Singles & Dating - 3 October 2007

CLOSE friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

in the beginning as friends we would always be on the phone talking almost every night - we enjoy each other 's company. we've been growing up and changing and now the phone isn't really the best way to "talk" and see what's up with him; esp. after that "thing" we had - i called him today wonderin where he was and if he could mt up for a min and he said he had to work BUT said he was goin to be studying all day tomorrow and said he would be down for "hanging out" then - good?

2007-10-03 19:09:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell a girl that I like her

2007-10-03 19:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

or licked? what is it about the ear? what kind of feeling do you get with it?

2007-10-03 18:56:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does absolute trust plays safe?

2007-10-03 18:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Nimit 2

2007-10-03 18:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Peter 4

2007-10-03 18:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by ames 3

me and Nate are boyfriend and girlfriend 4 a week. he likes to playfully flirt with guys and girls. (being Bi i can understand that ) and this guy thats gay hates me by saying " **** u u whore" "u *****" "**** you" and is all over Nate. Well during th period (high school ) he got a note from him saying i want to go out with you ( hes gay ) and i looked happy. but i really feel upset...i don't know if i should let him go or fight for the guy i love. ( me and him are like hugging and kissing eachother alot) but i'm nervous to ask him if he wants to date him... ( i'm emotionaly unstable so its kinda hard ).....i need some good help... i'm listening to Linkin Park "Valentines Day" and its making me feel like i should give him to Junior.....what should i do

2007-10-03 17:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by Marie 1

It doesn't work does it?
Do you think if you are still sleeping with your ex, your both in denial about still being together.
Should sex stop if the relationship isn't working out.
Would like your thoughts on this subject.

2007-10-03 17:46:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a guy who can be like this

- draws really well
- loves anime
- shy, sweet, sensitive, EXTREMELY quiet
- asian
- dresses somewhat emo ;3
- tall, 5'5+ or so
- 13+

I know really really high standards and stuff, but hey i want a guy yakno?

2007-10-03 17:43:15 · 8 answers · asked by tenshihyuuga 2

It's not a prosituite so don't say that..I like to know the good and the bad..your view point of the other women..why you seek mistress too..

2007-10-03 17:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on this guy who I can tell really likes me atleast as a friend. we're not just friends, we're close friends because he calls me at night and has told me he really cares about being close to me and talking to me. the thing is, he has a girlfriend. and he still calls me. its like he doesn't like talking to his gf. they've only been going out for 2 1/2 weeks and the whole relationship was totally set up by his gf's friends. i dont know if i should feel guilty about liking him. when he calls me, I always forget he even has a gf and i flirt with him until i realize, oh sh*t, he has a gf.

2007-10-03 17:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a couple of questions, im 19 :) does it really hurt for the first time? since i have NO experience what so ever, im not sure if im going to be good. what should i do, i mean to not feel so shy. please no silly answers! thanks!

2007-10-03 17:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by brens 3

...that they are trying to get to know you in a romantic way. In America when I try to make chit chat it seems like a lot of women think that I'm coming on to them. But most of the time I'm not and usually just trying to talk about everyday things. Then I feel like they think I'm strange. Maybe I'm just imagining or doing something wrong.

I find women in America a little harder to approach in everyday settings than in Europe. Do you think this is true or is it just my experience? Maybe people in my area like to keep to themselves.

2007-10-03 16:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by DF25 1

even among the roughest of girls?

2007-10-03 16:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will get married soon but i don't know any thing about sex
i never had any friend who helped me with this and i never ask anyone.I am a girl i don't know ...how i should react at that time and what i have to do.And that too how i should tell my husband that i am not ready for kids now.Should i ask him about sex before marriage or it will look stupid to ask like that
thanks.

2007-10-03 16:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd LOVE some nice tips and what works for you.

2007-10-03 16:46:42 · 26 answers · asked by gwynth s 2

2007-10-03 16:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by carlis b 1

I have found this. They won't wear pink cause they think it's too girly and they won't admit to having a crush on someone of the same sex (not that I would want them too).

I think if your secure in your sexuality you wouldn't care how you are precieved by other guys and if you wear girly colors.

2007-10-03 16:34:17 · 5 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

Have you broken-up with sumone cause ur head told you too but ur heart said don't let go and you listened to ur brain! I hate that I am in that situation and I just want to talk to him!!!

2007-10-03 16:29:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he doesnt have a job but he make me feel like im the most important thing in his life and im falling for him hard. i feel like everyone around me is judging me for being with him like im wasting my time. but does it make him a bad person for not having a job.

2007-10-03 16:17:18 · 45 answers · asked by lilblondielj 1

I need some opinions on this one.My boyfriend and i have lived together for the last 2yrs.When we met we both knew that we wanted to be involved with someone who eventually wanted marriage.My question is how long should i wait for a proposall?We briefly discuss the idea but nothing has happend.We have had arguements regarding this situation and the generall answer is "Just wait you will get everything you want".What the hell?Please what would you do?

2007-10-03 16:11:22 · 15 answers · asked by do4107 1

So i think im falling for my organic chemistry professor. Im 19 and hes about 35. I cant help these feelings. Everytime I see him, I get all nervous and i can feel my heart beating faster. I cant stop thinking about him. Im starting to go to his office to talk to him. I think about him all the time. What can i do to stop these feelings!!!

Additional Details
He makes eye contact w/ me all the time, and asks me to visit him.


hes not married. Seems to me like hes flirting back.

2007-10-03 15:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by lost_in_afantasy 2

Not planning to be in another one soon because honestly I don't need the drama right now but could do with some sex badly :( Jesus I wish women could be more like guys about this and have sex with whoever they want but then I'm sure "society" wouldn't approve. So whats a girl to do?

2007-10-03 15:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by hi 3

How do u make a mum? complete details. im a newbie =) my mom's gonna make it for me since its so friggin expensive. is the mum the flower? and what supplies should we buy?

2007-10-03 15:40:06 · 2 answers · asked by whimsicality. 2

ok im 16 and i like this girl and she 14 or 15? Well im a teachers aide for her class and we always tlk and well today she asked me if i had a GF and who i liked. Does this mean she likes me???

2007-10-03 15:38:44 · 14 answers · asked by K129 1

my friend and i have been hanging out for about a yr and 1/2. at first we were into each other, but because work got in the way on the weekends, we stopped speaking for 3-4 months. i finally regained the courage to talk to her on a constant basis and we became friends again. she was even my prom date. but because at times i was moody (hangover from prom) and we'd have little arguements about stupid stuff (it'd blow over after a day or so). then this summer, we both went on vacation, hers ending a week before mind. we i'd gotten back, she didn't call. i waited about a week then while frustrated, i called her and got angry. the following week i called her to apologize and i asked her why she didnt contact me in over a month. she finally confessed and sed she's had a boyfriend for 3 weeks. the next 2 weeks we continued back and forth arguing about whether or not what she did was wrong.i felt like she cud've at least told me, we'd talk all the time on the phone i'd tell her i was into her

2007-10-03 15:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by Chris K 1

how many times he/she messed up,lies,cheating and arguments

2007-10-03 15:31:32 · 1 answers · asked by Gabz 1

(i know this is a repost, but i didnt get many answers)
ok, I REALLY like this Japanese exchange girl at my school. I was one of the first people to talk to her when she came here, and I'm one of the only people that talks to her. She doesnt speak much english. i talk to her, but im always the one talking and whenever anyone talks to her, she rarely says anything but yes or no. i know she likes hello kitty and playing cards and the band BUMP OF CHICKEN (Japanese rock), but thats all i know. she never really seems interested in anyone, but I want to be able to talk to her and finally break the ice a little more!
HELP

2007-10-03 15:31:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked this guy for quite some time, but never got the courage to say anything to him, and he got a girlfriend over the summer and they are still dating, but then my best friend was told by one of my guy friends that he liked me, i don't like him for anything more than a friend. What should I do?

2007-10-03 15:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

Is 'cause with live together but theres is nothing going on, and i like this new guy wish he does not know this situation @ this moment. What can i tell him?

2007-10-03 15:19:00 · 4 answers · asked by Ebonny1 2