Singles & Dating - 3 October 2007

I've just moved in with my boyfriend, which is fantastic by the way, the problem is that i've moved from Glasgow to Oxford, distance being about 400miles. so all my real good friends are miles away. The next major problem is that my boyfriend leaves for work about 5am and gets back bout 3 or 4pm, which is when i leave for work.

Dont get me wrong, its much better than before because when i was living in scotland the whole long distance thing wasnt really working. but now i'm lonely as hell, spend the whole day on my own and dont see very many people... i dunno what to do bout it... any ideas??

2007-10-03 23:59:54 · 22 answers · asked by dom c 4

theres this guy at my school who isnt in my grade, we aint in any of the same classes or anything, im interested in him. i dont know how i found him lol. how can i get him to notice me without me going and talking to him lol, thats just riduculos :) im shy. got any tecniques girls??? and boys.. lol haha like accidently walking into him??? :) hehe

2007-10-03 23:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4

We've been together for 4 years. And I'm 22. He's 23. Also, when I said we might get married, he said: "Yeah, I've thought about it a few times." And then when I didn't say anything back, he was like: "Okay, so I guess you don't have anything to say about that, *chuckles*." So I was like "what do you want me to say?" He says: "Nothing."

Anyways, I feel like this is a really big step. And it's weird, because before, all I ever wanted was for him to step up and take it to that "next level." But now that he actually has, I have cold feet. He even asked if he should put my name on the lease while he's looking. Of course, I said "no" to that, but...still. There may be a proposal looming in the near future, and I'm not sure what to think about that. I mean, I'm really excited, and all, but...is moving in with him really such a good decision? On one hand, I'm excited about it, but on the other, I can see my future as a separate person washing away...what should I do?

2007-10-03 23:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Angelisurifrie 1

2007-10-03 23:31:59 · 12 answers · asked by Mekana 5

Why Love is considered "The Most Powerful Magic of All" and given as a "Gift"? While sadness is "The Most Hurtful Feeling" and happiness is "The Most Light-Souled Body". I know every feeling is different, but why Love is very different?

2007-10-03 23:11:11 · 3 answers · asked by Boring Person 2

are you lucky in love .or have you ,yet too meet the right person .

2007-10-03 22:54:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had proposed a girl 2months back......she said no to me.
Initially dint speak to me and avoided me.......but now she speaks to me as friend......we are colleagues in the same company..
She told me tht she never thought abt me in such a way, and only saw me as a friend..

Initially she told me tht she had a boyfriend.....I knw its a big lie.
If not tht guy would hve spoken to me by now right...??


Will a girl ever change her decision after saying NO for the first time.....She is very good looking....
But no idea what she expects from her life partner...

What do girls like......being emotional or being tough....
Should i stop speaking to her....??

She has not understood how much i love her....

2007-10-03 22:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kiran 1

Is a 13 year old turning 14 next month too young to go out with a 16 year old turning 17 next month? im not but i like a guy who is turning 17

2007-10-03 22:31:13 · 22 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4

what to get a 24 yr old boy for his bday, he is my bf and want to get him something maybe he could keep forever, nothing too cheesy??

2007-10-03 22:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend's name is mae.
she's an ultimate two timer .
she's a lesbian.
i broke up with her before because she had an affair with other girl but now we were back in each others arms.
i really do love her.

2007-10-03 22:11:32 · 3 answers · asked by sheryl 1

because this is sort of the deal with me and my boyfriend. we've been together for 8 months. in mid july/beginning august i started to get distant towards him (avoiding romantic moments, ...) because i got afraid of how close we had grown before that. since then i've been struggling with this. near the end of august he was really sad/hurt about it, we talked about it and i told him it would stop.
now it has already gotten better, but i don't initiate kisses, hugs and sex anymore. do not get me wrong, i do respond when he kisses me and stuff, i'm just not the one making the moves anymore - while i did do this a lot more before.
so i guess i've become less affectionate... and he's texting me less lately... i want to change both of these things: better contact during week (cause i already only see him once a week due to me being at a dorm) and initiating more myself again.
but is the lack of contact due to me being less affectionate you think? would this be normal guy-reaction?

2007-10-03 21:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Imagine, When your mother and your Girlfriend or Boyfriend are in danger, who is the only one you will save? When they are sinking in the middle of the ocean and you are given a chance to save one life, who is the one you will save? Your Mother or your Partner? Do you take the risk?

2007-10-03 21:38:04 · 18 answers · asked by hotman 2

Does penis envy even exist? I am a woman who has heard of this penis envy in the most literal way.. Why would a woman have penis envy?? I love what I have and I would not give it up for the world.. It takes up a whole lot less space and it pleasures me in the most amazing way and most of the time, I do the less work for the most pleasure...not to mention, ours are the sexiest... what are your thoughts???

2007-10-03 21:30:15 · 7 answers · asked by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6

Will it succeed? Former Hollywood madam Heidi Fleiss is making plans for a legal brothel for women. The operation would be Nevada’s first legal bordello catering exclusively to female customers. It still needs approval from the Nye County Liquor and Licensing Board, and Fleiss said she plans to submit an application within the next three months.

Would you attend? Do you think the brothel will succeed? Why or why not?

What suggestions would you have for it to succeed?

2007-10-03 21:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by Marks 1

Should a person be fearful and stay away from person they love when know they can have in an instant?

2007-10-03 21:25:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 18 years old, brown hair, green eyes, 63kg (size 12-14), 168cm, c-cup.

My friends and family say I'm a beautiful girl with a beautiful personality, guys online love me but I've never been asked out or anything face to face.

I was teased a horrible amount as a child by boys and found it hard to talk to them face to face but I think I've improved so I dont understand why they dont like me :(

2007-10-03 21:22:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

then again some say not untill your 21.

2007-10-03 20:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 20:49:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night i went to go and see my parents and the lad that im seeing came with me. the thing is on the way home he blurted out that i like to show a lot of cleavage when we go out drinking, and that i shouldnt do it as he felt unhappy at other men looking at me. i asked him if he thought i dressed like a tart and he didnt say anything. the thing is i rarely wear skirts and yes maybe sometimes i show a little cleavage but its not like their hanging out like some girls iv seen. i dont know what to say to him. i havent spoken to him since last night. what would you say to him?

i dont think he realised he hurt my feelings.

2007-10-03 20:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is stupid to ask, I guess i'm just venting really... I just found out my ex boyfriend passed away after having a lot of health problems for a long time and I am sad, but I feel i should feel worse, I'm not sure if it just hasnt sunk in or if I am at peace with it already because I know he is happier... I guess I just want people to tell me i'm not horrible for not being so upset. I'm really worried about going to the viewing tomorrow because i think ill break down, i know i'll probably regret it if i don't. Ahhh.

2007-10-03 20:00:44 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

so this guy that i've been talking to for quite sometime just informed me that his house is going to be empty for the weekend, and that i should come over and watch a movie with him, and he's gonna make dinner. i'm not going out with him, so is this a setup to get in my pants or to actually be a romantic evening.?

2007-10-03 19:59:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance of 4 yrs got my name tattooed on his left arm, fro; his elbow down to his wrist. I kinda made him do it to prove that he loves me, and he did.
I also got his name tattooes behind my neck.

But the thing is, I still dont have complete trust in him, I'm still paranoid he'll cheat on ,e. But who will date a guy with another girls name toattooed on his arm right?

2007-10-03 19:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Gwen 3

This guy asked to meet up with me last Monday. We've been e-mailing each other while he's deployed. The ship that he was on just arrived last Sunday.

So he drove to my house and waited in front of the door. He took me to a nice Italian restaurant. While in the car, we talked a lot about cars, drums, and Bodies exhibit (as he loved cars and drums and I love the Bodies exhibit). He tried so many times to tickle me while I had my seatbelt on. We flirted a lot. HE SILENTLY REACHED FOR MY RIGHT HAND AND ATTEMPTED TO KISS IT. I was super paranoid about being tickled so, not knowing what he was about to do, I grabbed my hand away from him.

So we arrived at the mall and while looking for the restaurant at the directory list, he slightly touched my back. I did cling onto his right arm while we walked.

We headed back to the car. He opened the car door for me. His hand was on my thigh while driving and I held his hand. He held my hand in return.

BUT HE DID NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT 2ND DATE.

2007-10-03 19:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

on the front homepage.
it has a side of the world with a hurricane and a astroid coming down to Earth?

i don't understand, is that an astroid?

2007-10-03 19:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this girl for quite some time now, but we haven't had sexual intercourse. Although, we do pretty much everything else but that. She says she is a virgin but she can spread her lips pretty wide. Is this proof to the contrary?

2007-10-03 19:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a very pretty girl, not judging myself but people say it and I know it with a very good shape. I have a lot of guys running after me, so many and yet I'm single though my last relationship was about a year ago. I keep telling myself I haven't found the right person, yet the more I keep meeting guys, The more lonely I become. Is this alrite or normal?

2007-10-03 19:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by Val 1

I recently watched a Kama Sutra Movie and learnt that there are 100s of positions which i have never tried/experienced and some seemed like extremely tempting and exciting.

Does any one know how many are there in total?

2007-10-03 19:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the rules on the "DOUBLE DOG DARE" technique.

The person who dared me also has an ex, and I would like to play the "double dog dare you" card, but I fear the "triple dog dare" in response.

2007-10-03 19:16:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a bit confused with the sleeping style. Sometimes my b/f stays over at my place and will sleep in my bed with me. Since it is my bed, he lets me lead, but I don't know if he should follow. I have two questions;
1) If I sleep nude, is he expected to be naked too?
2) If I do not want to sleep nude, is he expected to stay clothed or be nude?

I want to know how other people opinions.

2007-10-03 19:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by Erin Bran 1

My boyfriend and I have decided to take the big step and make love. Still, I heard a lot of girls saying that it hurts a lot the first time. How much *does* it hurt, really? Do you have any hints or tips so that it wouldn't hurt so much? Thanks a bunch.

2007-10-03 19:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Kino Yuki 2