ended she heard the other girl who was hiding behind her seat and saw her in the side mirror and she screamed and was soo scared and she also saw she was half dress and she asked me if I just had sex with her she seem really disappointed... I said no baby no I didn’t she turn nuts and she said she need to get away from me and she opened her door and stepped out from the car while I was driving in the middle of express way and after that day my world turn black... I have been charge for trying commit suicide because I was depress and I wanted to take my life for her just like she did for me and after all these yrs I try to reborn myself and have a normal life nothing seems to help me forget her... every girl I see... every song I hear.. everything still reminds me of her and the last look she gave me... How do let go of her.. I have tried plenty of counseling it just not helping... these Dr. doesn’t understand me or believe I was in love with her

2007-10-07 15:47:12 · 1 answers · asked by RICK 1