Singles & Dating - 1 October 2007

I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR FIVE YEARS IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, HE NEVER DISCLOSES TO ANYONE THAT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND AND I FIND THAT STRANGE, HE NEVER TALKS ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ITS MAKING ME REALLY INSECURE. HE CONSTANTLY FLIRTS WITH OTHER GIRLS HOWEVER SINCE I FEEL I KNOW MY BOYFRIEND I KNOW THE FLIRTING IS HARMLESS AND HE IS ONLY DOING IT TO MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER ABOUT HIMSELF. HE RECENTLY TOOK HIS EX OUT FOR DINNER AND NEVER TOLD ME ABOUT IT HOWEVER HE GETS ANGRY WHEN I TALK TO OTHER MEN. I RECENTLY GOT A LIFT TO WORK FROM HIS MATE AND HE BECAME VERY ANGRY SO HE HIT ME. PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I AM FEELING REALLY DEPRESSED. I FEEL I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM!

2007-10-01 23:56:25 · 18 answers · asked by kitty 1

On a scale from 1-10, how submissive are you to your man.

2007-10-01 23:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by YOU BETCHA 2

2007-10-01 23:05:12 · 3 answers · asked by insecuregal 2

MEN.. what on earth is going on in your head when you act like this with a woman?
You've often flirted before and have a connection.then one day you know kisses etc but not sex (you try, she's type that waits a bit) . Seems like the usual start of something but you don't contact her next day, or next day, or next day!! Say she contacts you and suggests meeting up...and you don't reply...WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD?

2007-10-01 22:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1

Am I the only one in this world who thinks there is big difference between making love and having sex?!! I have talked to several people about this and I haven't found many people (especially guys) knowing this ... Many of them just looked puzzled once I talk to them about this ...
Okay I know sometimes someone might have a lot of feelings for another and they actually have little making love in thier sex ... but I am talking about the real making love. Here is what I think is the difference between them:
* While having sex, the feelings are just dull physical with the goal of just reaching orgasm, while making love I feel that orgasm is something I don't want to reach as it signals the end of heaven.
* During sex, a guy mostly working out the genitals and using the kissing and foreplay as a tool to losen the girl and get her ready for intercourse. While in making love, the couple just worship all body parts and every touch (even touching the hair) sends trembling feeling all over.

2007-10-01 22:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Wild_Stallion 2

I love having sex and could do it about 20 times a day, is it just nature or am I a sex addict ?

Sometimes I've stayed of work just to lay in bed with a girl I've pulled, is this normal or just a high sex drive.

2007-10-01 22:15:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you run and hide, or stick with the girl and make a complete idiot out of her?

2007-10-01 22:04:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been told by many people that I am very attractive (9+ to 10, long blonde hair, blue eyes, fit/lean/ great financially ) and I have a college education and a great career...my question is I cannot for the life of me find a good guy (good looking, smart, great career,etc...etc...etc...)

Help...what am I doing wrong? Where should I go to meet great guys?

My single friends go to bars to meet guys and the rest of my friends are already married...but their husbands friends would NEVER be my type. I will go to bars occassionally but I follow a body building/ fittness model diet and work out and really cannot drink to much.

Can you please help...seriously...ANY ADVICE?

2007-10-01 21:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by Calisofie 3

We work in two different departments and I see him occasionaly when he comes up to my floor. I feel like I am sooooo infatuated by him, like, this is the biggest crush I have ever had in my life. My heart skips a beat when he comes around and I can't breathe when he is close to me. I just want to reach out and stroke him, just one nice looooonnnng time. When he is talking to me, I just want to kiss him and start making out right then and there. He was sitting very closely behind me the other day rocking his leg and it was tapping my azz. It was driving me crazy so I slid up. I'm not sure if he knows that I like him yet but I want to make it known to him very soon. He asked when was the next time that I worked and it just so happens that I'm on the same schedule as him. Somebody please tell me... What do I do?

2007-10-01 21:47:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it true if you guys have been hurt in your past relationship you get scared to be commited to someone else again?

2007-10-01 21:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, please look at this situation: you have a female friend that you have flirted with a bit in the past...you're not really close friends but sort of friends. Then she's in your area and you hook up and kiss plus bit more. You're on for sex but she isn't (but she doesnt explain its because she needs time & likes to take it slowly). Is it most likely that you feel something for this girl and would like to go out with her or are you just looking for some and strung her along in the hopes that you could get it?

2007-10-01 21:41:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got in to a relationship (stupidly) with a guy who had just recently broken up with his ex-gf (just over a month). initially, i genuinely to just want to be his friend and help him thru his breakup. little did i know, he was the nicest guy i know and i started to fall for him.he treated me well (but obviously he was rebounding). anyway,he realised it and broke it off with me telling me he needs time to sort out his still existing feelings for hs ex. i was crushed initially and went thru various levels of reaction..ranging from denial to desperation.in the end, i realised what i was doing and agreed to give him time.i told him if he wants me to leave but he wouldn't say.he just keeps telling me to give him time.i have since start to contact him less but still drop him a line once in a while to show support. thing is..this is killing me.i'm hurting like hell but i know i cant force someone to like or accept me when they are not ready. i want so much to cut all ties but i still care=(

2007-10-01 21:40:21 · 10 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2

How do you get a guys attention in a bar...without being sleazy

2007-10-01 21:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by Calisofie 3

we've been friends for some time already. some things he does include.. telling me stories and asking qns about me when we do talk.he smiles and mumbles alot when he talks to me. and when we walk together, he slows his pace. changed his bus route for mine once and made like he wanted my no but kept his phone.

he avoids physical contact and when other guys talk to me he stares alot. he texted me continuously for 4 days though he had an exam and always ended with a qn.

ok, he stared alot at me in class all year, he'd choose seats opposite me or somethin. when i used to catch him, he'd look away. now, he holds my gaze. we hardly talk in class..and i'm too embarrassed to say hi or look at him. however, i do text him if ever, out of the blue.. just to let him know im interested.

is that enough..? and lessons are ending soon, is it ok to ask him out? thanks =)

2007-10-01 21:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 2

My gf and I have a long distance relationship untill I graduate. (im in KY shes in MO) When I do graduate I am moving there and staying at my friends house there for minmal rent. Anyway, our relationship has been rocky lately at best, and shes been "breaking up then unbreaking up with me" and thats driving me crazy and making me upset. OK, so the other day I told her my parents where getting me a new guitar for my 18th bday next week, and she got mad about it saying I dont need it because I already have 5 other guitars, and that I should ask for money for when I move there. However, I have wanted this gutiar for a long time (Gibson LP Custom) Last night she broke up with me again "for good" and I was extremly depressed. I cried, puked, i was a mess. So this morning with and "idc anymore" attitude I went and bought the guitar myself, and just asked my parents for $$ for moving there. She called me 2day "undo the breakup". How do i tell her i got the guitar w/o pissing her off?

2007-10-01 21:27:05 · 16 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

2007-10-01 21:19:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hooked up with this girl 5 weeks ago twice, then i told her i couldnt because i still liked my ex. i ended up getting back with my ex, and she started a relationship with a guy in texas. bear in mind we live in california. my gf lives in connecticut, and im probably going to end it in a week if not 2. my question is, if this girl and i have remained friends, but friends who talk about the pitfalls of our relationships and stuff, how can i go about getting her to break up with her bf for me? any tips on how to sway her to coming for me? im about to make a cadet move and break up with my gf for this purpose so please give good advice here.

2007-10-01 21:18:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy recently on the net . I've met him in person also. We've casually been out a couple of times (just for lunch/coffee/shopping). We know each other quite well & I know I can trust him. So please..when you answer my question, don't tell me not to trust people i have met on the net :)

So anyway, he has had 2 "online/phone" relationships with girls who are overseas...far away...whom he's never met in person. When he was in that relationship they had even considered marriage! One of these two girls is now engaged to someone else but this gal is still VERY GOOD friends with him. They are VERY close. Mind you, they have never met in person but yet they are very close (platonic)

So my question is, we've been on 2 "dates" so far & 3e talk very frequently on the phone. He still has not made any "moves" on me. So do you think he just wants friendship with me or is he scared to make the moves on me? We have known each other for about 6 months now.

Pls give me ur opinion. Thanks!

2007-10-01 21:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her, and I am hurting so bad to finally do this, but i have to break it off with my gf of over 2 years. Shes been mean to me, controlling, wont let me spend my money how i want, talks bad about my family, puts me down, spys on methrough my emails, kissed another guys neck, wont let me have the career i want if i stay with her, and keeps breaking up with me on and off, and gets mad at me for every little thing i do (like calling the suicide hotline when she told me she was gonna kill herself and stopped answering her phone).. however.. when she doesnt do this she is sweet and nice and she is very beautiful and she even took me on a date last month.. but i cant deal with what shes doing. i know its going to hurt her very bad and i want to do it as painlessly as possible, bc i know its going to hurt me very deeply too.. so I have 2 things i need help with. 1. how can i break up with her gently. 2. How can i deal with it, i dont even know what its like not to have her in my life.

2007-10-01 21:12:49 · 10 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

Say you live together and are a couple (of coarse )and your asleep on the couch and she cant sleep,is it ok to wake you for intamacy?Should she feel intimidated and nervous?

2007-10-01 21:10:54 · 12 answers · asked by wherestasha 2

This girl at class, we always have a good chat, but theres this really wierd thing she does, everytime im about to leave, ill be like seeya and nearly walk off..., then she really slowly and quietly(really quietly)mumbles " see you later...and sometimes she gets half way thought "later" and stops....its really cute, but is she trying to show her feelings towards me?, we always talk now, at the start she used to be shy, now shes opened up heaps, and talks to me alot!
im from canada, and goto canada high school if that makes any difference

2007-10-01 21:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by dinnn 1

there's a girl whom i don't know very well, but a little. friend of a friend.

tonight, i saw her for the first time since the spring. she said several times that i looked nice and complimented some of the stuff i was wearing, even though i wasn't dressed up, really. she also laughed at my jokes. both of us are straight and single.

i have lost some weight and got some new clothes since i saw her last. (i didn't change for her, obviously.)

is this a sign of attraction, or just nothing?

2007-10-01 21:07:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She also gives me false intensions. Wy would she do something lie that?

2007-10-01 20:59:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl in my college is sooo nice...i mean i've had a HUGE crush on her...She sits beside me in Chem lab but English is my second language and im just afraid that i wont be able to have a good communication with her...i mean i can almost speak about random things but when it comes to joking or some other things i have some difficulties to understand or talk....but im really into her !!! GOD...i dont know what i should do !!!i cant stop thinking about her ! i will do anything to get her but im just afraid...

2007-10-01 20:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by Ali 4

What is it that I’m feeling?
Is it luv or is it my lonliness calling out to me?
Day or night…you are on my mind
Awake or asleep….it is you I think of
And it doesn't seem to stop…
Tell me what it is
Is it luv…or is it just my lonliness calling out out to me?

2007-10-01 20:52:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

amongst general popularity census we nowadays see that women more than men prefer anal sex....
is there more safety than fear from pregnancy.
or
the fear of not to lose virginity and at the same time indulge............
please answer with seriouness.

2007-10-01 20:39:19 · 19 answers · asked by mh02m1968 2

I want out but, I've got kids, can't drive cause I'm on meds, can't leave cause it will only be more difficult and he said he'd give me hell and I know he will. I can cheat and get away with it. He does things behind my back and I always catch him lying.I'm not emotionally, physically, mentally being satisfied and though he knows what I want - he doesn't even try. I've been good to him, but I don't want to be anymore cause I 'm sick and tired of giving and getting little in return. So if you knew that I really couldn't leave- would u say it was ok to cheat?

2007-10-01 20:28:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ended it badly, with mean words and some vengeful actions (which he sorely deserved, believe me). Now he will have no contact with me (it's been well over a month). I was thinking, if I could somehow do something funny, I could make him want to be friends with me. He lives in another state, so it would have to be through mail, text, or email. It would have to be non-threatening and very funny for him to even consider talking to me...

It's possible I could run into him at the airport (he's a pilot) if I tried several times, or perhaps at the skatepark (even though he's 49, he skates) that he sometimes goes to (but I'd have to get lucky to run across him; he doesn't go that much and I don't know his schedule). I just want to figure out a way to soften all the pain we both went through.

2007-10-01 18:54:50 · 2 answers · asked by nondescript 4

My Bf lives 3 hrs away now and i see him almost every weekend but it doesnt feel the same as when he lived here. He aggrevates me more and i always feel like i care for him more than he cares for me. and thats bad cuz i dont get attached to guys easily. I feel like i dont have a good reason to dump him but at the same time he doesnt give me a good reason to stay with him. Please help

2007-10-01 18:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by t-pip 2

There is a waitress at a diner I go to a lot and she does flirting joking around with me and even gave me a nickname from our joking , there is something she does that I caught her doing again tonight when I was there and she brings it up , she makes comments that she is fat and she is not even close to fat she has a great body and everytime she brings up the fat comments to me I have to look at her body and tell her what are you nuts you look great or don't worry I will tell you when your fat , she has done this numerous times tonight it just got me thinking why the hell does she keep doing this and she also mentioned tonight something about a dress she wore 2 months ago that I told her she looked like a knock out in back then..What do you girls think this girl is thinking???

2007-10-01 18:19:32 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 6