I have been told by many people that I am very attractive (9+ to 10, long blonde hair, blue eyes, fit/lean/ great financially ) and I have a college education and a great career...my question is I cannot for the life of me find a good guy (good looking, smart, great career,etc...etc...etc...)
Help...what am I doing wrong? Where should I go to meet great guys?
My single friends go to bars to meet guys and the rest of my friends are already married...but their husbands friends would NEVER be my type. I will go to bars occassionally but I follow a body building/ fittness model diet and work out and really cannot drink to much.
Can you please help...seriously...ANY ADVICE?
2007-10-01 21:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by Calisofie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The nature of relationships is a strange one. By actively going looking for your dream guy, you're giving off an aura of power and success and while guys find it a turn on, the chances are you're also giving off an aura of control and, potentially, may even seem high maintainance.
My advice, is stop looking for your dream guy, go out and just have fun. Your man is out there somewhere and you'll find each other when the time is right.
On a side note, it sounds like the diet you're following is slightly conflicting with your social requirements. Perhaps it might be helpful to look into other options and, maybe, not push things too hard. It's also something that demands alot of time (usually - I'm generalising, not really being too specific) which means less time for you and anyone you happen to meet.
At the end of the day, it's down to doing what you feel you need to and these suggestions are there only as a guide from one person to another.
If you need further advice, please, don't call Miss Cleo:)..
Darren
2007-10-02 00:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Darren W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably scaring off a bunch of guys, and I expect you have very exacting standards so you're writing off a bunch of prospects. There are lots of beautiful people in Hollywood and some are smart, etc., so maybe you should look there.
If you could stand to do this, I think you might be more approachable if you wore baggy clothes, no makeup, and had messy hair. You might have to deal with an 8, but there are a lot more 8's than 9-10's.
2007-10-01 22:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
If you are as attractive, smart, and finacially stable as you say you are, you are probably intimidating to most men. However, your casinova will arrive someday. I would guess that it is someday in your near future. You may need to expand your horizons give some guys a chance that you normally wouldn't. If you want to meet some great guys, go to a local job fair. The men there are recruiting for great jobs and are definitly looking for single attractive women at these conventions. Be wary of one night stands though. And if all else fails.... I would help you out anytime with your problem.
2007-10-01 22:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a good person u will find a good guy
find a good hang out place where u know all the high flyers will be, and make it your fav hang out place.
read more books,do some brain workout
as u know birds of the same feathers flock together, u need to be great in order to meet and maintain someone great.
2007-10-01 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to trash places like clubs.... you'll certainly end up nothing. you're expectations are way to high. you can't find a guy with all the qualities you want. especially here in california? yes, you might find a guy you like but the question is how long is he gonna be with you? 5-10 years? i doubt it. find a decent one like in church. a person who is God fearing. one more thing, if you look very attractive they will only look for sex. thats all.
2007-10-01 22:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by jhonny knoxvil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babes it's obvios that They are all threatened by your perfect life.. You are so perfect en ther is no one who is perfect. Maybe that is the reason , You wont settle for less... Yah sure they are coming on to you but you wont go out with sumone who is not exactly like you... So try to think of other people's lives that they were not so fortunate like , by doing so'You'll never go wrong"
2007-10-01 22:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by lady"P" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loosen up, he's basically flirting with you. he's no longer looking forward to something, he might even think of he's being candy and romantic. yet on an identical time, he does not thoughts getting nekkid with you. ;) basically respond easily which you're unsure you're arranged for that yet. :)
2016-10-10 03:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking for a certain type of person, then you will never be happy with anyone, for eventually you will find fault in them...find someone you can be comfortable with in any situation...looks do not matter if you truly love the person
2007-10-01 22:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUSLY? i will give a straight answer sweetheart...
the law of attraction says "YOU ARE WHAT YOU ATTRACT and YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE..."
the universal law is always precise, it has nothing to do with chance(effect), unless you start believing in cause...
evolution starts from involution dear! STOP worrying, you will attract more worries! BUILD YOUR AURA, IT'S WHAT YOU RADIATE! luv ya
2007-10-01 22:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by kudos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to clubs, or maybe like a health spa or somthing like that? Just a couple suggestions.
2007-10-01 22:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋